I took your advice and i asked a guy out. on the 2nd date we kinnda kissed like peckish like. it was short and weird. When i looked up from the kiss the guy was blushing and got kinda freaked. he ran away. I called him and asked what was up and he said that he'd tell me on our next date. well when he came he said he had a "boner" and was embarrased. So i said it was ok and after the date we kissed in his car. well maybe more like make-out. then he dropped me off at home. That was last week and he hasn't called me back! i see him places and he says "hi" but otherwide disregaruds me.
*Is he just scared again or is he trying to tell me we are over? I don't thnk i did anything wrong! whats up???
XxlovergurlxX100001 answered Friday July 13 2007, 2:09 pm: wow...i had the same experience before so dont worry ..you should give him a call and ask whats wrong and try making him feel comfrable and then ask him whats wrong say your not gonna except this kinda behavior from him or that u dont like it ..he should then tell you whats botherting him and mabby you to can work it out ..his probably just shy or nervous bout it.. [ XxlovergurlxX100001's advice column | Ask XxlovergurlxX100001 A Question ]
LOL_x0x answered Friday July 13 2007, 1:42 pm: I'd call him. He seems really shy, and like said below, nervous. He might think you didn't want to kiss him or something. And now maybe he's embaressed that you don't like him, or maybe he thinks he shouldn't have kissed you?
Call him and be really nice, ask him how he's been. Tell him you had a great time when you went out and ask if he'd like to do it again.
But explain to him you noticed he seemed kind of nervous last time, and that he shouldn't be because you like him. Tell him not to be afraid to call you back, because you want him too.
But before going out again, make sure he's comfortable with it. Let him pick the place, so it's somewhere he wants to be (hopefully) with someone who wants to be there with him. Good Luck!
orphans answered Friday July 13 2007, 1:35 pm: hey
omg it's totally obvious that's he's REALLY nervous!! don't worry. he will call you or talk to you. he's not mad at you. try giving him a call & he will open up. but give it some time okay cause he might be really nervous still.
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