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What are the signs of a mentally healthy person?
"I am from Tonga" (link)
hey

http://ezinearticles.com/?Are-You-Mentally-Healthy?-Check-it-Out&id=38236

1) The mind should be under the control of will.
2) Emotional maturity: The ability to control and rule emotions. It means that a person should be able to regulate emotions in the positive, constructive and productive manner.
3) The mind (mental processes) should be moderate, balanced and trained.
4) Proper functioning of mind.
5) Good memory power.
6) Positive, constructive and productive mental attitude.
7) The ability to handle situations.
8) The ability to face emergencies, facts and realities of life with courage and patience.
9) The ability to understand, resist and deal effectively with negative and destructive thoughts, emotions, circumstances, environment, words and mental attitude of our own and others.
10) The ability to plan correctly.
11) The ability to solve problems without getting frustrated.
12) The ability to resist frustration, failures, disappointments without being disturbed.
13) The ability to stay always mentally relaxed.
14) Patience, perseverance, confidence, courage, empathy, etc.
15) The ability to concentrate on the wished object.
16) Sense of responsibilities.
17) Common sense.
18) A mentally healthy person very well knows himself - his will-power, attitude, weaknesses and qualities.
19) A mentally healthy person evaluates himself, accept his weaknesses and try to overcome them.
20) A mentally healthy person believes in his abilities. He has confidence that he can accomplish the tasks that he undertakes.



punk'd episode 6.6 i think is the one with shaun white. can someone give me a link so i can watch it? i really want to see it he is my favorite guy ever!!! (link)
I dont know the link but if you go to www.alluc.com youll find something probably.


I was over at this one guys house i have commented him on myspace and stuff. I grabbed a tissue and got up to throw it away..I was at his house last night and I grabbed a tissue and went to the kitchen to throw it away..I was in the kitchen with him alone and I was like wheres your garbage? And he pointed over to where it was with this big smile on his face [he was standing in the way with the fridge open so he closed it and smiled at me to let me pass through]. I threw out that tissue and I went to walk away and he grabbed strawberries out of the fridge he was like hey you want a strawberry? And he opened them for me and held them out to me. I was like sure and I grabbed one and then i was like thank you and smiled at him he was all smiling at me oh and prior to that he wispered something to his friend...

my big question is do you think he was trying to flirt with me?

do you think he's interested?

what should i do now? (link)
No.
He was being hospitable and offering you a strawberry.

Seriously...


alright. im 17 and my boyfriend is turning 20. just for back ground details.
for his birthday i want to make him dinner. i just dont know what to cook for him. im not a pro chef or anything but i guess im not that bad. he likes italian food a lot...soo any ideas?

and then any ideas just for like setting up the dinner its self? i was kinda thinking of setting up a table outside on my deck because it will be a nice summer night and i live on a lake with a good view of the sunset. (link)
For dinner, maybe pasta and chicken? Like grill chicken on the side with the pasta. Or once my mom actually put the chicken in the sauce, it was so good. Make sure its a homemade sauce.

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I think that dinner idea is great. It would be so pretty outside and romantic haha. Maybe some candles in the middle of the table, or flowers?

I'm sure it'll go by smoothly.


My boyfriend is 17, and i'm almost 16. We've been dating for 4 months, and I really love him! I know he will wait as long as I want to wait until we have sex. But I dont want him to wait to long? How do I know he wont leave me? If he wants to.. should I? HELP :( (link)
If your asking us, don't lose it to him.
Tell him to wait until your ready.


I just want some opinions on what everyones favorite cell phone provider is. Such as, cingular, verizon, tmobile, etc. Can everyone please just tell me which they prefer, and why. It's alot easier having people tell you what's best when they actually HAVE the plan, rather than researching on their websites... because most give biased opinions and really aren't as kind as they seem. Thanks so much :) (link)
I have altell and I think it's pretty good. So far I've had no dropped calls, and I can call any ten people i want on any network for free. Also, I get to call anyone with Altell for free and the texting deals aren't that bad. Also, free after 9 so I never end up going over.

Hope this Helped


how does a female get an orgasm? (from sex or masturbatoin) and how does she know when she gets one?thx (link)
Through stimulation of the clitoris..
You know when you are going to achieve an orgasm you can feel it some describe it as a rush

=]


Hey! Well I was wondering, what stores sell different colored skinny jeans (perferably RED!) from $40 and down? Also, where do they sell black patent pumps like

http://www.zappos.com/images/720/7203564/1733-252437-t.jpg

Thanks! (link)
Try American eagle but if you are looking for red maybe try a hot topic or zumiez they are more likely to have that color =]





I`m going to Canal Street this weekend. I wanna get a knockoff bag. What are the designer bags that are in style for the fall? (link)
I know a few are...

-Coach
-Louis Vuitton
-Chanel
-Gucci


hope i helped =]



So there is this guy, he's my 2nd and he lives far away. he might be able to come to where i live soon and i recently asked him how far he would go with me and he knows that i want him to go to second i wanna know what bra [eg back close, front close], t-shirt etc would would be best to wear for make-out sessions
13 female if that helps
seriously i love this guy, the only reason that we would break up is if he broke up with me (link)
Well if you really want to wear things like that wear a tank top and a skirt possible or shorts =]


have fun but dont do things if your not ready


What's a good way to keep my breath while running?

I'm super fast at short distance but when it comes to long distance, well that's a different story. I just can't keep my breath for very long and I get really tired. I just wanna be able to keep a steady jog for about a mile or two.

So are there any runners on this site that know some good techniques? (link)
Do cardio exercises it should help you a lot! You may also want to check with your doctor about asthma testing you because if you have asthma you should use albuteral it helps a lot!


that which doesnt kill me only makes me stronger. (link)
Friedrich Nietzsche


=]


ok my problem is that i want to know what are the signs of pregnancy, i know one, and thats about not having ur period. but is there anymore? (link)
Well here are the most common ones =]

Missed period
Unusual or abnormal period
Just "feeling" pregnant
Nausea and Vomiting
Changes in libido
Soreness of the Breasts
Enlargement of the Breasts
Increased Urination
Strange Cravings
Fatigue
Montgomery's Tubercules
Skin Changes
Stretch Marks
Quickening (Fetal Movement)
Colostrum from Breasts
Enlarged Abdomen
Positive Pregnancy Test
Change in uterine shape
Enlarging Uterus


why do i keep on having my period late?
i have my period later and later every month! and my mom is freaking out saying im pregnant, but im not. i just want to know why im getting later every time i have my period.

thanks! (link)
It could be a majority of things you period may not be full regulated yet. You could be more active than become less active you are fine as long as you get it!

=]


i'm a very sexual person and it seems like my boyfriend hasn't been able to keep up lately. i'm alrite with it. i understand that he is older than me and that he works alot. i have no problem handling it myself. the problem is, he has a problem with me masturbating. we've discussed it and he seems pretty stubborn about it. i don't know what i should do. should i tell him that it's normal and i'm going to do it regardless, should i just do it and not tell him, or should i try to tough it out and deal with a dwindling sex life? (link)
You should really talk to him about how you feel. If he still isn't ok with it than do it anyway it's not like your cheating.

=]


My younger sister is pregnant,and I am so excited! Upon finding out this great news, I started to plan a baby shower, as I feel it is my place to give the shower plus I want too. At some point my cousin called me to let me know she was giving the shower and I could help her. My sister and cousin are not close. They have spoke twice upon learning of the pregnancy. Once at my daughters graduation, the other at a funeral. I called my cousin and told her it means alot to me to give my sister and new niece this baby shower. With alot of attitude she agreed that I could plan it, and requested that I plan it around her volleyball schedule and her brothers birthday. I think she is being rude, and I am soooo annoyed. Am I overreacting? (link)
Definitely not, you just want to through the party and make it a good one. Don't let this bother you just do your thing I know it will me a lot to your sister.


should i match eyeshadow to my clothes or to my eye color?


also, i have BRIGHT green eyes. what color eye shadows will really make my eyes pop? i love bright colored eyeshadow.

Thanks! (link)
I know you like bright colors but browns really make green eyes show but than again so do pinks. I think you could find a color eye shadow that goes with most everything you wear and your eyes.

Try different kinds i recommend Loreal high intensity pigments.


i got some asics gel-100's

http://www.asicsamerica.com/products/product.aspx?PRODUCT_ID=240007670&TITLE_CATEGORY_ID=250001549

so, are they good for long distance running? im using them for cross country. (link)
Ya they are pretty good my friend had them and used them for track.


ok well in this video, when she says " i was going to tell them about the time we made out" well did her and frank really make out?? or was that just a joke?? plz help me, this is driving me insane.http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=7622659124370172797&q=eliza+cuts&total=125&start=0&num=10&so=0&type=search&plindex=4


thanks (link)
Yup...


I need a name for my main character.

The character is a spoiled brat that gets everything she wants. She throws tantrums and is spoiled to death!

What kind of name describes this?
Thanks and hope it isn't a difficult question. (link)
All the girls like that i know are named...


Bianca
Ashley
Courtney
Jami
Krista
Steph
Lauren
Ava
Brittani




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