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We like the same GUY!
My friend lets call her "trish" and I both like the same guy!! I told her I liked him first and now she likes him!! I cant believe her!!
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you cant be mad at her just cuz she likes sum guy u like...i know its REALLY hard to not be mad...but ppl cant controll their feelings. if someone told u to stop liking that guy, you wouldnt be able too now would you? she really cant help it, so the most you can do is make a pact that neither of you will date him!! eventually you will both move on and find other guys!!
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you cant help you like .. you really cant.. so yes you do have the right to be mad but do relize that your chooses who you like not your mind.
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well, id say get 'em girl...dont let her take him from..tell her how u feel about this and tell her she needs to back off..if she was a REAL friend she wouldnt like him
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haha, well this happens with alot of girls. soon you will both forget about it and like someone else. don't worry about it..
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Okay its simple friends b4 guys..i had this happen to me b4 me and my friend both liked the same guy i liked him 1st and well he liked me she understood and wanted me to be happy and moved on me and him didnt last that long..but all i kno is that she backed off cuz she knew i liked him and he liked me so there was no point in getting between us! if shes a real friend she'll back off!
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Look hun, friends do this all the time. I know! My friends almsot every year in elementary school liked the same exact guy as >muah< It's tough and you just have to deal with it. And if you really like this guy try to get to him first.. you told her you already liked him before she ever said anything to you, so you should go for him first.. Im sure she probly only likes him because you do? Maybe.. maybe not.. Dont break a friendship over a guy.. it's not worth it.. GOOD LUCK! <3 Hugs & Kisses
TatteredWings
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step up to the guy nd beat her from taking him! be competitive, make her see she has competition. just don't be too harsh, or she'll probably make u lose your friendship with her.
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yea this happened with me and my friend..and since my friend is really pretty she ended up gettin the guy..i was mad but i just let it go..but u no what i kno that if i did that to her she would have gotten all mad at me! sum tymes i just dun understand grls sum are so gay! lol..just ask the guy who he likes better..or u could just find another guy this way u adn ur friend dun get into a fight..
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Sound like she's a bitch.. get rid of her. You really don't need friends like that because the ones that you let do that one time will do it again and again.
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People do this all the time, I don't know if "Trish" is doing it to bug you, or she may like him. Just give it time to see how's it going to turn out. But remember, it's never worth fighting over a guy with your friend.
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maybe she really does like him it may seem unfair because u liked him first but maybe when u told her u liked him she took a good look at him for the first time and relized she really does like him if shes ur friend im sure she's not doing it to be mean remember no boy is worth fighting for if one of u get with him the other should be happy for the other when u need a shoulder to lean on a boy wont be there but a friend will always be there for u i hope all goes well emailme to tell me how all goes at AskDanni@aol.com Later-Danni
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If you are Trish are really good friends then you shouldn't let a guy come between you. You may like the same guy but that doesn't mean you need to fight over him. When me and my friend liked the same guy in 8th grade we made a deal that neither of us would go out with him because that would ruin our friendship. Your friends will be there forever, your boyfriend may not be.
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This is extremly common. I really can't say i've been in the same situation but the best way I can think to handle this is to just find another guy and let her have him. It's not going to be big deal at this point in your life and fighting with a friend over a guy is ridiculous. You just have to be the bigger person in the conflict and give it up and remain being friends. If things do not work out with this guy and her then you have all rights to the guy and patietince is always pays off. This will probably le her realize she " never really liked him" and won't have a problem with you going after the guy after shes "done". If sh does have a problem then you have to let her realize you have all rights to th guy and if shes a true friend she won't mind. Hope that helps!
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I've been through the same thing, except, i was the Trish.I liked the guy for sooo long, and then when my freind told me, it was like dang... but it brougth so much hardship on me and my friend... but i doubt that Trish will back down... it's something that ya'll both need to discuss,and see what happens from there. Trish SHOULD back down, you said it first, i didn't back down and it caused us to fight, in the end we became better friends, but it's something that ya'll NEED to talk about.. it's the only way it'll work... i almost lost one of my best freind's over it. ya'll both just remember, a GUY is not worth losing ya'lls friendship over.
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