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yeah.
well.
theres me.
i would love to have some blue up in there.
but.
being the controlling school.
they dont allow crazy color.
so thinking about the random blonde streaks.
chunks.
tips.
ya know.
just wondering yalls opinion.
thanks in advance.
:]] (link)
Be a rebel and show them that if you want your hair blue, its going to be blue!


anyone nos any good game websites ? thanx (link)
www.freeonlinegames.com


ok, so i was looking arround at questions and someone was asking weather they belive in god, and how and why did he create the earth.

now theres a religon point of view and scietific point of view with everything.

is there a scietific point of view on how the earth was made?

is there a scienctific explantion about the very first humans? [[im pretty sure scienctics dont think we formed from monkeys anymore.]]

thanks everyone!
--ashley (link)
Science believe that our universe collided with another universe, and that created life. Yes, scientist do still believe we came from apes. The theory of evolution says that we all came from little bacteria and have evolved over the past billions of years.

I'm not too sure on the subject, but if you google it, I'm sure you'll find your answer in 5 minutes.


I have to make a project on glabal warming and I know my teacher will give points for innovation.I need an original idea like a survey ar some kind of documentary film on global warming. (link)
It's glObal warming. At least spell it right.

1)Okay Al Gore had a movie about it, check that out.
2)Google, use it!
3)Look at a weather website, see how the weather has changed it.
4)Look at research about increasing pollution, and how it relates to the weather.
5)Find out how many rain forests have been cut down in the past 100 years, and the impact on our world.
6)Look at the news, they talk about it quite a bit.
7)I know Discovery is starting to get involved, and I'm sure National Geographic will have an article on it in one of their magazines.

I know it's happening... I had snow in SoCal last year, and it has never snowed in SoCal that in my life... hell, it hardly even rains out here.


How do I get lighter skin? (link)
Basically all you can do is stay out of the sun. Sorry


So there's this boy that I work with and well I've sortve caught that crush towards him but I just found out he has a girlfriend when I found I got really depressed because my feelings for this boy are huge. I also found out that that's the only reason why he didn't ask me out. I don't know what to do I like this boy a lot and I would really like to have a relationship with him but I don't want to be the reason why him and his girl break up. Please help (link)
I'm sorry, but all you really can do is wait. Stay his friend, hang out with him... if they breakup, then you're there for him.


I wanna stop using pads and start using tampons but I don't know how.. Like where to I put it to stop the bleeding and stuff and are they comfortable. And which type should I use for best protection and comfort and not spend a lot.. (link)
hey

there is a hole in your vagina. very far back from your clitoris, almost near your butt. just search for it.

http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/images/ency/fullsize/17050.jpg

okay, so there are THREE parts to the tampon.

1.) the cotton swab [the ONLY thing that goes into your vagina]
2.) the plastic applicator [this partially goes into your vagina so that the cotton swab can go deep into you]
3.) a stick that is used to push the cotton swab into your vagina.

okay, so

http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/Images/tampon.gif

YES THEY ARE COMFORTABLE because you don't even feel them! they're so far inside of you that you can't even feel them, therefore they are comfortable.

NOT TAMPAX - playtex slimfits!

look, there's really no point in me trying to explain it to you with words. you just have to try it out. i was like 12 or 13 when i tried my first tampon so please don't be worried - you can do it you just have to search around & try it. you probably won't get it right the first time but if you just keep trying you'll get it eventually. my problem was that i was afraid that i was putting it in too far, but it's actually better to put it in really far cause you get better protection, you feel more comfort. the string is REALLY long so you don't have to worry about it getting 'lost' up there.

http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/tampon.html



alrightt so
i havent known this guy for very long
but we talk online like never only sometime
but we text everynight for like 2 or 3 hours
weve never hungout, but i know him through my friend
yeah i know that sounds weird and like your pathetic for liking him, but i just cant help myself.
he is seriously the nicest person ever
but we are kinda opposites, well not really
hes taller then me, which is plus cause no good guys are ever taller then me
but im more preppy/vintage and hes more skater
but we listen to the same music
but i dont really care about that
but hes so cute and he always cheers me up
he just moved away like 1 hour and 45 min away
but hes coming back up here i think this week
and were are suppose to see a movie and im really excited
and he always says how he wished she can hangout more and when he gets his license hes gonna come up here way more
i was just wondering if all this is a friend kinda thing or more of a crush? (link)
you have a crushhh
he seems cool and nice
have fun =]


I dated one of my best friends for like a month, and I really really loved him this was long time ago.. anyways he broke up with me and that was okay and stuff, and he said that he would always have feelings, and after we broke up we were still friends and we still hung out at school, then he just started being an ass hole? and like now he won't even talk to me anymore. sometimes he will talk now he won't at all. if I say hi on msn he won't even say anything back and hes just being a real dick. he cheated on me to I heard from all his friends.. the most pathetic thing is I still love himl he will ALWAYS be special to me. I loved him alot, he was my best friend I felt like I could tell him anything. and I did. and he did the same with me, and it sucks because Idk what he wants?? why did he do this? is he only nice to me when it suits him?? (link)
This boy is playing games with you. He probably doesn't even know what he wants. Guys are weird creatures, I can't tell you why he did that. It does seem as though he's only nice when it suits him. With the way he's acting you need to ask "what's going on with you? why are you acting like that to me?" If that doesn't work, just stay away from him, he's an ass and no one deserves to be treated like that. =)


Hey everyone, I have broadband internet but my internet is running slow at the moment.
It's not my computer, my computer is fine and so is MSN/AIM. It's just when I try to load a webpage it takes forever to load, and when I try to watch a YouTube video it takes forever to load. I've scanned my computer and it hasn't picked up on any viruses/trojans so I don't know what to do.

I have unlimited usage so that's not the problem.

I don't know what to do. (link)
Well, it could be one of two things.

Either your really far from your service, if you want to test your internet speed go to
Speed Test

Or check if you have Spyware, this is usually the problem.
Adaware Personel


I feel terrible for needing to ask ths but does God really exist??

My family (and i??) are christians but lately i doupt that God really made us the earth and everything around us. If so WHY did he make us and the earth EVERYTHING!!!

please don't tell me he doesn't exsist b/c in the back of my mind i believe but then agian?!? (link)
No one can tell you if God exists, or doesn't exist. If we had irrefutable proof that he did exist, we wouldn't have agnostics, or atheists. It can't be proven, or disproven. It comes down to whether YOU believe he does. If I was to told you, over the internet... that god did exist, it wouldn't prove anything. Personally, I doubt that there ever was a deity to being with... but since I don't know the origins of life, I could be wrong.


I was wondering what code I could use to make pictures my caption on my pictures on myspace ... because I used to use this ...



and it won't work is there any other codes? (link)
You need a smaller URL, upload your photos to: img.photobucket.com


Okay, well I like all types of music. (Rock, Hip-hop, rap, oldies, 80's, all types) Well, I am looking for the following type of songs:

1) Songs for a friend that has been there for me.

2) Songs that are good. And that keep you thinking about life.

Can anyone please tell me songs. I'd greatly appreciate it. Thanks(: (link)
Spirit In The Sky - By Norman Greenbaum (about life)


(to start off im a guy) ok i like clothes from places like metro park, johnny cupcakes, and even like zumies etc. who knows of some good stores for shirts(tee shirts) that arent too popular like hollister and abercrombie. nothing too expensive like versace or anything. Thanks! (link)
Target, Mervyns, or thrift stores.


wat does it mean to pop a girls cherry? (link)
Popping a girl's cherry meens breaking her Hymen. Girls lose their hymen when they lose their virginity, and when this happens, there is usually blood envolved. Not always with there be blood, however... and it doesn't NEED to be through sex, they can have it from falling out of a tree, putting in a tampon wrong, or riding a bike. Any exercise that works at it could possibly tear the hymen.


Hi. There's this guy (18/m). Let's call him 'A".
I'm 15/f (I turn 16 in 3 months).
I'm pretty shy.
Anyways, we were hanging out with my older brother and another guy.
They decided to drop by one of their other guy friends' house (call him 'B') without phoning first.
So everyone decides that I should go up to his door and knock because it would be most unexpected and I'm not really close to B...therefore funny.
They try to persuade me, and A tells me I should do it because B "won't be able to turn you down."
By the way, there is no love interest between me and B. Also, they had a fair idea I wouldn't really do it.
So, what did A mean?

These are the possible reasons I've oome up with:
1. A is saying that no one can resist me (ha, ha).
2. It was just a random thing he said--no meaning at all.
3. B is the kind of person who always wants a girlfriend, yet can't get one... meaning that B is so desperate, he wouldn't turn even ME down.
4. It had a sexual implication-- I would offer myself to B. "Turn you down"
5. He was just trying to persuade me to knock on the door.
6. Whatever you think.

As you can tell, I like A and I want the reason to be A.
But please tell me what you honestly think.

Thanks. (link)
You hit the nail on the head there, its hard for me to tell without being there, so I'll try and elaborate a bit more. What he said is hard figure out, you should pay attention to more of what he says for a while, then think about it again. Be nice to him, but don't be flirty, he IS 3 years older than you, and might be freaked out and push away if you you come on to him.

1) He could meen that no one can resist you, but if I were saying that.. it would be in a joking way. It doesn't meen that I would be calling you ugly, but I flirt around alot and usually dont meen alot that I say. It depends on A's personality.
2) It couldn't really have been random, either he was joking, or he was complimenting you =)
3) If this is right, it probably was a joke. Guys make fun of each other... ALOT. B Could very well have problems with girls, and the guys think thats funny. This is most likely what I would meen if I said something.
4) I doubt it was this one.
5) This is possible too, but again, it probably either had a playful or sexual meening behind it
6) You had all of my ideas already haha!

I'm sorry I that I cant be of more help, I don't really know A, or you, but like I said... If he keeps up with the jokes, and shows some solid evidence that he might be interested in you, take the chance. You don't really have anything to lose, right? You get one chance in life to go out with this guy that you like, and yeah you might lose him as a friend... but imagine if you got him as your boyfriend? ;). It's all about taking a risk babe! Your what, a sophomore, junior? There's going to be other guys, I promise! I'm assuming that A is your brothers friend, if your cool with your bro, then talk to him about it.

Hope I helped!


Last night I was on the phone with him and we had plans to go to the movies this weekend
he said "dont be mad but i'm still going to the movies this weekend but not with you"
I didn't mind and I was okay with it but it still was rude the way he said it and just because he ditched me for someone who he doesn't even know and were best friends so it got annoying.
Well then he started being really mean about things so I said " alright I'll talk to you later I'm just going to hangup the phone"
And he said alright I'll call you in a few days maybe or tomorrow.
He went on myspace (hes kinda like confused about his sexuality so everyone thinks hes gay and hes kinda like a girl)
But he said ew your such a bitch i hate you.
And sometimes we say stuff like that to eachother but jokingly
and he deleted his myspace and made a whole new one and never added me back
i dont care about myspace but just because of that i knew something was up.
Well he won't anwser his phone and I know its right next to him.
He got on myspace again today and I messaged him asking what was wrong and he called me a fake ass bitch
I said what the hell are you talking about and he told me to stop playing dumb and to fuck off.
I messaged him again but no reply yet.
I really have no idea whats going on and why hes being like this
at this moment im confused and pissed off the same time so i dont know what to do about it.
cause he wont pick up his phone and talk to me about it either. (link)
Since he won't reply or pick up his phone..just show up at his house. The worst he could do is shut the door on your face but maybe you'll have more luck in person. I agree that was very rude of him. If I were you I wouldn't even bother with it since he's acting like such a jackass.


I'm going to buy my daughter a car for her 16th birthday. I want to get her something quick, sporty, newer but used, that is 15,000 or under. What are your suggestions.

[no ford or dodge products] (link)
first off the fiat 500 wont be sold in the states. even though it is looking good.a real throwback to it's original retro design. very nice on fiat's part. but nonetheless the fact of the matter is she's a girl. she wants something "cute" she doesn't care about performance, power, or really anything. if it isn't cute it's not worth her time. so i'll suggest the following:
volkswagen beetle (post 1998, almost quintessential girl's car these days)

mercedes C230 coupe (another car that girls love for some reason. not a bad car by my standards but a girls car nonetheless)

toyota corolla (post 2004 model. all girls love these cars. they're slow, underpowered, boring, econoboxes. but it turns girls on)

ford mustang (my god if there is any car that has more of a female following but tries to be manly i have yet to see it. this car, no matter what the model save for the 80's ones, is almost always owned or operated by a woman. they love em. now with a mustang i'll tell you get the V8. don't be the person going "i coulda had a V8" be the person with one)


I took your advice and i asked a guy out. on the 2nd date we kinnda kissed like peckish like. it was short and weird. When i looked up from the kiss the guy was blushing and got kinda freaked. he ran away. I called him and asked what was up and he said that he'd tell me on our next date. well when he came he said he had a "boner" and was embarrased. So i said it was ok and after the date we kissed in his car. well maybe more like make-out. then he dropped me off at home. That was last week and he hasn't called me back! i see him places and he says "hi" but otherwide disregaruds me.
*Is he just scared again or is he trying to tell me we are over? I don't thnk i did anything wrong! whats up??? (link)
hey

omg it's totally obvious that's he's REALLY nervous!! don't worry. he will call you or talk to you. he's not mad at you. try giving him a call & he will open up. but give it some time okay cause he might be really nervous still.

he still likes you! dont worry about it.



On Facebook, I have a 9.8 avg rating for the application Hot or Not.
However, I did get a 1 & 2, but the rest were like 7-10s, but with the 1 and 2, my avg was really a 7.5? Sooo why did it say 9.8? (link)
haha yea its the same with meee but i dunno why they do that
a lot of the appliocations say that there are still "kinks" theyre trying to work out, but i dont know why they keep the rating hih
like yea i had like twelve 9s, and seven 8s, and a five, and i was like a 9.9? thats not even possible, because i hadnt even had a 10...
haha i dunno why it does that




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