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Hey lovies! =) I'm Julie and I'm 15, which makes me a sophomore at the lovely Branford High School. I'm in Model Congress, Concert Choir, and the Young Republicans Club. Besides being a student, I've been a dancer and acrobat for 13 years! It's basically my life. I love my friends to death and would be nothing without them! ♥ Well, I've been on Advicenators for over a year now so I know what I'm doing and you can trust me. I'm here to give you honest and helpful advice...So just leave me any questions you have in my inbox! =)
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my neighbor is a 13 year old female and im a 14 year old male. she stalks me and she likes but id ont like her like she likes me wat do i do? (link)
Tell her that you don't have the same feelings for her as she does for you. Tell her that you're busy and she can't come to your house now, or that you really don't like it when she follows you around alot. Just don't be too harsh on her, she's in love! =)


okay well im not bi but like i've thought bout it n like.. i look at my friends as if i like them n u know wanna make out with them.. does that make me bi? I rate high please help?
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You might be bi, but it's probably your raging hormones. You can look at everybody with that some want to make-out with them. I don't think you bi, hun =)

If you need anymore advice just ask me!


my eye has been twitching lately!! ts gotton worse!! like its my eyelid, sometimes my eyebrow, and below my eye...not all @ once but its only in my right eye...u cant see it but i can feel it..i told my mom but she didnt really think nothin of it...wat does this mean?? (link)
Maybe it's muscle spams. I get that sometimes, but only once in a while. I'll also get it in other parts of my body.

It really isn't anything serious, so don't worry, hun =)


I recently went to doctor for my back I have been having shooting pains and such. I am almost positive I have the disease. They have to test me for Bone disease, Muscle Disease, Cancer, and Brain Tumors. Anyways, does anyway know how to dull pain without Ibuprofen? I have growen immune to it. Please Please Please! Fibro is extremely painfull!!!
Thanks!
Megan- (link)
Try Alleve. I know that works for my cramps, but it's a very powerful medicine and should help. If not, you should definitly ask your mother! She probably has a lot of medicines that could work for you. If she doesn't know, call you doctor and ask him/her for the right kind of medication for your pains. I hope you get better =)


How do I delete a question from my advice column once I have answered it? (link)
You go to "Edit Answers" and select the question you want to delete. Then, you have to delete all the text from the box (your answer) and then click "Edit" .. then it will say that the question/answer was deleted. Hope I helped =)


are carrots good 4 u (link)
Yes. Carrots are really good for your eyes, too. Also, they have tons of vitamins and nutrients to help the rest of your body =)


Hey Everyone ! Ok ths is a good one, How come when your single you have the hardest time finding anyone to go out with. But as soon as you have a BF and become Attached Everyone in the world wants to date you. How many times has this happen to you guys? LOL its agravating. But I love my man so no huge complaints here. Have a great day everyone ! xoxoxoxooxoxoxox (link)
I don't know why this happens, but it seems to always do that! I'm glad you love your man now ..


Hm, my friend came to me asking me about something i couldn't answer. So i thought i'd do some research on it. She tell`s me her "discharge" is yellow, but doesn't smell. Does anyone know's what this might mean? Thanks.

Curiouse Friend. (link)
That's perfectly normal. Discharge is usually white-ish or yellow-ish. When it begins to smell, that's when you have a problem. Tell your friend that she's fine and there's nothing to worry about =)


Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me (link)
Once you get your period, you can get pregnant (if you've had sex). Also, before, during, and after "your time of the month" you can get pregnant. So - right after you've had your first period - you can get pregnant anytime!


I met this guy online. I have been takling to him for like 8 months. I like him and he likes me. We live in diffrent states. What should i do!? (link)
I know everyone says this, but how do you know that he's the same guy that you've been talking to online? In real life, he could be a 40-year-old man sending you pictures of a cute kid. I say just keep this at a close friendship, and NEVER plan to meet up with him - even if he is who he says he is. It's a creepy world out there, lol! Trust me, just don't have this relationship go any further.


Ok my friend is 12 years old and she's drinking and i don't know how to make her stop. she just started because she thinks she 'needs to' but i think its because this other girl does. please give me ideas or help me or something (link)
You need to tell your friend (who's 12)! that she can't be doing that. When you see her drinking, immediately take the drink from her. She's ruining her body. Also, tell her that she has you as a friend and that the other "cool girls" are worthless - and definitly aren't worth her ruining her body over. If she continues, you're going to have to tell her parents if she won't.

You can ask me for advice anytime!


I've a had crush on this girl for a few months and i think she might like me too. We are like best friends, but we flirt with each other all the time. We tell each other everything. She tells me everytime she likes a new guy. But last night was different. She told me that she liked my best friend. I can't say i blame her, cuz my friend is a nice guy (that's why he's my best friend). I don't know how to feel. I'm kinda disappointed, but at the same time, i want her to be happy. What should i do? (link)
I think you should tell her how you feel. If she knows that you like her as more than a close friend, maybe she'll admit to liking you more, too. But, if she doesn't, you still have to be friends with her, even if she likes your best bud.


alright me n mai boyfriend broke up about a week ago cuz he cheated on me. i really love him n im hurt soo bad. he says he still cares n he wants to be w/ me, but now hes w/ sumone else. i think hes tryin to make me jealous but i dont really kno. i cant live w/o him, he means the world to me even after what he did. i really wanna be w/ him but im scared to tell him how i feel cuz im not sure if he cares or not. should i give up on him or take him back if he feels the same? (link)
What your boyfriend did was totally wrong, and it has caused you to lose your trust in him. You should talk to him and tell him that he means the world to you, but you're not sure that you want to be with him now that he has betrayed you. It doesn't matter if he cares or not - you need to tell him - and let him go.


What can i do to be more popular in school...i have soo many friends but i just wanna b a lil more poplular....and guys give ur true and honest answer dont give me a "full house" answer please.....help me out! (link)
Just be yourself. In school, no one wants to be friends with someone who is fake. Be goofy and wild and show everyone who you really are. Branch out to the geeks, jocks, and cheerleaders, because then you can have a whole range of friends!


Ok, I have this irritation in my private. be4 i had scratches on it. It has been hurting all summer. The only thing that seems to help is a bath or shower. I told mi mother and she says its healing. but its not. does any one know what to do.and should i tell? (link)
Did you try shaving? If so, that may have caused this irritation to your private. Well, atleast your mother said that it's healing, but if it doesn't within the next couple of weeks, you should really go to your doctor and have him/her take a look at it.


I have an oppsetion i have to mow the lawn everyday my parents are really worryed about my problem what should i do????? (link)
You need to get out more! Plan dates with friends or just play video games. It's more of a mind thing, just stop thinking about the lawn. It only needs a trim once every month. Mark your calendar every month for the day you want to mow it, and that's the ONLY day you can! Good luck with this! =)


At my school, I'm like the only one who doesn't know anyone in my class. I don't want to be left out. I want people to notice me. How can I get some people to look at me and say she looks like a nice girl or something. I want to get to know some people. I'm trying to take advantage of this! Thanks! -Charlee (link)
You should try to start-up a conversation with somebody, like compliment someone's hair or outfit, or grade on a test. Just open-up to people and try not to be so held-back. Wear something bright to school to draw attention to yourself, and hopefully someone will notice you! Maybe you'll even get a cute guy =)


i want to get something for my boyfriend who i have been going out with for 2 years on june 26th, 2004. i feel like gettin him something or making him something just because ... anyone have any ideas ? (link)
I think you should buy a really huge picture frame and fill it with notes that you two have given each other, and pictures from over the past two years. Kind of like a collage - of just you and him. It would be really sweet, and something that you did yourself. He'll cherish it forever! =)


SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT I REALLY NEED HELP Me and my boyfriend broke up on the first on August at night of course I cried I liked him but I was over him the next day I wasnt like in love with him Its just that I have a lot of time on my hand and have nothing to do I have to watch my little brother from the morning till 4 b/c my parents are at work then the rest of the day I dont do anything I just stay home for some reason and when I hang out with my bff she always acts like shes soo wonderful and perfect gets annyoing you know Im just wondering how can I like not think of him and just get over him and not feel bad that I dont have a bf and keep myself busy throghout the whole day? I mean this is really bugging me I dont wanna feel like I have a bad life I dont I just need some things to do to like keep me busy and not feel bad that I dont have a bf so please please please someone help me I mean really really help me thank you soo much and if you want me to rate then Ill rate if that will get me some answers thank you neone...sorry it was long but I really want to feel better and some ideas better then watch tv or get online please help me. ThankS (link)
After my last boyfriend broke up with me, I had this odd obsession with cross-word puzzles. I know you may think it's strange, but it really helped me forget about all my troubles! Also, I planned more events for me and my friends to hang out without guys so I wouldn't even have to feel sad. Try not to think of your ex-boyfriend for too much, I don't want you to go into a depression! Trust me, it's his loss - not yours. I think just about over a week is enough to cry over a guy...I hope I helped you and if you need anymore advice you know where to get it! =)


i got a shot 2 weeks ago and there is still a big bruise around it and every once in a while a little bubble of blood comes out. why is it still doing that after 2 weeks? (link)
i'm really not sure why it's still doing that, and it doesn't seem like that is good @ all. you should definitly call your doctor and tell her/him!




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