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Should I lose it to him?
My boyfriend is 17, and i'm almost 16. We've been dating for 4 months, and I really love him! I know he will wait as long as I want to wait until we have sex. But I dont want him to wait to long? How do I know he wont leave me? If he wants to.. should I? HELP :(
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Honestly, I don't think you are ready right now, only because you seem to be still having doubts. Wait till you are 100% positive that you're ready to take on the responsibilities and consequences, if any should happen. If you're boyfriend really loves you, he'll wait, do not give it up to him because you think he is going to leave you. That will not solve anything.
When the time comes though, make sure you're safe. i recommend birth control and condoms. The safer, the better :]
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If you have any doubts about it, don't do it! You'll regret it! If this guy loves you, which I hope he does, he'll wait for you to be ready. :)
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if your having doubts about it and you have to ask people if your ready then your not ready. you'll know when your ready believe me and your young yet and if he really loves you or likes you then he wont leave you he will respect that. But if he leaves you then he definately didnt like you or love you he was just using you to get in your pants. When it comes down to it if you end up doing it which most girls do and they regret it you wont know if he was using you until you do have sex with him. If he leaves you after thtat then you didnt deserve him and hes an asshole. But if you have any doubts which i think you kinda do then i wouldnt do it. I had the same problem too and i realized that sex isnt everything i mean do you want your relationship to be all about sex thats not a good relationship if its all about that. Most girls i know after they have sex their bfs think they want it all the time and the girls end up doing it everyday even if they dotn want too because their afraid of their bfs leaving them and the guys know thats how they feel but some guys are heartless so i would be careful with that. I know your probably sayin that you wouldnt have sex all thte time but thats what every girl says and it ends up being all the time. So that could happen and i dont think you want to be in that kind of relationship and if you do just to have your bf stay with you then thats fine have sex with him but i would wait for a little longer 4 months isnt a long time and your 16. if you have anymore questions cuz ive been through it all and im sure i can help you or try you can write me in my inbox or heres my sn
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If your asking us, don't lose it to him.
Tell him to wait until your ready.
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in my opinion If you have to ask then i dont think your ready! 4 months is NOT that long at all! If he leaves you because you didnt have sex with him then let him go he was just using you, Id say wait at least til your almost at a year in your relationship, if he's still around then go ahead and have sex with him, if he's not then just move on girl. If he honestly loves you then he wont leave you, boys always want to have sex thats basically their nature ;) so dont do it when HE wants to do it when your ready
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If he truly loves you, he will wait until you are ready don't do anything you are not ready for. talk to him about it, don't be shy just tell him say hey I'm not ready to have sex yet but are you willing to wait for me. and if he agrees then you no he loves you. if he would blow you off you no that it wasn't true love.
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