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Q: My friend recently told me about a Gwen Stefani contest to go to Japan with her and her Harajuku girls. I've never heard about it- but can someone explain to me what it's about and if it's too late to enter, etc?
its just to live a day in her shoes.. you can sign up for it before may i believe!!-trix

Q: I'm on a diet right now, and obviously, Easter is coming up. I have younger siblings who still get candy from the "Easter Bunny" and they're probably not going to buy "The Easter Bunny didn't bring your sister anything because she's on a diet." What can I have my mom give me so that I can have fun on Easter and still stick to my diet?
Peeps. They have Zero fat!! -trix

Q: what brand of mascara works really well?
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Q: Have you noticed if a girl has sex they are called a slut and when a guy has sex they get more popular. I dont understand it please someone explain it to me or give your opinion on it!!
i rate high!
I totally agree. its cuz guys arent as sensitive plus they couldnt take half of what we take. they'd just kill themselves. Girls are stronger. We are better... no secret. Guys are just dumb (not all) but alot have the idea that they can push us around and use us. But we needa learn to prove them wrong.. i guess when a girl sleeps around alot they are pushovers..-trix

Q: My eye makeup seems to get all greasy and crappy looking after a while. Is my face oily? What do I do to prevent this?
It may be oily. Put powder on your face. Instead of just foundation if u dont do that already. Anyways when u go to get face wash look for stuff for oily skins and that'll help!!-trix

Q: my friend is depressed. she always tells me her problems and itold her to get therapy bcuz it helps and ive been through it. but after i tell her this she always says "see thats why i cant count on you. you never help me with my problems" she always makes me feel so guilty. How can i help her?
Well if she has any problems that relate to yours or close to it anyways just say what your therapist said to you and help her. Dont just tell her always to get a therapist sometimes just take the time to tell her what you think. Im sure she wants to be able to know what you have to say and what your wise words are!!-trix

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Q: i have the worst time getting up in the morning. I fall asleep around ten and TRY to wake up at 6:30. my alarm will go off, ill wake up, but then i go back to sleep till 7:15 and miss the bus. Can anybody help me wake up better in the morning?
Try eating breakfast. Put a poptart by your bed in the morning cuz breakfast helps some people wake up and get outta bed. -trix



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Q: Okay, here's the thing. I have a crush on this boy. I have liked him for a while, and nothing is happening! It almost seems like he's emotionless sometimes! So should I move on or keep liking him???
Well he probably doesnt wanna try anything with you cuz u 2 are not going out sometimes guys are like that. Just try to kiss him or being flirty or lovey dovey. You probably gotta put the moves on him for him to actually show emotions!-trix


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Q: Tonight I'm going with a few friends to see a scary movie. My boyfriend is going to try to come behind his parents back to go with me. This one guy that I know who really really likes me is also going, and I kinda like him. What should I do because I'd rather cuddle with my guy friend than my boyfriend. Help!!
Well Just try and convince your boyfriend that you dont want him to go cuz you care about him and you really dont want him to get caught cuz that'd suck big time!! Maybe this is calling for you to break up. And take a break. No matter how it may be to talk to your boyfriend about that it may have to be done. I broke up with my bf just telling him it was break.. and i ended up meeting someone awesome 3 weeks after me and that guy took a break and i ended going out with this new guy 2 months later and i spent 10 amazing and unforgetable months with. So my point is that you could take a break with your bf and spend amzing and unforgetable moments with this friend of yours. Thers always.. usually.. good that comes outta bad. So a break just might be good-trix


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Q: I know about cutting and what cutters do..but i watched tv the other day and it showed a girl who snapped a rubber band on her wrist and needed phyciatric help for it...what does a rubber band do and whats the purpos?
It snaps down onto your wrist.. so its pain and thats what cuttters or depressed people want. They think it helps them relieve there stress or problems or whatever is going thru there mind. So instead of really badly hurting themselves they use a rubberband to snap down... if you ever got a rubberband snapped at u it hurts.. and thats what happans to them but only closer to the skin and in a more tender area. Sorry if i got you confused-trix

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Q: theres a guy i really like, but he has a gf. i cant stop thinking about him, and its really making me sad. how can i get my mind off of him?
ps-i do a lot of sports and activities, but that doesnt help. any other ideas?
Well just put yourself in his shoes. You got to take you own advice. Whatever reminds you of him.... avoid it. Try not to talk to him.. stay away from that. Practice whatever sport your in alot and just try to improve on that and that will keep your mind off of him. I've had this prob. and im still actually having this prob. but just stay away from him and avoid talking to him-trix

Q: how do i get a guy to like me enough to ask me out on a date...what kinds of things should i do or say...i'll rate really high to anyone who gives a good answer.
You just be yourself, be funny, be outgoing, be kind of flirty.. thats all you can really do. You shouldnt change yourself for another guy so just be yourself!!-trix

Q: How do I get my hair to become straight and stay like that? It's a little wavy right now. What kind of products should I use? My hair is kind of thick too.
I use party up! I got my stuff at MJ capelli's. Its in a pink bottle. Like hot pink but its see thru just talk to the ppl there or any place like hair place if they have hair straightening products!-trix

Q: Hi. I just want you to know that i wanted to read some of your advice and your background is just so distracting that it gave me a headache trying to read through it...just letting you know that its very heard to look at!

Have a nice day!
okay thanks

Q: Hey i've been working with the same SN since 7th grade almost and now i'm a 9th grader...i want a new sn heres somethings about me or words i want in it.

Icy
Figure skater
Pink
silver
16
18

thats all i can think of right now i hope you guys can help me. THANKS IN ADVANCE!
IcyPink16 or 18.. i think that has a ring to it.. that could be just me.. but i think it does! Or SilverPink.. PinkFS. You could always do abbreviations!! Just mix your words. Im sure it will be a sweet sn anyways!-trix

Q: lo siento, tengo ir a mirar una pelicula con mi hermana muy hermosa y simpatica
im sorry, I have to go to watch a movie with my very beautiful and nice sister

i asked my dad who speaks spanish (He goes to spain from time to time)(family is there)

Q:
my best friend Kyle and i are not going out because he says "we should get closer" we have known each other for 2 years. what should i do to make this situation not awkward?
I'd say probably talk more and hang out more just because you to have known eacother for 2 years doesnt mean you know eachother very well. I have known Amanda for 6 years but we dont talk.. so its a diff. thing when you really think about it. i would Just call him more and make sure you do actually talk on the phone. And hang out more and make sure its fun-trix

Q: i asked Frank to the prom, but he said he didn't know because he said he can't dance. i asked him again and he back with the reply "dances aren't for me". what should i do?! i really want him to go because the 2 of us will have a fun time.
say you'd like to go cuz.. well you'd like to spend that speacial moment with him and its not all about dancing its just about having a good time-trix

Q: tomorrow night im going somwhere and there is going be some lads there. how do i get a guy 2 notice me? and if they ask me out shall we ask loads of questions to each other?
please help xxx
Just be yourself just ask the common questions such as.. how are you? what do you do for fun? where does this person work? in college? and ect. you'll be fine dont worry-trix

Q: I just found out that this girl i know is about to die because of cancer. I dont know how to handle it. someone please help me!!
both of my grandma's have cancer. You just gotta be there and talk to them. Live life like it was before no matter how hard cuz they dont like to see you hurt. My grandma told me that. and its true. trust me-trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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