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My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.



I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..



My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]



I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.♥

I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.


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hey everyone

whats a good song out now?

Lol i agree with the person that said Grillz. It is the shit! And i also like Dem Franchize Boys-Oh I think they like me remix

Then! I like T Pain-I'm in love with a stripper

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ok so there's this guy that i've known for a little while. like we hang out a lot and talk and stuff, and i'm really starting to like him. but how can i tell if he likes me back? i mean he's always inviting me places saying he can pick me up and take me home, if i ask someone to help me with something he's the first to volunteer, we text and call each other, and he's even refused hanging out with his best friend a few times to be with me. so what's going on here exactly? i'm 17/f and he's 21/m (if that helps)

Well it does kind of seem like he does like you. So just keep flirting or maybe even ask him out. =)


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my sister & i made a calendar for my parents & we want to bind the paper pages together (it's construction paper). what place can do this for us? or is there a way to buy something & do it ourselves?? (no more than 10 dollars!!) thank you!

Office Depot or Kinkos. Lol I don't know if you have that where you live but Kinkos is this printing thing & you can do a whole bunch of other shit...i dunno just stick to Office Depot.


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I love this boy, but my parents hate his parents and they don't want me to talk to him. We go to the same school and that makes it even harder not to talk to him. His parents didn't tell him anything and he is always trying to get close to me. What should i do?????
i rate high!!!!
from
Upset

Still see him. Obviously your parents don't really know how you are feeling. Tell them that you really like this kid and that he's not like his parents. I hate it when parents are trying to stop us girls from seeing our lovers. =) . Talk to your parents. If you get through their heads, they'll understand.

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I have a bf and we've been going out for 3 months, but i've kept this hidden from my parents the entire time, i'm 13 mind u, and my mom wont let me have a bf she says its already enough that i've had my first kiss and she found me downstairs cuddling with a guy, with my head on his lap sleeping, i really dont see why i cant have a bf i think she's over reacting bc i know kids my age do way more than kiss or cuddle is she over reacting???? i'll rate high for any suggestions, or anyway to see my boyfriend w/o getting caught thanks

How come you can't go over his house & hang out there? Go somewhere beside staying in the house. Just say your going to hang out with your friends at the movies or anywhere fun where you live. Your mom is totally overreacting because when I was 13 or 14 i was having sex. Just don't hang out at your house. Simple as that.

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I'm a 16/f and I've liked this guy for 4 years now, ever since one of my friends dated him. Just in the past 8 months we've been talking and spending time together. Around August we stopped talking until just recently. I asked my friend for advice on what to say to him because I'm super shy. But now since it's Winter Break and he isn't busy with school or work much. So the other night I went over to his house. He kind of pressured me into having sex, I'm not complaining or anything because I wanted my first time to be with him but I just didn't imagine it being then. My friend keeps telling me that's the only reason he talks to me is because he wants to have sex, since we didn't talk for a long time until the topic of sex came up. I'm really confused with him. When I'm with him it's almost like I'm memorized by him and make myself believe that he has feelings for me. But on the other hand I can see where my friend is coming from when she says he's using me, she's my best friend and doesn't want to see me hurt. What do you think? I don't want to be someone he only calls when he's horny. I'm not that type of girl.

I agree with t0xicparadise. If you think that he is only using you for sex, then don't even bother for him. He's totally not worth it & you definatly need to find someone better. You have all these feelings for him & he's just thinking about sex. A guy like that definatly doesn't deserve a girl like you. Move on. =)

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alright so I like this guy but now he has a girlfriend..yea my friend =/ ...and my friend knew i liked him and she said yes anyways and the boy knew i liked him and asked her out right infront of myface..totally a BUMMER..i was mad at my friend but should i stilll be or should i act cool like i dont care..and the guy nows i was pissed off but this all happened a week ago...so should i stil be pissed or just be over it..and now how do i act towards the guy..

ill rate 5 for trying!! =)

Damn. That sucks. Okay well what you should do is probably just get over it, pretend like it didn't happen. It might be hard since they're probably going to be making out right in front of you. But there's really nothing you can do besides confronting them. But it's been a week so they probably are going to be like "Why aren't you over it !?" . So yea. Acting towards the guy, you should probably just act like he's your friend. That guy just needs to get over himself. ANYWAYS. Don't act any different. But i would only confront your friend. ONLY HER. Because that was pretty shady of what she did.


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How would I properly say this sentence -

If I were you.
If I was you.

If I were you.


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is it okay to wear thongs to bed cuz i did the other day cuz i slept at my friends house and i forgot to change, or is it like, bad for you. j/w

It's totally fine. =) You won't die.

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ok do girls think its daring to touch their breasts or talk about or compare to because there is one kid at my school and none of the girls like him but they still let him like bascillay molest them its crazy and thats where you come in

Haha it depends. If it's one of my guy friends like my closets guy friends, they'll "accidently" touch them or bump into them *rolls eyes*.By that i really don't care. If a guy just like grabs mine and it's like that kid up there ^ that you said, i'd bitch slap him. No doubt. It just depends on the girls. =)


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14.f
im flat chested im a 32 a in bust size, but im really emberrased because i got this bra from VS and its fully padded and its a 34 a cause i know i dont fill it out and its really embarrasing to change in p.e. cause all the girls know i dont fill out my bra but when i wear the 32 a it hurts like my back and makes red marks which isnt healthy but then like a year ago when i did wear a 32 a sometimes when i wear loose shirts my boobs would look like tiny buds that looked really weird
fyi im short like 5'3" and i heard its less noticable if you have a flat chest if your tall, and ive had my period for about a year now.

I'll rate 5 if someome can help me

Don't worry. You shouldn't be embarrassed. You'll grow bigger boobs as soon as you get older. The girls are stupid if they just stare and realize that you don't fill it out. If you can you can turn away so they won't watch you or face the locker or something. Or just change really quick. Don't be embarrassed!! Lol its okay.

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okay, i know this is gonna sound like all those other stupid guy questions, but i have to ask. I like two guys. One is my age, which is 13, and he is tall, cute, and athletic. The other is 16, he's not really that good-looking but i think he's really funny and cool. I'm a little afraid because he might expect me to go further than i feel comfortable. I don't know who to "go after". Could someone help? thanks in advance!

Of course a 16 year old will go farther. I say stay with the 13 year old. Sure the older guy is cool & all, but the 13 year old one is cute! =) Pick the 13 year old one. He's more "right" for you. As in age and stuff =)


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okay so i met this guy like dec. 20th @ a bball game. and we exchanged numbers. :] he called me like wed. night and we talked for like 2 hours. [ i think i like him] he said he would call me the next day after his game. he never did, i tried to call him but he didn't pick up. and i did the next day & his phone was off. idk what to think. if it means anything.. do you think he will ever call me?
thanks x0ox ♥

Don't keep on calling him. He should be able to call you if he really is interested in you. Don't bug him so much. Maybe call one more time & leave a message saying "well i just wanted to see what you were up too & if you can call me back". Then if he doesn't call back, forget about him. Don't worry about it. You'll find someone better =)

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okay my aim has been acting weird ant i cant stand it! okay heres what happens my buddylists groups close and then a link is sent to all my buddy's and i can't control it. please give me advice. I rate 5's for really good advice.

You have a virus. Some of my friends had that so i'll be getting random links from them and it's annoying. Just save your buddy list & just redownload aim again.


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who sings Ooh La La its on making the band 3 and i cant find who sings it anywere 5 more answers that help

If your using LimeWire than go to audio and type in the song name & for the artist you put making the band 3. A BUNCH should come up =)


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Hey Guys, This Has Really been bothering me and I don't know what to do. I Knew what sex was when I was about 6 years old. I'm 13 Now. But I'm Worried that I wasn't Raised Right. I mean Most Kids don't even know what Making Out is When their like 7!! But I Knew! Was I or Am I Normal??? No SmartAzz's About This....Thanks

Don't sweat it. You weren`t "raised bad" just because you knew it at such a young age. Like someone said down there, "it`s good to learn stuff like this at a young age" because you know what to do & what not to do when you get older. It`s okay.


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When I first came to my school last year I had a crush on this guy who is three years older than me. He was also giving me nice looks and smiles from across the room, so I thought he liked me too. He then told my brother that he liked me a few months later (after the flirting), but then I was over him and didn't care much anymore. Now, a year later, I have been talking to him on the phone about this girl he's having problems with because she won't go out with him. He seems A LOT more mature when we talk alone then with other people. We talked on the phone for hours the other night, not just about his girl problems but also his family and other serious things. He really makes me laugh and I have a good time with him when we talk. I'm not sure if he's liking me back or anything because he's into a girl that's older then him and who is SOO much prettier than I am. Any advice on what I should do?

Stay friends for now. You guys seem to have such a good friendship right now that I wouldn't want to ruin it. Be there for him & help him in whatever he needs. But also take his mind off of things so that he would get a chance to like you back. Flirt with him a little bit. It doesn't matter if she's prettier than you or anything. You can still get him =). And noo way did you lose your chance. Your working your way up there to get it back. So take it slow for now & then when you guys seem attached, then take your chance.


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ive heard of girls in the shower taking the shower head and kinda putting it "near" their private areas...well im a girl so how would i do omething like this without the detachable shower head? thanks?

lmfao that is kind of gross

but i heard like..you lie on on your back in the tub and you turn on the water(not the shower the water tub thingy) and put your "private" where the water can touch it and to do this the pressure of the water has to be like..hard. so ya haha lol hope i helped!

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Is it a total turn off to guys if a gurl dosent walk the same (sright normal ,but still can walk and dance) way. But i mean she can still talk and is nice and stuff and has average body? Ill rate five for thought out anser.

If she can walk the same? Um. I really haven't heard guys complain about not liking a girl that can't walk the same. Maybe you should explain a little bit better. This is kind of a confusing question..


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I want to start babysitting, but i don't know anyone who is willing enough to let me.

I need some money to save up for something.
My Cousin is due in 2 weeks!! When her baby is older, should i help her?

-needs some money

Absoloutly. If your cousin is nice enough to let you baby sit then yea you should help her =)

Ask your parent's friend's (their close friends) if you can babysit. Tell them that your really responsible and everything will be okay. Ask your parents first for their permission.

If you have any siblings & you ever have to babysit them, say that you think you are old enough & that you wish to make money off of it.

Ask your parents for help too. They might do something about it. =)


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