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Is he cheating on me
i have been together with my boyfriend for over two years but lately when he sleeps over in week-ends his cell phone rings up late at night...very late at night and when i picked it up the person hangs up.he denied knowing who is the caller, But yesterday he confessed that he knew who was calling and admitted to have been flirting aroundwith his friend's girlfriend.He says that it is partly my fault since he started to flirt with this girl only at the begining of this year after i had a one night stand in December.What should i do?I need advice.I do not want to leave him.
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1st off u were totally wrong 4 sleeping w/ some1 else.ur guy prob jus did it 2 get back @ u. but some times u find a real true guy so maybee u found ur guy but ull no if u did
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This isn't a heathy relationship, two wrongs definatly don't make a right. And I think he could possibly just be using that as an excuse. Ya'll need to communicate about this, if you don't want to leave him then you need to do something quick to save this relationship or it will end in heartache. Yes, you having the one night stand was wrong, but him doing that is no better. He just wants you to feel the heartache he felt. In best adivce i would say it's best to move on. But if you feel too strong about him to do that, then maybe ya'll should get counseling, if you're old enough to do that. Talking over the situation will work out best, if it get's nowhere except more arguing, then counseling might be your best option.
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first of all you were in the wrong by sleeping with someone else..and second of all if u guys are just gonna go back and forth hurting eachother its not worth it..bcuz that can go on forever and it doesnt feel to good..to me hes trying to get u jealous and he doesnt seem like a good friend if hes flirting with his friends g/f..talk to him about things u guys have sum serious problems to slove!
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do what u think is right..this is usally the sign that he is cheatin on u..dun u hate when that happens? ask him why he is cheatin on u? ask him if he isnt happy with u..y he didnt break up with u in the first place instead of havin 2 make u think this..and then in the long run its gunna break ur heart if he is cheatin on u..i would ask him what he is doin and if he says he isnt cheatin on u just keep on goin on with the relationship bc u should always believe ur bfs...but one tyme i thougt my bf was cheatin on me,.so i asked all of his friends..and he was with this grl amanda..so yea look around..check his phone calls in his recent phone calls..it works!
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There is no excuse for cheating. He can't blame you for his flriting, even if you did cheat on him first. You both need to sit down and decide what you want out of this reationship. If you both can't be honest to eachother, I think it's time you move on.
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If he is ceating on u dump him there r other fish in the sea!!!
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It seems like hes trying to get some revenge. You can't do that to someone if you love them. If he told you he forgave you for this, and then is now trying to get revenge - well then not only is he untrustworthy but he is also a liar.
Personally, I'd find the girl and kick the living crap out of her if I found out she had been calling my boyfriend. But we dont condone violence now do we. So dont do that.
Tell your boyfriend that you want to know whats going on and you want to know now. Be forceful and dont take excuses or 'I dont know's' because clearly, he knows something.
If he admits that hes got something going on with this girl on the side then you probably already know what I'm going to say - dump his ass.
It may be two years of your life that you've spent with him, but there is no reason that someone else should make you constantly feel like its your fault that they do bad things. Revenge is never ever the answer in a relationship, it only leaves people hurt and resentful - a perfect opportunity for more revenge. Its a nasty cycle.
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