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Q: how do i stop people from calling me gay...i dont do anything gay....im not gay....for goodness sake i like a girl...(im a boy duh...) wut should i do....i dont want to be called that anymore....
ignore half of them are probably stoned while saying it anyways! ha im just messing just dont pay attention to them. they just want attention and some are probably just saying cuz the "cool guy" is saying it first.

Q: I met a guy in a chat room....We have a lot in common and a lot of the same interests. I am 15 and he is 37...he looks way younger. I have been hanging out with him after school and at the mall. I want to date him. I am very attracted to him and he is SO nice and sweet to me. He takes me to lunch, etc. Should I get involved with him even though we have a huge age difference? I don't think it makes a difference.
wow! i wouldnt even begin to get started in that direction! walk away! in fact.. barrel your bootay out of that direction! you are waaay to young for a old guy like that.. c'mon he is probably around your rents age and almsot over the hill ICK! thats a huge age difference there. stay away. Older guys may fool you too! be careful!!

Q: I've been really good friends with this one girl for nearly my entire life (I'm a girl too btw) and I've always considered her my best friend; however, she's never been very nice to me. She's not a very nice person at all actually. We may have had laughs and great memories together, but as long as I've known her she's always done incredibly bitchy things to me. She would give me something for my birthday and then take it back and give it to her bf. She's stolen the guy I liked right infront of me (and whenever I'm around she calls him on her cell just to make me jealous), she invites all of my best friends to her parties so they won't come to mine telling them that if they go to mine instead of hers that she won't be friends with them anymore... she constantly complains about how stupid I am... and other things like that too. I know that she's not a good friend, and I admit that I don't like her at all anymore! but she thinks that I'm her best friend... and it makes me sad to look back at all the things that we've gone through together. I can't just stop being friends with her can I? We've been "best friends" for over 11 years now! I don't know what I should do. If I told her that I don't like the way she acts I have the feeling that she'll punch me in the face because she's done that before... what should I do?
Yep relates to my "Best friend" i wouldnt say she has punched me.. i dont think she has the 2 balls to even do that.. i prolly could take her.. but seriously its time to let go.. and if she wants to be friends again let her call you let her crawl back to you instead of you calling her.. dont be a lil puppy beggin for more.. u've had enough im assuming

Q: i have a friend who has been losing and gaining weight, and now she has stretch marks and she's only 16, she feels really bad about them, because now, she has lost weight and she is down to the size that she wants to be at, i keep telling her she is fine, but she won't listen... is there any way to get rid of these evil, evil stretchmarks thats making my friend sad?
They have many things for stretch maarks. Go to walgreens or wal-mart or store like that and look. you are likely to get a few things.

Q: ok well i like this guy i mean i have written love notes ABOUT him and everytime i read them i love him even more i mean he is really cute plus soooo sweet but i know he likes me as jsut a friend and he called me cute but when i get around him i get really shy and now he is but i'm only shy around him i'm not that shy but i am kinda (but it is only around him)! what do i do to not be as shy around him???
Be confident!!

Q: i got this girl pregnant a while ago

she said that she would keep it if i take care of it otherwise shes going to get an abortion


dont know what to do
well.. wow! thats.. wow your to young but then again so is she. how about adoption? tell her that you will take care of it and then when the baby is born put it up for adoption. nobody deserves to be killed. weather you are complete or not. thats not fair at all. are you 110% sure that she want abortion? cuz that is just plain out stupid!!

Q: Ok, I'm kinda in love with this guy who was a senior in my school but as the year went by and we grew closer we became friends and now we're in love(he loves me too and we're kinda going out) but now he has graduated and is going to college in August, and I have no idea what I'm going to do without him. HELP!!!
If you to are strong you to should be able to make it... talk about it first. before he goes away. that is a good thing to do before because it will help you decide on your decision weather to stay together or not. makes things alot easier i tell ya!! trust me on that one

Q: Today my imaginary friend ran away. I've been crying ever since. Sometimes I lick my friend's house to cheer me up. IS THERE ANY WAY TO GET MY IMAGINARY FRIEND BACK??!?!!
making friends with a therapist. or post a i lost my imaginary friend sign. that always .. well may help.. good luck on finding it.

Q: Why aren't you married yet?
haha cuz im only 14 and me and my bf arent that serious yet. and plus like i said im only 14 :) maybe later

Q: in the first quarter i made honor role. now im like getten strait f's what is goen on?
maybe you are slacking a lil bit gettin distracted as summer narrows in. take time out to study.. i know i know its not the number 1 top thing to do for fun! but hey your life reflects on. :)

Q: This is for the ladies to answer, or the guys if you can answer.

Right now I'm working on a new film short and my make-up artist is out of town and the others are already taken. SO ladies my lead actress has a light pimp (acne problem), and well I have but no choice to do the make up myself and I also have to buy the stuff in which I know nothing about.

So here is the question. What type or types of make up can cover her little problem and make her face look extremely smooth? Or anything that will allow hger to glow, what do you suggest.

Thank you and I appreciate your help im my little delema!

Chris

Cspinoza1 fellow Advicenator
cover up and dove soap ;) it helps!! mosturizer helps too!! have her wash her face before make up is put on. That should help things out! good luck on your lil delema!!

Q: Hi, My name is Ashleigh, I really hope some one can help me and not critize me when they give me there advice. I am envoloved with this guy named Mark, weve been together for 4 years..so, here's the problem.. Right here recently, I have started to have strong feelings for his friend {there not best friends or anything}. This guy, Jayson, has told me that he feels the same way. Both of us really like each other, and want to hookup! I love my boyfriend, but am not attracted to him as much as I am Jayson and I just love being around him. But the only time I can be around him is when he comes to my house. {me and my boyfriend live together} so it's like we dont have alot of time to do the things we both want to do. Can someone please give me some advice on what to do? Should I just stay with my boyfriend.....or go for all out happiness with this other guy? There also is one more problem...there is a 5 year age gap between us...me being the older one.
Eek! thats what i say.. that is a tuffy.. being that 4 yrs has passed... thats alot you have gone through i think one night you may need to sit down and think weather that is something you want to through away or not. 4 yrs is a awful lot. Is this guy name jayson ready for a commitment? cuz u wouldnt want to do something stupid like dump your boyfriend and find out that jayson is something you dont want. cuz that would all go down hill.

Q: Ok I can not stand this girl at my school she is a total b****!She thinks that she is popular but she isn't she is sooo mean tooo everyone.I was friends with her but then I started to date her ex- and she got so mad!!!!And she already got a boyfriend after she dumped her ex-!I just can't stand her!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!
signed,
HELP
ignore her .. best solution i can give.. noone wants to be around a "b**ch" honestly. If she isnt a friend forget it. Just dont be a b**ch back!!

Q: I've liked this girl for awhile, and she knows, I just want to know how I can figure out if she likes me?
well if she already knows you like her i would just go up to her and say hey listen i know you know i like you .. but.. do you like me back.. the worse you can get is.. hey listen i look at us as just friends im sorry. thats it. lifes is too short to just keep wondering.. honestly.. dont wait. go for it kid.

Q: I am 13/female and i have never had a boyfriend and i feel like i am the only person that hasnt can you give me tips to help me get a bf
just be yourself and open your horizons more.. thats my advice.. just keep your options open.. dont be picky and they right guy will come along.. trust me they dont always come along right away

Q: y cant penguins fly cause they have wings and stuff
they are to heavy.. and they can swim!!

Q: My friend lets call her "trish" and I both like the same guy!! I told her I liked him first and now she likes him!! I cant believe her!!
you cant help you like .. you really cant.. so yes you do have the right to be mad but do relize that your chooses who you like not your mind.

Q: hi

im a 14 yr old female. ive got a boyfriend and hes recently aske me 2 give him a blowjob. im scared my parents will find out

wat shud i do???
do what you want... your young.. you could get the name slut.. be careful hun just know what u r in for

Q: what part of ny do u live in???
i lived in manhattan

Q: if you could be anyone in the world alive or dead who would u be?
Bill gates..haha hes rich!! naw im jk i would be rosa park she changed history! ok ok for real now i would be Lil Kim.. shes cool she raps and shes rich! but she is never on the radio.

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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