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Peace. it's ya girl Z here. lemme get to the point.. my name's Zainab, 17 years old, and from Montana(and NO i ain't no cowgirl). i am muslim and insha'Allah i am going to be married next month to a wonderful guy named Alim. love ya baby. so if y'all need anything just holla atcha girl. peace to fingers
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my cat bites (a lot) what should i do?

every time he/she bites just spray him/her with water. using a spraying waterbottle. it's simple and it teaches them.

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Every time someone says I wanna go to Mardi Gras, I'm always like "ME TOO!" but the truth is, I don't know exactly what its for and what you do there. I've only seen clips of people partying on the street... I think it would be fun, but what is it your doing and is it some type of celebration of some sort? It looks fun, but what is it?

yea it's a big celebration. with beads.costumes...etc. it's really fun.

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is something wrong with me if i never had a boyfriend before? i never had my first kiss or nothing. i flirt a lot, but i never get any further. some guys have asked me out, but i say no and i dont know why. i guess im kind of sacred. what do i do?

just relax. you can't force it so just go with it. don't worry bout it. you will come to it in your own time. so dont worry.

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hi,
my girlfriend was late on her period by 2 days and then we had sexual intercourse. she is still late 5 days after we had sexual intercourse what does this mean? im sure the condom did not split and everything went fine but im still worried. was she most fertile then or least could you please tell me?

thanks,
rob

dear rob,
yes she was fertile. just get a test. so y'all don worry anymore. just in case

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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we havent done anything more than hold hands and hug. THe reason why i am affraid to go any further is because i am affraid that he is going to judge me because i have never made out with any body or anything, and he has. I am just scared i am not going to be able to do it right. What should i do?

don be scared. hell like you besides that tidbit. so just go for it if you want to.

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The first time I had my period it was from the 19-22 then it became 25-29 then 3-7.Wat is wrong?Is this normal? I need advice and i rate very high.thanx

yes because ur body is still getting used to it. don't worry. but if it continues go get it checked

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i was a week late on period, i took several pregancy test that came back negative. the last one i took came back positivebut the next day i started bleeding, is there a chance that i am or was the test possibly wrong?

it coulda been wrong

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Alright.... there is this guy that I wouldnt have sex with.. so now he is mad at me and is always calling me names... but I'm not going to stop going over to where he lives because that is my friends house.... the other night his cousin came up to me and got in my face so I pushed him on the ground.... he got back up in my face so I hit him.. now this guy thinks that he can nag at me whenever he wants and get aways with it because they told there mom and she got mad at me for it... and I forgot this guy grabbed my wrists and shoved me up against these bars.... but now I'm not allowed over at my friends house unless there mom is there.... well please help thanks ~ monkey girl~

just give him some head

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is it phisically possible to lick your elbow?
please answer, me and my friend are mad at each other because she says it is possible but doesn't care to prove it.



lee lee

well it's not possible.

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I am an 18 female and I find myself being attracted to other girls bodies. Not that i want to go and mess around with them, but i just enjoy looking at beautiful girls. Like most other girls, i don't have a problem kissing other girls and whatnot its really not a big deal depending on who it is. But I'm not sure if just because i'm a girl and i see a beautiful girl if the reason i am attracted is because i want to look like that or if it is because i could be bi? I've never messed around with another girl other then kissing, and i don't really see it happening but its not totally ruled out. Does this mean I am bi? please help

yes u frikin lezbo

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a couple weeks ago my parents went out of town and me and my sister had the house to ourselve. so we invited some people over. this guy came over and we endin up having sex but he has a gf. i think im startin to like him. what do i do? and do you think his gf should know?

slute.

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i want to go farther with my boyfriend but there are things that i dont like about my body and thats whats stopping me from doing anything with him cause i dont want him to think im a freak or anything and not talk to me or anythin... pease help!

just be strait forward with him. he'll love u for who you are. and just tell him.

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Is it wrong to cry if your dog died and you've known her since you were a toddler? My friends would think it's silly, and when you think about it, it kind of is. Does anybody else think it's silly?

quit bein a friggin pussy and suck it up. God! I mean crap man ive lost dogs before but i dont tell people on the internet so they can laugh at me. wat r u retarded.

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I'm a chick.. I always stay with my best friend when she is home alone.. latly she has been asking me to experiment with her.. we have made out/french kissed.. you know, nothing "down there".. but she asked me if I ever wanted to experiment "dowthere" so we did.. just fingering.. but now she wants to emo.. what the fuck do I do?!?!

if your not comfortable with it then tell her. and she should understand if you guys are tight. just be strait forward with her. hope i helped.
*~~~shana~~~*

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My friend is a horrible singer and he wants to be fameus and sing on american idol but he sucks really bad.. i dont know how to tell him

PLEASE HELP ME !

just be strait foward and not 2faced. so just say >hey well u don't really have the best voice. it's gud but u suk.> just be straitforward.

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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months and weve knnown eachother for a year and we havent really done anything yet...i go to his house every wednesday and we are home all alone..and we just havent done anything...hes not the innocent boy i mean hes not a virgin and neither am i (only once) lol....but i dont knw...weve done handjobs, fingering etc..but not oral or intercourse....he says he doesnt want to rush me into anything because he loves and respects me and my body...im really ready though too and i think he is too...we are only 16...the only fear im having is PREGNANCY! what is the best type of condom, how can you prevent it to break, etc?

well u can't stop pregnancy. and the best type would be trojan. but to stop the fear is have him put it on before he gets hard. then have him take it off before he cums. and that will minimize the risk tremendously. so hope i helped. but aren't u a little YOUNG?

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I want to get my belly button peirced, my mom won't let me. Is there any health risks if you do it yourself?

YES!!!!!! u can get even worse infection. gaingreen. and many many others. so don't do it urself unless ur a pro at it

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I was just shoveling yesterday alot and last night when I was sleeping I noticed my back hurt ALOT. Today even when Im typing I cant bend over because it hurts too much. What can I do to stop it from hurting? Please help!
Jacki

just take it easy. take a nice hot bath. and then cut down on the shoveling.

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Well i've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has had sex before and I havent (15/f). For the past couple of days I have really been thinking if i want to do it or not. My boyfriend is perfect, but im kinda nervous about the whole thing. Dont get me wrong, I do want to have sex with him, but its only been to months and i think its kinda soon. I have been sort of leading him on, but i really thought about it today and im jsut not ready. What ways can i tell him that im sorry for leading him on but im just not ready yet?????
Please help

best way: "im not ready"
but just be strait wid him. tell him that ur not ready and ur srry for leading him on. just tell him the truth and if he truly likes u. he will understand and the pressure will be lifted

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ok..me nd my bf have been together for 7 months. just recently we had oral..and he busted...so he went to the bathroom and everything was ok. later that day, he fingered me. my period has always been irregular. im late a week nd my bf is freaking out. is there any way i culd b pregnant?

there is always a chance. but it's slight. so 2 settle y'alls conscience go & get a pregnancy test.
*~~~shana~~~*

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