Hello World! Here I come! And I'm bound to teach you more than one thing! I'm sorry, but I specilize in friendship problems, so send 'em in!
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Location: California
Member Since: May 29, 2004
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I've always been one of those people who got along with almost everyone. LAst year there was a girl that really didn't like me and I didn't know why. I still don't. Everyone thought she felt threatened by me, they said I had more friends or I was more punk, i dunno anyway. She's been starting rumors about me like I'm a satan worshipper???? Weird huh? What do you think I should do about her or say to her? (link)
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Umm...tell her to stop and that she has no clue weather u r or not..so just tell her that
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I dont understand how all these younge kids come on here and ask for love advice and say how they are in love and "falling" for people. I dont think you kids really know what your talking about. Maybe instead of saying love so freely you all should start saying lust. thats what it really is. (link)
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Listen-how do you know? I mean, maybe it iz luzt and maybe itz love! I don't belive that being older than someone else means the younger person can't fall in love! Unless your like, 3.
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in 5th grade i moved up north. and i met this boy named mark, who happened to be my neighbor. the first time i saw him, i had a crush on him. i mean im a girl who never even thought about boys, until i saw him. i found out later he liked me and we went out in 6th grade-- for 9 months, then i broke up with him because he never talked to me like he used to. and he understood where i was coming from, and yet we still liked each other-- a lot. in 7th grade, we went out, and then his friend came riding around the block saying that he didn't want to go out with me. the same year, i decided to give him another chance, but he dumped me again. then there i was sitting there with a broken heart. and i promised myself as well as my best friend that i would never ever go out with him again. well soon enough, in 8th grade, i gave him another chance, i thought he would change-- but he didn't. we went out for about 3-4 months. i was at my neighbor's house, and i found out he liked lisa behind my back. i found this conversation at his house, and it was all this perverted crap with her. i was furious. so of course we broke up-- again. this time was different, we didn't talk for about 3 months. then slowly we started becoming friends again, and 5 more months after that we got closer and i kissed him. and we also cuddled a lot. all my feelings started rushing back. i mean he was the first guy i ever liked, and cared about. a few days later he asked me out-- and i had the guts to say no. it hurt me so bad, because i liked him soo much, but i couldn't stand getting another heart break. that night i found out he started telling people he liked my best friend. my bestfriend & i both knew that he was just trying to get revenge on me because i turned him down. and later we found out that it was all just an act. he was mad at me for awhile, and i didn't blame him for being mad because i would be too. and then we became close friends again, and just recently we have became friends with benefits. he likes this other girl(lets call her *A*). and me too. but A would never go out with him. but now i regret saying no to him, because he is telling people that he will never ask me out again because i rejected him. but i really do like him, im just scared to get hurt again. do you think i should just forget him-- cuz highschool is next year(remember i have to see him everyday of summer because he is my neighbor and friends with my brother). should i give him one last chance? i really need your opinion on this. i have been confused for years, and i just can't seem to let him go. do you have any tips? anything would help at this point.
-confused (link)
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Thiz iz a toughie! OK, first, talk to him. Ask him if he's into you, or just come right out and say you stll like him. Maybe he likes you,too. If so, tell him what you need out of a realationship, and ask him what he needs. Righht it down on a piece of paper and have both of you sighn it. Then, go through the normal dating sceene thang. If more than 2 of you needs were not fufillied, maybe friends is enough.
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Hey!
oookkk i need major advice lol cause my friends def. dont give me any. i really like this guy, but he does a lot of stuff i dont like. he smokes a lot, drinks to much (i like to drink but he drinks all the time) and hes just kinda known as a "bad boy". a lot of people tell me i could do a lot better. he gets into trouble a lot and starts fights with people, but im really comfortable with him and i like the way he makes me feel. i dont know what balances out more or if its worth going through stuff he does... and if i should keep being with him cause i really like him but i really dont wanna get stuck in his drama and the stuff he does. i dont want to lead him on either... so if i should get away from him i need to. hes a really nice guy and he has a lot of friends and i know he would never hurt me... but the things he does really bothers me... and i dont like to see him get hurt or get in fights. I NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!!
-kelly (link)
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Sounds like i would feel the same way. Listen to ur heart. What does it say? If you really like him, talk to this guy. Tell him about this. If he really likez you, he'll care. If he shows no concern, you are WAYYYY TOOOOOOO good for him!
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Hi, My name is Ashleigh, I really hope some one can help me and not critize me when they give me there advice. I am envoloved with this guy named Mark, weve been together for 4 years..so, here's the problem.. Right here recently, I have started to have strong feelings for his friend {there not best friends or anything}. This guy, Jayson, has told me that he feels the same way. Both of us really like each other, and want to hookup! I love my boyfriend, but am not attracted to him as much as I am Jayson and I just love being around him. But the only time I can be around him is when he comes to my house. {me and my boyfriend live together} so it's like we dont have alot of time to do the things we both want to do. Can someone please give me some advice on what to do? Should I just stay with my boyfriend.....or go for all out happiness with this other guy? There also is one more problem...there is a 5 year age gap between us...me being the older one. (link)
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You should sit down and talk to mark. Maybe he has the same fellings for one of your girl-friends or somthing. Or, try a trial seperation. You and mark seperate for two weeks, and act like you guys are single. This way you can go out with jason and see if he is the guy for you. After the two weeks, get together with mark and talk about it. It worked for me, because it made me see how much more special my long-term boyfriend was. I hope I've helped!
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Ok, I need some help. My friend Caroline has been trying to get over her ex for a couple of weeks(I don't know why it's so hard, they only went out for a week). Now she's met some guy over the net, who's 23! She wants to meet this guy, because she thinks it'll help her get over him, which is a huge mistake in my opinion, she doesn't even know him. What advice could I give her without seeming like I'm telling her what to do? Or what could we do to get her mind off of her ex?
Thanx
Kortni (link)
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First of all, warn your friend about this guy o the internet. He may be some 30 year-old that lives with their mom and all they wan to do is find a gurl. Also, if this guy has an advanced computer, he can break minto her computer and get ALL SORTS of personal info( Social Security umber, Credit Card Numbers) that could lead to identy theft. Just tell her that and say somthing like, " I'm concerened with ur safety becase blahblahblah..." And tell her it's up to her to make the descion.
For her ex....make her get involved!tell her to Join a club or volunteer at an animal shelter. All this cool stuff will make her feel good, have fun, take her mind of her ex, and , if she's lucky, my lead to a new boyfriend.
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where are some stores you shop for your clothes at? because they are really cute
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I Go To: Pac Sun, Pacific Eyes & tee's, Hot topic, Gromits, The Ladies Room, etc.
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i find myself too emotional, crying at every cute or even vaughly sad thing i see. I CRIED AT THE END OF VEGGIE TALES (the one that talks about not to be selfish) WHEN THE LITTLE ASPARAGUS CAME BACK FROM THE WAR!!!! how do i STOP this madness? this is affecting the friendships i have because i don't want them to know of my over emotional-ness. so i stay away from them. i've tried to hold my tears back but it doesn't seem to work! i've tried converting my sadness (if i'm crying because its sad) to anger or even happiness but i DOESNT WORK. how do i stop the endless flow of stupid stupid tears???? (link)
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This could be a disease, and if i were you, i'd go to the doctor right away. if it's not a disease, your doctor can still help by giving you advice or the number of a physcharist.
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no i always ask her that and she always says the same thing
1.you are too young
2.you dont need one
3.it isnt appropriate (or however you spell that)
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Yikes! This is a toughie!! Do you no some -one else in your family that can relate to your situation? An older (girl) cousin? A closer aunt? A grandma? Try tallking to them! If that doesn't work, maybe you could tell your mom when she asks you what you want for your b-day, say " I want permision to wear a thong." And if NONE of that works, maybe you should just drop it for a year or two. sorry!:(
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I want to get a thong. I am almost 12 and my mom says I am too young! Whenever I ask her she said "Hell no Jennifer! How many fuc*ing times do I have to tell you?!" How can I convince her to let my buy one without her getting mad and yelling at me..... AGAIN!!! (link)
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Just ask your mom, politely, why she dosen't want you to have a thong. Maybe there is a good reason.
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I am going to a sleepaway camp for my first year, and the only person I know is... lets call her Mandy. Mandy is the only person I know there, and personaly, I feel she is a little rude and pissy to me. I have been talking to this girl named Kelly online for a few months who is also going to that Sleepaway Camp with me and Mandy. She is really nice and we are friends. But she is Mandy's friend too. They spend a lot of time together. I am also going to be in the same day camp as Mandy. I guess I should get to my question now.
How can I survive the summer happily with her and maybe be better friends with her and get her to not be rude and pissy to me?
P.S. She says she is my best friend.
P.S.S. She takes a lot of things really personaly and she gets sort of an attitude when something doesn't go her way!
Please help!!! (link)
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Find out EVERYONE going to this camp your going to. Say you see Jesse Baker on the list and you realize she is in your Math Class. Try to get to know her better. If no one's name sounds familiar, try make friends as soon as you get there. Maybe that girl sitting quietly by herself at lunch.
For this Kelly girl, try to get together with her face-to-face before camp. Figure out a plan and ask Kelly what she see's in Mandy and maybe that will bring a better outcome!!!
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