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would a guy hook up with a girl if he thinks shes ugly? or would there have to be at least some small attraction there? thanks! (link)
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if a guy just wants a "hook up" then since its a one time thing than he prob wouldnt want to hook up with an ugly girl, unless theyre freinds...such as like he likes her personality aka the small attraction
normally a guy would wanna hook up with an attractive girl
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At the begining of the school year last year , there was a guy in my Spanish class. Gradually we became really close friends, and the more I hung out with him, the more I relized that I really liked him. At both of my best friends pressuring, I told him that I liked him.
How I told him is that I wrote a note telling him. I know it was very childish to do so but I am happy now that I did not tell him in person.
His response to me telleing him was that 'He would never consider being more than friends with a black person.' His words exactly, then after a few days of me fuming and wanting to kill him, he says that he only said that to spare my feelings. He said that he really did not like me the way I liked him, but I think he was lying. Now I feel a little uncomfortable around him, should I tell him how I feel about him now? Or should I leave well enough alone. I'll take any advice. I am an African American female, and he is a white male.
We have currenlty (well he believes we have) settled down and are now still good friends, although I am not sure that the hurt I feel will ever go away, and I am not sure that our friendship can last. I thought he was a very nice guy, and besides what he said he has been a very good friend to me.
My friend thought that by saying he does not like black people, he would hurt my feelings less than if he said he did not like me. I find this very stupid, andhe should have said he just does not like me, and like a stated before, i think he lied about that because he only said it when I said I did not want to be friends with him anymore.. Even now, long after the sutuation 'ended' I still don't feel as comfortable around him as I used to. Please help. He has been a really good friend to me, I'm just not sure if I can stay friends with him.
((I've asked this question before. I did not get many answers though.)) (link)
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If he had told you that he didn't like you, that would have been really rude. That's like saying "there's something wrong with you.. i don't like it." But saying that you are African American is something that you can't change, and is not your fault. I'm Baptist, and it's against my religion to date people outside of my race, so don't hold it against him.
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how do i make photos or icons as my picture caption? (link)
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put the address url
to find the address url of the pic you right click the pic and then go to properties and itll be right there =]
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What are cat feces?
I've looked on google. I can only find the effect of them, not a definition of what it actually is. (link)
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lol it is poop...i had the same prob and i didnt know what it meant either so dont feel bad! Oh yea, and if you have anymore questions for definitions go to www.dictionary.com its like the best site ever...it even has thesaurous and encyclopedia!
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is there anything besides running that i can do to get in shape for track & field/cross-country? (link)
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you can bike ride, ice skate, roller blade, and use a tredmill. GoOd LuCk!!!
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are there any good types of pads that make it comfortable to play volleyball and so that you can't see the pad through the spandex?? oh and it also has to be sturdy, so it doesn't slide around or get bunched up and irritating. i'm not a tampon person, so i use pads a lot.
for example- when i'm playing and my legs are far out, the pad is like a U and then you can see this bump where my vagina is. so it looks really weird.
thanks, i've been having this problem a lot lately. help!!!!
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I play volleyball, am not a tampon person, and wear spandex too! I use Kotex...even the thicker pads dont show through they're amazing! GoOd LuCk!!!
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My Mom keeps saying she's leaving. She's so selface and blames everything on me. Jason and Scott( my brothers) ones a drunk the other can't hold a job do nothing wrong and when they do they shuve it onto me. I got an air conditioner and I have to share my room with My brother Jason. He broke my alarm clock, my light, destroyed my favorite books and I just want to go a night without crying. Im 14 I want my own room.. he messing with my pads and tampons, whips my bra's at me so I kicked him out and he broke my door! And they dont even care..
My cousin Laura said a while ago when she got her new apartment Id always have a place to stay. She lives 2 towns away tho how am I gunna get there? ANd she has a kid anda boyfriend and a life that and at the moment Jason and Her both work at the same place so It wouldnt me like its a secrete I live with her and my Mom might flip if she knows Im planning on leaving. She wants to so why cant I. Im thinking about walking there.. I have a bank accont with some money in it.. but Ive saved up and Its not really my money I have a neighbor I grew really close with and shes dont alot for me and her names carolyn. Shes already said she would take me in, but my Mom would like call the cops about a runaway and get Carolyn in trouble and I wont let that happen so I was thinking that because I was with family maybe my Mom can't do that. I know I cannot stay with Laura long, she has her own life, and I would only be getting in the way. Shes kinda understanding but I was never really close with her but she offered so If i ask about spending a couple nights to get away from the family.. I cant stay with friends, not a lot of them because If my family doesnt ask questions there going too and I dont want my problems pawned off to other people.. So if i pack a bag I have a cell so anyone could call me but running away doesnt solve anything.. And my dad basicly blames me for my Mom wanting to leave. This is long but is there anyway that if i ask laura to spend a couple nights to get away and id babyset, clean do laundry for her all for free...if my Mom can get her in trouble i wouldnt want that soo PLEAse I dont need that happening so If someone who answers this is a cop Id love that : ) or just give your opinion on the madder on how I can slove this.. I dont have a talking relationship with my Mother never have never will so please dont say just talk to her because I tried that and it didnt work!My family doesnt care about me, there selface and want only there way so they would to things in spite and to hurt me (not really a family I knoww)
Please give your opinion and im sorry this is so long but i havent gone a night in about maybe sence school closed without crying.. so anything is helpful! Thank you!! (link)
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hey
i'm so sorry this has been happening to you. but to start off, why don't you just TALK to your mom about her leaving & what she's upset about. is she upset about the relationship with her husband? just sit her down & ask her what's wrong, truly. that can prevent the entire scenario from occurring. if you can get your mother to stay.
as for your brothers, have you tried NICELY telling them to stop? if they mess up your stuff, don't yell at them. if your back was facing the other way, slowly turn around & look them right in the eye. tell them, "please, jason / scott, i'd really appreciate it if you wouldn't mess up my stuff." if they laugh at you,touch them [like grab their shoulder] & say, "i'm not kidding." but do NOT yell or scream. if you want to be treated fairly, you have to act mature.
for your feelings, like how you cry at night, try writing them out in a diary / journal. it will help you monitor your feelings & thoughts on a daily basis to make sure you're mentally capable of running away. it's not just about the PHYSICAL running away, but mental because of... missing your mother, regretting running away, etc. it's a real strain on your mind.
if your mother won't open up to you, just let her know that you're there for her. if your dad is so selfish & doesn't care about you, there's probably a reason behind it. if & when you get a chance, sit him down & talk to him ALONE. if none of your parents open up to you, read on.
upto this point, you have failed in having your parents open upto you & preventing your mother from running away. that's fine.. you have tried your best. do you have laura's contact information, like cell number or home phone number? do not do ANYTHING without it in case something badly happens.
plan to meet her at a nearby park [or some other place that you can walk to]. pack clothe, toothbrush, howevermuch stuff you can carry, to be perfectly honest. ask her to pick you up from the park [or wherever] & take you home from there. but, ONLY do this if you're POSITIVE that your mother is leaving.
when you get to laura's house, you have to call a child services, or have her call. your mother & father are obviously completely in capable of taking care of three of their own children.
i hope all works out for you.
feel free to ask me anymore questions
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this is a complicated situation, and goes for a while but please any advice is greatly appriciated.
I've known this guy for a while now, and originally we were only just mates. We used to hang out a fair bit & chat pretty often. I never thought of him as someone that i could have any potential feelings for and those kind of thoughts never crossed my mind. Reflecting back on it i guess we used to flirt a fair bit, but i never really thought about it in that way.
Then out of no where one night we kissed, he made all the moves and kind of just came on really strong. I didnt bother me but it was just really unexpected and weird. I realised after i had kissed him the first time that i actualy kinda did have a thing for him. My best friend said she saw it coming a mile away. Ever sinse then we started kissing on a regular basis, except for the fact that he was uneasy about the differences in our age, him being 20 and me being 16. I know that sounds like its such a big gap, but it really doesnt feel like that and we get along really well.
The more i saw of this boy, the more and more intrested i became in him, and im never one to develop feelings for people, or put myself in a position to be hurt, but with him everything seemed different.
I go to an all girls private school, and everything at my school gets blown about 100 times out of proportion. As soon as i started seeing this guy all the girls at my school seemed suddenly really interested in him, talking about him alot in front of me, and going out of their way to catch up with him & see him.
It never really bothered me until they started saying things to him about me, just that i was "super keen" and that i seemed to really like him.
One night when all of the girls were at a party and he was there too, and i couldnt make it for some reason, he was apparently "all over" a girl in my friendship circle. Nothing happened apparently, but even now its still a bit of a grey area. The next day i had my 2 best mates ringing me up telling me about how dodgy the whole situation had looked & how this girl had been saying she wanted to kiss the boy id been with. I was a bit annoyed aboutt he whole thing, but thort it wait until i spoke to the boy before i said anything to anyone, kinda just to hear both sides of the story.
When i approached the situation with the boy he got all defensive, telling me that hes been friends with girls all his life, and hes not gonna change the way he interacts with them because of my insecurities. He bascially flipped his lid at me and told me that i needed to not listen to anything that "my stupid friends" told me because they were obviously over exagerating. i let it all slide but later that day he sent me a really indepth text msg telling me that maybe we should just be friends until "those around us" settle down and stop causing trouble.
i took the news really hard, and struggeled heaps to get over him. I didnt really no what id done wrong because everything seemed to be going so well. We decided to just be friends and he thort that i was fine with that, but i was really upset and had alot of trouble seeing him in social situations. All of my friends new how hard id took it and were really good about the whole thing. I was eventually getting over him when i saw him one night out in town (nightclub) i felt so confident around him and didnt even get the whole butterfly in the stomach feeling. I kissed another really nice boy that night and thort that it was the last id have to worry about the first guy. The next day i started getting attention off him again, him sending me txt msgs telling me how great i looked the night before and that he hopse i had an ok night etc.
from there onwards we have been talking heaps as i presumed as just good friends like we usd to be before the whole "fling" happened.
The other night he invited me over to his house to watch a movie and hang out I went around with no intentions, but he ended up kissing me. I knew the whole time that it was happeneing that it was the wrong thing and i shouldnt be putting myself in the situation i was in but i couldnt help it. The next day he sent me a msg telling me that his mum had liked seeing me again, and thort i looked as "stunning as ever" and that he was sorry if he came on too strong, he just couldnt resist.
The weekend after he aledgedly spent the night with the girl who had tried to kiss him ages ago (the one that was all over him the night i wasnt there) and naturally my school made the rumours about 100 times worse. I felt really hurt and used seeing as he had kissed me only a couple of days earlier and had been calling me and msging me all week. I came the conclusion that he was just playing me and to steer clear, but that night he came over to my house pleading me to understand that it wasnt true and that he would never do that to me.. making out like i had some reason to be mad, like we had been something serious or something. I accepted his apology and sinse then we have basically been kissing regulary again, but this time more secretive so less people will get involved and talk about it.
I dont no whether he has any real feelings for me or if hes just going to play me all over again, but i dont really no what to do about getting an answer to this whole situation. I know that if i want to protect myself i should just steer clear all together, but i have such strong feelings for him i am just hoping that this time he treats me a bit better and understands what i want. i really dont no what to do!
sorry this has been so long, but i just thort it would be easier to explain everything this way!!
please help me, would be much appriciated, i will rate highly for any attempt!!
regards,
steph x (link)
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sweetie, i'm really sorry to tell you this. i know how much you liked him & how hard it was to get over him the second time, but he is playing with you.
that girl, who he was supposedly messing with "the other night" - he's probably messing with her too. he probably has each of you as the "rebound" girl to always have a female companion. it's like, a "back-up" plan, sort of, if one of the girls dumps him / whatever.
you cannot continue the relationship with him. you're simply going to continue getting hurt. you should have dropped him the first time he said, "let's be friends" because he was just using that as an excuse because, at the time, he probably digged the other girl. when he came back to you, he didn't mean it.
look, the beginning parts of the relationship were probably fine until that other girl came around. he became interested, and didn't want to hurt you AT THE TIME. everything after that is all him lying.
you need to dump him. i know, i know it will be hard & it will take time, but that's the best thing for both of you. you probably won't be able to carry on a friendship after you break up with him, but that's okay because he didn't even deserve you in the first place.
i'm sorry that happened to you.
feel free to inbox me if you have anymore questions / comments / concerns.
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What exactly is Feng Shui [ fung-shway] ?
Is it good for you?
Does it bring any kind of luck?
Can it help you spiritually ?
Is it easy to learn?
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feng_Shui
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can i shave my legs with coconut oil?or not? (link)
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hey
yeah of course you can. coconut oil is really good for your skin, so it would prevent your legs from becoming dry & itchy. it would also prevent those annoying bumps from appearing. make sure you use a sharp blade to avoid nicks [sp] though, cause regular "frothy" shaving cream prevents nicks better. but that's the only con.
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can you wear pads while you go swimming
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hey
no.
1.) everyone will be able to see the white tabs of the pad [ unless you wear those skirt bathing suits]
2.) blood will mostlikely get into the water
3.) the pad will become wet, & therefore expand and absorb all the water, making the pad yet even more noticeable.
i'm sorry. your best bet would be to use a tampon.
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15/f...ok so i've heard the expression "dead fish in bed," as in just lying there and not doing anything. What are some ways to not be a "dead fish in bed?" thanks in advacnes. (link)
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this ent an answer to your question, sorry, but just telling the person below me that the term they are reffering to is "sleeping with the fishes" and it means like, being killed, dead...
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i would really like to start my own clothing linebut i need to know the people who will help me.should i start off small and go big to get my name out there? also i have another question:should i start an accessorie line with a t-shirt line? (link)
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hey
i'm going to be really frank with you, i have no experience with clothing lines whatsoever.
i'll try to help you the best i can, though.
everyone starts out small. no one gets big until they MAKE themselves big. so you honestly have no choice but to start small & get bigger.
don't go so fast for the accessories - see how your clothing line-up goes first.
if you have an advicenators account, i strongly urge you to post an open question so that you can get a lot more people who are more experienced than me.
truly sorry i couldn't help :[
if you don't have an advicenators count, post inbox questions to:
TiNA_DUH
LaUgH_OuT_LoUd_x0x
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how do i take a screenshot? (link)
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hey
there's a button on your keyboard
"PrintScreen" - it may be abbreviated "PrntScrn"
when you click that, it automatically copies the entire screen.
go to paint or another program & paste it :]
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hi ok so, what are the chances that your cherry has been popped before you have sex? Like with a tampon or sport activity? thanks (link)
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hey
pretty high. it's really easy to pop a cherry..
1.) you could have popped it through masturbation
2.) a vigorous sport
3.) tampons
so, the chances are pretty high.
also, some girls don't even have a hymen.
feel free to ask me anymore questions :]
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ok. i can't tan. i am very very white and i am trying to get darker. i REFUSE to go to a tanning bed, and the sun don't work. i just used a "tan from a bottle" and so far it is looking good. can anyone give me any advice on how to get my WHOLE body darker. i need help. thankx. (link)
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well theres some skin types that wont tan at all, and only burn....sorry to let to hear this, but youre skin is this type. carry on using the bottle, or go to a salon and use the spray one.
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If your mother has large breasts,
will you be given large breasts?
Same with small obviously.
Because, i've heard that a lot.
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hey
it's in your genetics. if your mother & her mother have large breasts, odds are, you're going to have large breasts.
however, if it's really mixed [like your aunt has small breats, your great-grandmother has big breasts] it could vary. sometimes, it even skips generations [like your grandmother has big breasts but your mother has small breasts, you may end up with big breasts like your grandmother].
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Ok so im redoing my room. I want to get a new bed set. So i went online and picked out 3. Which one should i get?
#1- http://www.wakeupfrankie.com/ensemble.asp?ensemble_id=127#viewer
#2- http://www.wakeupfrankie.com/ensemble.asp?ensemble_id=168#viewer
Or #3- http://www.wakeupfrankie.com/ensemble.asp?ensemble_id=66#viewer
Please just give me your opinion. I really like all three. Thanks ;) (link)
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hey
i love number three because a lot of colors go with lime green. plus, i LOVE polka dots, but that's just me.
the rest have more colors, so it's like
1.) everything in your room has to match blue & green cause nothing else would match
2.) the colors sorta clash & not many colors match with green, brown & pink without looking strange.
so i'd definitely go with #3 because you can make everything else in your room [e.g. walls, carpetting, decor] other colors besides green & black.
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What is a hickey and how do you get one? (link)
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hey
a hickey is: a usually dark-colored skin mark left on any part of the body after having it sucked for a long period of time.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hickey
it's a sexual act when someone sucks on your neck lovingly for a long time. it looks sorta like a bruise. it's caused because the blood vessels in one's neck are broken [it doesn't hurt].
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Late last night, like 2:30, I woke up, and it was weird because I never wake up in the middle of the night or anything. And its not like I had to go to the bathroom. Well, i woke up and I wwalked over and turned the tv off. Well, my mom came over becauase I fell asleep in my family room. So she told me to go sleep in my room. But, we both wanted to go see how the air conditioning was working [we just had gotten it fixed] We look out the window, and there is a guy staring at us. And we know it was true, because we both saw it. So, we ran upstairs into my moms room. And then we called the police. Well, they came and they did see like possible evidence or something I don't know I wasn't really listening. Well now im scared to sleep at night.
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I can understand how you fell =[
Get curtains in every window
Lock all your doors
Lock all your windows
Possibly get a security system
Dogs are good too get a big dog
Keep a phone next to u at all times
Possibly keep something close by to defend yourself with.
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