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which one?


Question Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 5:38 pm

okay, i know this is gonna sound like all those other stupid guy questions, but i have to ask. I like two guys. One is my age, which is 13, and he is tall, cute, and athletic. The other is 16, he's not really that good-looking but i think he's really funny and cool. I'm a little afraid because he might expect me to go further than i feel comfortable. I don't know who to "go after". Could someone help? thanks in advance!
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RyanLover258 answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 5:38 pm:
Ok. If he is not your age and you think that he would do things bad, then take the one that is your age.

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Askme247 answered Monday December 26 2005, 5:43 pm:
well in my opinoin i thikn you should go for the guy your age because if you would pick the othere guy and have a serious relationship hell be 18 (legal age) and i dont think it will end out good btu if you ppick the o13 year old you will have someone to relate to .... and you will grow up togeter

I hope that helped with your desision

Askme247

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3frances answered Sunday December 25 2005, 10:13 pm:
Well i am gonna say you should definatly date someone your own age...wiat...im 13 and my ex was 16, he wanted to go far, so i would say go for whoever u feel more comfortable around. hope i helped,.Merry CHRISTmas

"kiss kiss"
~daphne

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hitler_the_goat answered Sunday December 25 2005, 7:32 pm:
go for the goofy bastard, otherwise, you'd be shallow. That is the best thing you can do. now go and join the army.
-gunner

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iris answered Sunday December 25 2005, 7:27 pm:
here is some tips that may help you do you know the guy very well? do you know his family really good? and do you know what you feel for them but the most important question is does he treat you like someone special. here are some tips i hoped i helped you out

nicole~

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LadyGoodman answered Sunday December 25 2005, 6:43 pm:
Go with whomever you get along with better and find more interesting. Don't go with someone for superficial reasons like age and looks. If you think things might go somewhere with the 16 year old, make it very clear what your boundaries are BEFORE you date. If he doesn't respect them from the start, you know that he probably isn't the greatest person for you to date. Don't automatically assume he'll be a pig, though. Give him a chance to prove he's a good guy.

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MissJessicaPaige answered Sunday December 25 2005, 5:54 pm:
Yeah, the 16 year old will expect more of you than the 13 year old dude will. And I think that you shouldn't go out with a guy that is 3 years older than you and that can drive. It's really dangerous is so many different ways. And the 13 year old, you won't go extremely like sex, but I mean you won't go too far where you are uncomfortable. So go with the athletic cutie ;) He's a much better choice!




Hope you are happy with whoever you decide to 'go after'!

&hearts;Paige

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KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Sunday December 25 2005, 5:46 pm:
Of course a 16 year old will go farther. I say stay with the 13 year old. Sure the older guy is cool & all, but the 13 year old one is cute! =) Pick the 13 year old one. He's more "right" for you. As in age and stuff =)


&hearts;

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hyperhottiegirl answered Sunday December 25 2005, 5:42 pm:
13 year old if you have any doubts about an older guy thats not good and being 16 he definately will want to go really far

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