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Heyy!! My name is Amber. I am 14 years old .. and I go to FHS. I'm in the 9th grade. I love to give advice, even tho some times I might not give GREAT advice .. but I'll try my hardest! I love to hang out with my friends // play sports // go on long walks // go to the beach // go to the movies // and listen to music. If you need anything, jus IM me at [xPH0T0C0PYHEARTS] and I'll be sure to answer any of your questions!

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Ok so, my crush asked me out last night so of course I said yes. I'm new to the whole dating experience, im only 14. I like him a lot, but whenever the thought of going to the movies or something comes up, I automatically make up an excuse to not go. I don't know why. I'm very co-dependant and I would be too scared to go anywhere unless it was a double date or something. He says hes okay with that but I dont know whats wrong with me. I think my main fear is making out. Yea yea laugh, but I guess im just scared to do it. I dont know whats wrong with me and why im so scared to go anywhere with him. I'll rate you high. Thx a bunch

It's normal to be shy in the beginning of a relationship. Tell him that you would be more combortable if you guys took it slow, and he'll respect that. Don't be afraid to go any where with him. Sit him down and tell him that you don't want to be pressured to do anything. Don't worry. Your not in this alone. He's probably shy too. Just take it slow to where your combortable at. Tell him to come over, and hang out of something. Do something with him that you'll be most combortable at. It doesn't always have to be going to the movies. But over time, you'll get more combortable with him. I wish you the best of luck with him!!

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okay, my friend. shes been one of the best friends i've ever had since about kindergarten or first grade. we've hung out soo much. but this year seemed a little bit different. she started to hang out with this one girl. we'll call her sandy. so "sandy", she's definitely not the kind of person you'd want to hang out with. shes known to be backstabbing, and become your friend for the wrong reason. now, "sandy" and my good friend were in this really big fight earlier in the year. my friend talked soooo much about her, it wasnt even funny. she said horrible things and made fun of her a lot. now, they've become BEST friends. my good friend, that was once my best friend is now ditching me and my other friends for "sandy". i've even heard that she's telling MY secrets to "sandy" that i didnt want anyone to know. im not sure if its just me, that thinks its kind of weird that they're really good friends now.. but i was wondering what i should do about it, if anything?

Aw, I'm really sorry about what's going on. It sounds like your best friend really isn't a true friend, and you had to find it out the hard way. She seems like she's trying to impress "Sandy". If I were you, I would try and talk to her about it. If she doesn't listen, then I would try and move on. I know it sounds hard, but maybe that's what's best. Start hanging out with new people. Start getting to know other people. Maybe then your friend will realize that she did the wrong thing. She doesn't have the right to tell your personal secrets to any one. Hope everything works out!
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i have a lot of friends. but sometimes it seems like they get annoyed with me or dont like me. it hurts my feelings a lot. and it seems like only some of my friends hang out with me because they want to hang out with the people i am. i dont know what to do. can you help?

Wow. I feel that way sometimes. Like they only hang out with you because there's no one else to hang out with? Yeah .. I feel that way all the time. What I do is hang out with the people who I really enjoy hanging out with. Hang out with the people that you know are your real friends. You shouldn't hang out with any one who you think are you friends. Hang out with the people that you trust more .. and who have always been there for you. You shouldn't hang out with people that hurt your feelings. Or try and talk to the people that you don't think like you. Talk to them and tell them all your feelings. If their your real friends, they will understand. I wish you the best of luck with everything!

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I've never been in a relationship before & I'm 13 years old. I've liked guys & they've liked me back but I've never really gone the extra step. Well now, my guy friend likes me & I like him too. We want to be more than friends but what should I expect from a relationship? Will things be weird at first?

At first, it might be kind of akward, cuz your thinking "Wow. He's my boyfriend now, not just a friend". But then you'll get used to it. Just talk to him like you did when you guys were just friends. Call him - but not like obsession. Hope everything works out with you two.
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ok so i really want to know if this guy likes me.i swim and he is on my swim team, and like when we go underwater he always smiles at me and waves, and when we do drylands he always pats me on the back or playfully hits my arm, and when we kick and stuff like that we always talk the whole way. i mean he is great, he is nice to me and everyone else, he is actualy my height and everyone likes him. whenever we go to swim meets he tells me to cheer for him because he wont do well unless i do. and he asks me to hold stuff and he just goofs around w/ me and he talks to my friends a lot. does he like me?

thnx! 5's for everyone!

Aww, he sounds really sweet! Sounds to me like he likes you. I would try and talk to him and tell him how you feel! Maybe you guys will make your relationship to the next level. Good luck with him and swimming!

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well theres this guy & he tells me he loves me & flirts all tha time but i think he's caught up on my friend & my friends say he likes me but is scared 2 "settle" with me should i wait on him or just forget about it? plz help if u can.

I know a lot of people probably already said this - talk to him. But that's your best bet. Ask him to like go on a walk or something, and then sit him down and talk to him. Maybe your guys relationship will move to the next level. Spill out your feelings for him, and he'll prob. do the same. Good luck! Hope everything works out!

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ok what is thrush and how do you get it? can you get it from making out? all details and what it looks like..symptoms..how its cured,..etc will help thanks..

Ahh. I hated getting thrush. Do you have like an expander? I had thrush 3 times when I had my braces on. I got it from not getting all the food out of my top expander, and it's like a mold I guess. If you go to the doctors, they will give you pills. Their little white tablets, and they dissolve in your mouth. You will know when you have thrush when you have white stuff at the top of your mouth. It hurts some times, but it's just an infection. Just call the doctors and they'll give you medicine for it! Good luck with everything!

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hello...well i have a boyfriend and we are doing great..teh only problem is our parents dont really like the fact of us going out...my parents dont like him and his parents are just really strict about dating...what shoudl i do? I mean i love him and he was my first kiss and we even have made out and french kissed but i mean i respect my parents but what should i do??? I dont want to break up with him cuz this month we will have been together 5 months...and trust me thats thelongest i have ever one out with a guy!
WHAT SHOULD I DO??
-stuck-

Wow. I'm sorry about your parents not approving. If I were you, I would sit down with your parents and talk to them. Ask them why they don't like him. Their has to be a reason for them not liking them. Let them explain themselves. Or ask yor boyfriend over for dinner one night, and let your parents to get to know him better. Maybe they'll start liking him when they start to know him better!! Wish you the best of luck with everything!

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my skin, like on most of my body is covered in (little) bumps. ive had them my whole like but i dont kno what they are and personally, all i want to do is get rid of them! i hate it. its not a rash or anything like that but it wont go away with lotions, exfoliation, or creams, or anything else i have tried. plz help me!!! i rate 5's!!!!!

If I were you, I would go see a doctor. It sounds a little like skin cancer - from what I heard of what skin cancer was. But yeah, a doctor would tell you what it is, and how to treat is and everything. But good luck!

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im 14 years old, and go to a really small school.

what should i do??
i mean, i have 2 friends that like the same guy that i do. i've liked him for soooo long. i've never told anyone about it.. because it would be too wierd. it prolly sounds stupid. but what should i do? i get really upset when they talk about how much they like him and everything. its really hard to hide how i feel. ya know? i was just wondering what i should do.


oh yeah, and i kinda think he likes me.. im not really positive. but i think. what if he asks me to homecoming or something? what about my best friends??


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Wow. If I were you, I would talk to your friends about it. If they are your true friends, they will understand. And I would talk to him about it. Don't hold back your feelings for him because maybe he does feel the same about you! But I would jus talk to your friends, and tell them how you feel! They will understand. But good luck with everything .. and I hope things work out with you guys!!

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Well Its always been my dream to make a cd and have it in stores and like all that stuff! well I have gotten this offer and I can get this thing its like a record deal.. you make a cd and everything and it goes in stores ALL over the world.. but its just to see how many people will like you.. and id make about $7,000.. which is like nothing.. but if alot of people got my cd.. Id get an actualy record deal and more money.. so my question is.. Should I go for that or should I just make a demo and send it to a bunch of record lables and then try to get signed by a big record lable?

please and thanks
maddie

Aw .. congratulations!! If I were you I would take the offer that you got. You get money and you could possibly get a record deal! A lot of big record deals get hundreds of demos daily. So it could be a while til` they get to yours. So your best bet would be to go with the offer that you got! I wish you the best of luck with everything tho!

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does anyone know how to get a babysitting job.
need a babysitting job.
plz help me.

I would try putting up flyers in your city/town. Try advertising around. Maybe have your parents ask their friends if they need babysitters. That works some times. Good luck!!

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is there a way to burn cds without buying any equitment or a membership?

Yeah there is. If you have Windows Media Player, then you jus do:

1. Put the CD that you want to burn in your CD-Rom.
2. Then click Copy From CD .. and then click at the top - Copy Music.
3. It'll copy on there. When it gets done, click on Copy To CD or Device.
4. Highlight all the music you want to put on the new CD. Put a blank CD in your CD-Rom.
5. Click Copy Music. Then it should take about 1-5 minutes to copy.

Windows Media Player is free and comes on most computers! But if you don't have Window's Media Player, I don't know another way to do it!!

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my soon to be boyfriend goes too far sometimes. he comes over to hang out a lot and we cuddle and everything but sometimes his hands wander and i want him to stop. it's really uncomfortable for me and i want him to stop but i don't wanna seem like a prude. i've tried moving around to get him to move his hands but i don't know, there's just something weird about it. my past two boyfriends have been really verbally abusive and my last boyfriend hit me a lot right before we broke up and after we broke up and i still don't trust guys and i don't know if i should continue hanging out with this new guy. i know he really cares about me and has for a while. he took a lot of crap from me before we started hanging out. i lead him on and broke his heart when i hooked up with a different guy. HELP. i'm a girl btw.

Aw, I'm really sorry about your past relationships. You really shouldn't put up with that shit!

Anyways. I would try talking to him. I know a lot of people say that, but that's probably the only thing that would work with out losing him. Just tell him you would want to take things slow, and that your not a prude. If he cares about you, he shouldn't make you do anything you wouldn't want too. It sounds like he is trying to take advantage of you a little bit. But I would just sit him down and talk to him. I'm sure he'll understand! Good luck!!

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ok well i know its summer but my friend was making fun of this girl and she told on me but it wasant me so i got in trouble but my punishment was that that girl who my friend made fun of got to make me look stupid. so she made me look fat like wear one of those fat suits and stuff and like she put brown paint on the seat, and i sat in it and it looked like i pooped my pants.then in art she spilled red paint on me and it looked like i had my period. the worst part i had to wear it for a week. everyone made fun of me. then she told the princpal that i made fun of her again but i didnt so she got to add something so she made me wear a diper without the fat suit and she said i pooped my pants and i got my period and that was why i had to wear a dyper. and everyone believed her because no one knew that she was doing it to me it was between me her and the princpal. and now im scared to leave my house because of what people will say. what shoudl i do. ill rate 5's to anyone who gives advice

Wow. That girl sounds like a total bitch. It sounds like she's only lying to make you look like a total idiot. I would talk to you parents about it, because you shouldn't be the one getting in trouble for her lying! I would have your parents go to the principal and talk to him/her and tell them that your the one that's innocent. She shouldn't get to do that to you! Good luck with everything tho!

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does anyone no any good tanning products or any good ways to get tan??

thankz

i rate high :)

Put on baby oil, and then go lay outside for a while. It works everytime!

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I am 17 and going to the gynecologist for the first time within the next couple weeks. I'm not sexually, just going to get on the pill for my period. I was wondering what to expect and all the procedures that they do while im there. And which should I pick - a male or female doctor? Any other tips? Thanks.

I would pick a female doctor. I think I would feel more comfortable with a female doctor. Sorry to say, I have never been to a gynecologist before. But good luck and hope everything goes well!!

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Im 15/f
I have 3 best friends. Well, all these guys like my one best friend and their always around her and soo many people follow her and try to be her friend! It's so annoying because sometimes she ignores me, and my crush is one of the guys that likes her, and shes always hanging out with him. My first question is do you think I should be mad at her becuase shes always ignoring me for boys and shes ALWAYS hanging out with my crush??? She also hangs out with this girl that hates me and she tells me she doesn't like her. I think thats a lie because shes always hanging out with her too and the girl thinks shes her best friend. It's werid because no boys liked her last year and she was alot different last year, she was a lot nicer and payed more attention to me. I'm not jealous but it just bothers me alot. My other best friend gets annoyed by this too. What should I do??? Please don't say talk to her because I already have and she didn't listen and I get in alot of fights with her and I don't want it to cause another one. Thanx

Sorry about your friend. But it seems like she really isn't a true friend. You said that you guys get in a lot of fights. In my opinion, I think I would be mad at her for all that she is doing. If she was a real friend, I think that she wouldn't be doing this to you. Does she know that you have a crush on that boy? Also, she wouldn't be hanging out with the girl that hates you. She could easily be talking about you behind your back. If this was happening to me, I would just tell her that I don't want to be friends with her any more. You don't deserve to be treated like that.

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i have to go to a graduation party tomorrow and theres a swimming pool and everyones gunna be swimming! well i just got my period for the first time thursday night ( graduation party's sunday) should i swim? and if i do do i wear a tampon? please help what do i do?

If you want to swim, I would wear a tampon. A pad might fall out, and I don't think you would want that to happen! Don't miss out having fun jus because of your period! Tampons work great when you swim!

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