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Any ideas or things i could do to meet new people?
try talking to friends from other schools...meet them at the mall with their other friends...the new school year is coming up...try joing an after school club or activity to meet new people
chao for now!
a friend of meli's
What guys look for in a girl?? Thanx
Eye color?
Hair color
Do you want her to kiss you on the first date?
If not when?
When is it alright to take it to second base
How soon do you want her to put it out (sex wise)
athletic, preppy or girly girl?
Skinny,muscular,chubby or fat
shorter or taller than you?
experienced or unexperienced?
Do looks matter?
Whats a major turn off?
Whats a major turn on?
Feature you like the most on girls?
Do you like it when a girl makes the first move?
If your girlfriend gains 20lbs will you stay with her?
Do you like it when girls play hard to get?
Dou you like
Would you date a girl who has slept around just for sex?
Would you date an ugly girl just for sex?
Ass or boobs?
Pretty face or hot body
Do you mind if a girl beats you while playing sports?
Make-up or no make-up?
dressed up girl or sweat pants/casual jeans and a sweatshirt
First thing you notice about a girl?
I had my friend answer this..
Eye color? -blue
Hair color -something natural
Do you want her to kiss you on the first date? -yes
If not when? -before first date
When is it alright to take it to second base -depends on how old you are i think
How soon do you want her to put it out (sex wise) -if you are young(11-18) take a while months, if older i'd give her 2 months max
athletic, preppy or girly girl? -athletic
Skinny,muscular,chubby or fat - skinny
shorter or taller than you? -shorter
experienced or unexperienced? -exp.
Do looks matter? -yes to a point
Whats a major turn off? - stupid or nonsmart girls, high maintenance
Whats a major turn on? - intellegence, looks pretty
Feature you like the most on girls? - butt
Do you like it when a girl makes the first move? -sure why not
If your girlfriend gains 20lbs will you stay with her? -she probably will
Do you like it when girls play hard to get? -no
Dou you like
Would you date a girl who has slept around just for sex? -no but if i wanted std's then sure
Would you date an ugly girl just for sex? -no i would only sleep with and ugly girl for sex, and i would have to be very drunk
Ass or boobs? -ass
Pretty face or hot body -hot body
Do you mind if a girl beats you while playing sports? -no
Make-up or no make-up? -a little bit
dressed up girl or sweat pants/casual jeans and a sweatshirt -dressd up
First thing you notice about a girl? -if shes alive or not
My boyfriend and i have been talking about living together when we graduate. i thought it was all fine and dandy to talk about but then we started to pick out apartments, save up money, and pick out furniture. Now he is buying the dining set tomorrow, and the flat ware, and he's getting the living room set next week. Plus we are talking about marriage and kids. I'm still a virgin but i'm worried this'll happen sooner than we plan for. Its starting to sink in and I'm getting, idk, afraid, excited, something. I dont know. Is this bad, good, or what. I mean he isnt graduating for a year, and i'm not moving in with him for two years.........Whats going on with me? Should I call it off?
You might just be getting nervous about everything.. if you think everything's moving too fast, just tell your boyfriend.. I'm sure he'll understand and anyways, you have two years to think of everything before you move in. And about the marriage thing.. you don't HAVE to do anything you don't want to, and the same thing with sex. I don't think that you should call it off though..I'm sure everything will be fine. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
p.s. Are you graduating high school or college?
the eye docotr gave me lubricant drops for ym eye and I am out whats something I can get like at wal-mart thats the same?
Visine
i have a 2 month old daughter she has had diareeah, vomitting, and a fever not lower than 101 for 12 days the er says its just a virus and to keep her on a fever reducer but they dont seem to be working and now her vomit is curtled and thick. any suggestions will help?? thanks
Go to the doctor immediatley and see what they say!! I hope your daughter gets much better soon!I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
I wanna make a business website for my dad without paying any money! Does anyone know any websites for starting your own website! Thanx
www.freewebs.com
..I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
does hollister have a website? i've tried everything and can't seem to find it. thanks.
wwww.hollisterco.com
Love,
MELii
i write lyrics to songs and i write poetry and stuff a lot but i don't know where i can show it off without it getting stolen from me. do any of you know where i can display my poems/songs to where people won't take them and say they are thiers?
This is easy: There is this site called www.poetry.com where you make a name and then whenever you sumbit your poem/song or whatever then it gets copyrighted so nobody can take it and then whenever you go to the site again, just type in your last name and first name and then there it'll be. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
Dear Advicenators,
Okay. Here's the deal. I'm a girl about to start college, and I've got problems with trust. I don't trust even my closest friends, don't trust that they actually want to be my friend. It's quite horrid, because it makes me feel like I have no friends.
Reason behind my distrust of people? I've been repeatedly burned in the past by trusting too much.
How do I allow myself to trust people who I somewhere deep down know that they only care about me and don't have ulterior motives for my friendship?
Signed,
Untrusting.
I understand how sometimes it's hard for people to trust other people ; especially if they've had a bad past in that area. What you have to do is just go slowly. Just talk the your friends and get to know them on a more personal level and share your thoughts and feelings and memories with them as they will with you. And whenever you feel like you can tell them anything, then that shows that you are starting to trust them. Because you have to trust people sometime in your life, because then they'll feel like they can't trust you back. Just keep talking to your friends more and more and slowly you'll start to trust them more. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
Okay, this is gonna be long..but- 2 years ago a met this guy and we became friends turns out..he's MADLY inlove with me! That's all fine and dandy, I don't mind reject people I don't like, but it also turns out this guy is suicidle! Now, please don't say get him help! He's gotta better about cutting himself, and he sees a therapist. But every time a guy asks me out, even the ones I like, I make up a stupid excuse and walk away for fear the 'suicidle guy' will kill himself! He's told me before I'm his reason for living! What do I do? I rate high!
Well just explain to him how you don't want to date him but then tell him you want to be friends so then you won't be dating him but you'll still be in his life. Just trying being a caring friend and being there for him, and hopefully he'll get better. Because if you are his reason for living, I don't think he's gonna wanna kill himself then because then he'd be leaving you...I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
I am bored out of my mind I've been at the computer for hours mostly because i'm waiting for this guy to sign on but he wont and I have nothing else to do besides this and watching tv im SO bored please give me ideas!!
Go and call some of your friends and go hang out at the mall or something ( even if you don't have any money.. it can still be fun ) or just grab a buncha friends and have a sleepover or something. Listen to music, try finding a new hobby, try exercising or working out...umm..try learning a new instrument. Go out and rent a movie. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
just answer me this:
1.what r the first things u notice in a girl?
2.what r sum turn ons?
3. what r sum turn ons?
5.what type of attitude would u find best in a girl
6. what is your fav. in a girl like hair color and eyes?
thanks just wondering because its just some little facts that would be great to kno ;P
1.Intellegence, curves, uniquely beautiful face
2.intellegence, nice a$$, legs, skinny
3.i'll go with offs this time, Idiots, dirtyness, other guys
5.Assertive, self motivated and accepting
6.a$$
these aren't facts they are know as data
ok i was hanging out with my friends when i felt something weird on the inner part of my lip. like a pimplish kind of thing? my one friend insisted it was herpes and said at one point everyone gets herpes. im like what? is this true? i thought herpes was like a perminant thing.
True cold sore = type of herpes
false not all people get herpes/cold sores
if someone has either i would not touch them. As for if you have it i doubt it. Herpes stays on the outside of the mouth usually.
Ok... so i have a total guy problem! sorry if this is to long! i am 17 years old and there is this guy that works with me, but at a different location if you get what i mean. (hes 21) well we were in a parade for work and he was all over me! we were hanging out like the whole enitre time! so then he asked for my number and we hung out that night. (he had people over at his house) and we all got totally wasted... and i ended up staying over there. (just me) and i ended up doing everything but sex with him. so the next morning i left and he said that he would call me after he got done with work and he never did! then i went on vacation for a week and i came back and he didnt call me either! i dont know what happened! his friend told me i was to young for him, and i asked him and he said no. or was it because i hooked up with him? or wHy?! i totally need help... because i really like him! thanks so mUch!
I am a guy who is 22 and just graduated college, thisis a typical hump and dump situation, unfortunatly you are younger and more susceptical to older men. Just learn from the exp. and don't let it happen again.
-ps i am this melii's friend shes obviously a she
I am so....depressed!!! I make a group for people who like Shaman King... then, many people joint my group... But... they don't do anything!!! They don't make any announcement... they don't make any discussion... the don't make any polling... Urgh!! They are so lazy to do anything!!! And I, I am the only person who makes announcement, discussion, and other things. They don't even care about the group!!! OH... how I hate them so much!!! They just want to join a group to make them look cool, but don't want to do anything for the group activity... So what do I have to do?? Please help!!! (And anyway, I always rate 5)
I would scratch the group and start anew, this time make people prove their activeness from other groups to get in. Kinda like a screening process. This way you can be more certain you wont get abunch of lumps on a log next time.
hey. i babysit this cute lil boy who is four. he is very good and i want to have a nice way to reward him for helping me alot. he helps clean the table and goes potty by himself. does anybody know anything i could give him or treat him to when he is good?
I read some of the answers that you have recieved and feel that i can add a little more insight. A few people have suggested candy or more dessert. While these do come to mind also remember the people who are paying you, the childs parents. Ask them if it would be okay, parents can be very protective of thier kids eating habits and you dont want to lose your job over your kindness. I think that reading his favorite books, fun games that are safe, and good boy "mini vacations" such as to the park or down the street might be more in the right direction. Hope this helped
omg I axcendently stepped on my ferret and now its just like laying there and its still breathing but real heavy i dont know what to do becuz i cant like take him to a vet or nething cuz they arn't open now..i dont know if its like gonna die or what! help what should i do?
I LL RATE HHIGH!
stephanie
I am not a ceritfied Veteranirian therefore i can not give advise for fear that you will sue my ass of in the court of law... I hope he pulls through, the little expensive bugger.
How do you delete the history on your internt of what websited you've went onto
Thanks xoxo
first of all you, for this advise to work you must be running on a windows XP operating system. If you are please continue. Second step is to find the web browser that you wish to delete the history for. Lets say you are a conformist and use internet explorer. Find the application in your system files and right click go to properties then general tab. Set your internet history to 0 and all of your dirty little sercrets are now hidden from your rents. CAUTION: if you have an administrator with stringent rules you maynot be able to do this without thier permission. BLING BLING good luck
I currently have long hair, I love having long hair, but what type of cute do you suggest me getting with it still being long. I will ask for a trim, but what else? I already have side bangs, I don't know whether I should get layers or not. Please advise.
I suggest getting layers. They're really cute and they seem to add a little more volume to your hair. Also try looking through magazines and seeing different hair styles. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
This might sound weird but i am 15 and turning 16 in May 06'. One thing that i'm concerned about is that i haven't gotten my period yet:-/! is that not normal? is it bad that i haven't gotten it yet? I mean im going to be a sophmore and i still haven't gotten it...please helpp!
Yes ; it's perfectly normal that you don't have it. Some girls don't get theirs until their like 17..even 18! You're just a late bloomer. But if you are around the age of 17 and still haven't gotten it yet, then I'd suggest going to a doctor and seeing if everything's okay, which I'm sure it will be.. I'm sure you'll get it soon =) Just enjoy the time you have without it.. lucky. Just think, you've saved alot of money from buying pads and stuff lol =) I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii