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Hi, My name is Ashleigh, I really hope some one can help me and not critize me when they give me there advice. I am envoloved with this guy named Mark, weve been together for 4 years..so, here's the problem.. Right here recently, I have started to have strong feelings for his friend {there not best friends or anything}. This guy, Jayson, has told me that he feels the same way. Both of us really like each other, and want to hookup! I love my boyfriend, but am not attracted to him as much as I am Jayson and I just love being around him. But the only time I can be around him is when he comes to my house. {me and my boyfriend live together} so it's like we dont have alot of time to do the things we both want to do. Can someone please give me some advice on what to do? Should I just stay with my boyfriend.....or go for all out happiness with this other guy? There also is one more problem...there is a 5 year age gap between us...me being the older one.
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Eek! thats what i say.. that is a tuffy.. being that 4 yrs has passed... thats alot you have gone through i think one night you may need to sit down and think weather that is something you want to through away or not. 4 yrs is a awful lot. Is this guy name jayson ready for a commitment? cuz u wouldnt want to do something stupid like dump your boyfriend and find out that jayson is something you dont want. cuz that would all go down hill.
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all i can say is follow ur heart and that in love age means nothing
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Break up with Mark, the flame has burnt out. If you don't you'll regret it for the rest of your life. The age gap isn't a problem at all.
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DEAR HOPELESS,
YOU NEED TO SIT DOWN WITH BOTH GUYS AND LAY OUT THE TRUTH.
SINCERLY ADVICE GIVER
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You should sit down and talk to mark. Maybe he has the same fellings for one of your girl-friends or somthing. Or, try a trial seperation. You and mark seperate for two weeks, and act like you guys are single. This way you can go out with jason and see if he is the guy for you. After the two weeks, get together with mark and talk about it. It worked for me, because it made me see how much more special my long-term boyfriend was. I hope I've helped!
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