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Friend needs help
Ok, I need some help. My friend Caroline has been trying to get over her ex for a couple of weeks(I don't know why it's so hard, they only went out for a week). Now she's met some guy over the net, who's 23! She wants to meet this guy, because she thinks it'll help her get over him, which is a huge mistake in my opinion, she doesn't even know him. What advice could I give her without seeming like I'm telling her what to do? Or what could we do to get her mind off of her ex?
Thanx
Kortni
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yikes! tell her never to met ppl on the interent..i did and it was a huge mistake..she could get rapped..or sumthin even worse..spend tyme with her and tell her that it was just a guy and she will find a new one..
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I think you just have to let her know that you're kinda creeped out by it. And that it really isn't right to meet someone just to get over your ex. I really think you guys just need some "girl time" maybe hang out with friends and .. go to movies and stuff like that. It'll get her mind off of her ex, and she'll be having a good time with her friends. Soon she'll realize that being with her friends is way funner than trying to get over a stupid guy.
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Well breakups are always tough, but meeting a guy online whose 23, you should tell her the facts, he could be some 60 year old man, he could be a rapist. and for her to get over him take her somewhere, let her hang with the girls for a while. or take her somewhere like the mall or something to get to know a guy. just keep trying and trying to talk to her. =)
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DEAR CONCERNED,
YOU NEED TO SIT HER DOWN AND TELL HER THAT YOU ARE CONCERNED AND TELL HER IT IS A REALLY BAD IDEA.
SINCERLYU: ADVICE GIVER
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First of all, warn your friend about this guy o the internet. He may be some 30 year-old that lives with their mom and all they wan to do is find a gurl. Also, if this guy has an advanced computer, he can break minto her computer and get ALL SORTS of personal info( Social Security umber, Credit Card Numbers) that could lead to identy theft. Just tell her that and say somthing like, " I'm concerened with ur safety becase blahblahblah..." And tell her it's up to her to make the descion.
For her ex....make her get involved!tell her to Join a club or volunteer at an animal shelter. All this cool stuff will make her feel good, have fun, take her mind of her ex, and , if she's lucky, my lead to a new boyfriend.
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