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Did I lose my chance?
When I first came to my school last year I had a crush on this guy who is three years older than me. He was also giving me nice looks and smiles from across the room, so I thought he liked me too. He then told my brother that he liked me a few months later (after the flirting), but then I was over him and didn't care much anymore. Now, a year later, I have been talking to him on the phone about this girl he's having problems with because she won't go out with him. He seems A LOT more mature when we talk alone then with other people. We talked on the phone for hours the other night, not just about his girl problems but also his family and other serious things. He really makes me laugh and I have a good time with him when we talk. I'm not sure if he's liking me back or anything because he's into a girl that's older then him and who is SOO much prettier than I am. Any advice on what I should do?
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i think the other girl being older then him and you being younger then him makes a difference in his mind. most guys like that are just wanting someone to talk to like a little sister; however, there is a possibility that he likes you again/still. your brother told the first time so have him as the guy what he thinks about you.
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ok i had read your question and i think i can help you we'll first of all i think if you keep in touch still over the phone but if you keep going to his house his is going to expect more than making out every time you come to his house if your parent's ask you wats wrong then you need to tell them and they may see the problem but if not tell someone you can trust so much that they won't tell your parent's. now for the girl i think he is trying to make you jealous and i think he still likes you but you have to put some rules down and let him know that your not some gurl that you throw away after being used. Well i hoped that i helped you out.
nicole
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I don't think you've lost your chance.
You two already seem to be pretty good friends. Keep it up. Talk every chance you get.
If the girl is older than him and not wanting to go out with him I don't think you have to worry to much about her.
Just be supportive for the time being. When he finally gives up, make your move. Let him know how you feel.
Good Luck & Merry Christmas. :)
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Stay friends for now. You guys seem to have such a good friendship right now that I wouldn't want to ruin it. Be there for him & help him in whatever he needs. But also take his mind off of things so that he would get a chance to like you back. Flirt with him a little bit. It doesn't matter if she's prettier than you or anything. You can still get him =). And noo way did you lose your chance. Your working your way up there to get it back. So take it slow for now & then when you guys seem attached, then take your chance.
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you said that he has another girl and that she is prettier then you, the doesn't count. if he is a guy that talks to you like a friend and accepts you for who you are then you should tak the chance and ask him if he still likes you. worth a try
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