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I dunno what to do


Question Posted Thursday August 12 2004, 12:53 am

SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT I REALLY NEED HELP Me and my boyfriend broke up on the first on August at night of course I cried I liked him but I was over him the next day I wasnt like in love with him Its just that I have a lot of time on my hand and have nothing to do I have to watch my little brother from the morning till 4 b/c my parents are at work then the rest of the day I dont do anything I just stay home for some reason and when I hang out with my bff she always acts like shes soo wonderful and perfect gets annyoing you know Im just wondering how can I like not think of him and just get over him and not feel bad that I dont have a bf and keep myself busy throghout the whole day? I mean this is really bugging me I dont wanna feel like I have a bad life I dont I just need some things to do to like keep me busy and not feel bad that I dont have a bf so please please please someone help me I mean really really help me thank you soo much and if you want me to rate then Ill rate if that will get me some answers thank you neone...sorry it was long but I really want to feel better and some ideas better then watch tv or get online please help me. ThankS

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StiLLwiShinG_1217 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 10:42 pm:
Okay, u r sooo totally frustrated and stressed. Wat u can do is take niiiice hott bubble baths, write poetry, write music, just write in general... draw something, PLAY with ur brother, not just "watch" him. Go outside and play a sport, go SHOPPING, or eat ice cream forever :-) There are SOO many things to do besides thinking of him. There are plenty other guys out there, so just keep searching if u reeeally think u just CAN'T live without a boyfriend, but I'm SURE u can sweetie cuz u're writing for help! :-)
Hope things turn out alright!
*Mayya

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liddylflirtx3 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 5:46 pm:
After my last boyfriend broke up with me, I had this odd obsession with cross-word puzzles. I know you may think it's strange, but it really helped me forget about all my troubles! Also, I planned more events for me and my friends to hang out without guys so I wouldn't even have to feel sad. Try not to think of your ex-boyfriend for too much, I don't want you to go into a depression! Trust me, it's his loss - not yours. I think just about over a week is enough to cry over a guy...I hope I helped you and if you need anymore advice you know where to get it! =)

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alderworth1 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 1:30 am:
i would suggest doing what i did i was in the same slump i hadn't had a g/f in a year and i really didn't like it but the only thing i could do was just go and meet some new ppls to hang out with it will make u feel so much better cause then u will have someone to hang with and if it's a guy u know he will be jealious cause i am sure u are a really nice girl

good luck
Gabe

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Dont_Fall_Twice answered Thursday August 12 2004, 1:23 am:
That must be really hard having to watch him all day, everyday like that. I think maybe you should have a friend or two over to help when you babysit. If your parents don't agree to that, explain to them how you feel, and how you agree to bbabysitting... but just think that you deserve some liesure too. Also, maybe you should get out at night. Go to a friends, go see a movie... Something to get your mind away from it... Best wishes -Britty-

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MaMiLiCiOuS_23 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 1:10 am:
OKay... I feel your pain. Hang with friends.. but if she always thinks she perfect try 2 compete in some sports or hang at the movies. You need to move on in life gurl or else better boys wont see how you really are in life if you gonna b depressed bout that boy. Keep you head high and smile. Much better moments will come along. Trust me . Please Rate.

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Crystal49 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 1:06 am:
There are tons of things to help keep you busy during the day. You just gotta get creative. When my last boyfriend broke up with me I baked . . . a lot. lol I do that a lot when I'm upset. Just an idea. Since you have to watch your brother why don't you spend some time with him? I'm not sure how old he is but you could take him to the park or to a movie maybe. Shopping is also a good stress reliever, if you like shopping anyway. Maybe join a summer sports team or something. And if you're getting annoyed with your current bestfriend you could use this as an opportunity to meet new people and maybe a future boyfriend? =P Hope I helped. Good Luck!

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