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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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Does anyone know where I can find cute stuff for my AIM profile? My myspace? thanks. :D

For AIM Profiles, go on Xanga & Click Blogrings. Type in "AIM Profiles" and they have lots of people who make them. Click a blogring, choose a user, get your profile things.

As for MySpace:
www.freecodesource.com

I use them & they're amazing. =)

im starting to have alot of problems in life. i need alot help. does anyone know or is an advicenator that can help me with my life, friends, my parents, love, hate, and labels shes haveing trouble trough it too i need her experience. i searched someone on here and i forgot her name shes 13. does anyone know her name.

I'm not 13, but I'm available to help you throw email or IM.

My email address is: whoaitstinaxx@aol.com

And my sn is: hkgfjn christina.

It's your choice to do either. If my away message is up, IM me anyways, cause I'm sitting right there.

in gym the other day i was taking a shower and we were just talking an we then just like started to talk about sex. i got hard and everyones like lets try anal so i was like wat the hell y not is that bad

Wait, you were going to beef some guys taco? Aren't you a guy? There's nothing wrong with that, but at school? Wow.

um im 5`2 and im 108 lbs. is that fat? and ps. i dont have boobs so the extra ponuds i got comes from my stomach and thighs.

another question is, what helpful ways can u recommend to me about losing weight in less than a month in my stomach and thighs coz im a pretty skinny girl with really big thighs which is really weird (oh and i forgot stomach too, i look prgnant!) i need help and tips. thanks!

You don't need to lose weight. Just tone up your theighs & stomach by running & doing crunches. You're fine for your height. Stop freaking out. You're not fat.

Well... when yearbook orders went out I missed the deadline :(
Its the end of the year and yearbooks are coming out soon.

Obvioulsly i don't have one for people to sing..
so what are some non-lame ideas for a place for people to autograph (not a shirt or anything.. like a replacement yearbook without the school...)

14/f

Your school doesn't have extras that you guys could buy? Try that. If they don't, just get a blank book from Barnes & Noble and use that. =)

Kwame Obiajulu Yobachi Aliaune

That is one person's african names. How the hell would you pronounce that?

Ku-wah-may Oh-bee-ah-joo-loo Yo-bah-chee Ah-lee-oo-knay

I used to be great at writing everything from essays to poetry to stories,but I lost my flare somewhere along the way.It used to come so naturally and everything that I wrote was good,but I took a break from it and now I just can't do it any more.Most of what I can come up with is mediocre at best,and when I do get on to something great it takes so much effort that it doesn't even matter to me.

Are there any exercises or anything that I can do to get my writing skills back up?

Don't think about it so much. Just let your pen do the talking & I'm sure you'll get the hang of it again.

is there any good songs about losing trust or losing trust and then forgiveness, as long as its not screamo or hard core rap. thanks

False Pretense -- The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus.
Choke On This -- Senses Fail.

and she's straight and is a homophobe lol but she hits on me all the time i mean i've turned straight girls gay but not homophobes so i don't know how i should handle this or if i should do it at all, any suggestions?

Don't make a move on her. She's a homophobe, and she's definitely not into you OR the same sex for that matter. She's strictly for men & you need to respect that.

how can you tell if a guy likes you ..?

They don't treat you like they treat everyone else. They might tease you. They joke with you, flirt, smile & make eye contact with you.

Ok here's the deal, My friend and my bf can't stand eachother. Now my bf doesn't care if I hang out with my friend he just says while I'm with her he won't be around. My friend doesn't want me going out with him. She told me to dump him because she "Just doesn't like him." Should I try talking to her again or get rid of her or what? i've been friends with her for awhile but I don't know what to do.

Date who you wanna date. It's your life, not your friends. She has NO reason not to like him. "Because I just don't" is not a legitimate reason. Tell your friend you're going to be with him & that's that.

My heart was recently broken any suggestions on how to fix it and to forget about the girl?

Think about how much better you are without her. Occupy your time with something else & accept that she's not the one. There's a lot of other girls out there.

I'm trying to broaden my horizons and find some Metal bands that appeal to me.From what I've heard it all sounds too similar and the singers always sounds like they're being savagely raped and/or having their balls slammed between a door.The closest I can get is doomy stuff like Black Sabbath and whatnot.

Megadeath.
Jimi Hendrix.
Kiss.
AC/DC.

hi :]
i'm in high school & we got our yearbooks yesterday. & i told my boyfriend that i would write something in his on Monday & i wrote my name on a page, b/c i want to fill up a WHOLE page. but now i'm like, what do i write?? i've written him letters before, but since this is his Yearbook and he probably kept it for a long time & other people will read it, so i don't want it to be TOO personal. any ideas on what i should write?
thx. ♥

Write whatever comes to mind. Who cares if it's personal or not? You guys are dating, it's fine. =) Just tell him how much you love him & how happy you are to be with him. Write something from the heart.

I had this hudge crush on this guy, let's call him "Bob". He is really amazing! We are really good friends now. We have always been friends but there has always been some type of feeling between us (everyone says so. So it's not just me). But the thing is, it's never gonna work. We are in the "Friend-zone" now. We are really good friends, i love being Bob's friend, he is the sweetest! I don't have a crush on him anymore. And this is where the problem starts, I met this new guy- "Jerry". He's great, he really is. Sweet, funny, caring, goregous eyes, hot body (six pack!)and social. He are kinda together now, not really exlusive of anything but he did say something about me being his girlfriend. And the problem is I can't get Bob out of my head! I keep comparing Jerry to Bob. And to be honest, Jerry doesn't match up to Bob! Bob and I have so much in common! We share the same music, humor and way of thinking. But Jerry, all we share is...I don't even know. To be honest, I don't even know Jerry that much, even though he is my kinda-boyfriend now. Last night, i was hot and cozy with Jerry, freaked out about commiting to this guy, threw him out at four o'clock in the morning and went over to Bob's place and crashed on his couch.
I don't know what to do!!!! I'm so confused about everything!!! Please help!! Give any advice what so ever! I'm in complete darkness here, please giv eme some light!

You obviously don't know what you want. Stay single so no one gets hurt.

why is it a bad idea to make guys jealous?
j/w .

thanks in advanceee.

Because it's dumb & the guy could give up on you all together.

sorry if in wrong catagory...

i need to buy a cheap digital camera that will just take decent pictures. i don't need some big fancy thing...i need one priced like 100-200$ or something that will just take simple pictures that i can upload to my computer. any suggestions?

For Christmas, my parents got me and my brother these super cute cameras. They were only 70 dollars. It came up to 90 with the memory card. It holds about 2285 pictures WITH the memory card inserted AND the pictures are of good quality. However, it doesn't exactly take the press of a button to take the picture. I mean, it does, but it takes longer because it has to make sure the camera is steady & then it takes the picture. You also have to use really, really good batteries because it uses a lot of the energy of the battery depending on how many pictures you take. I recommend Lithium Batteries or some sort. You can usually find those in the camera section of Wal*Mart. I don't know what the camera's called or if they even sell it anymore, but I've got it showing in my picture on my column. If I can find the name out for you, I'll edit my question. Until then, check out the walmart site for cameras.

www.walmart.com

I'm doing a report on the social injustices of Anti-Abortion laws. Does anyone have any pro-choice opinions on why abortion should stay legal, and general opinions on the topic?

My opinion is that it should only be legal in certain situations such as rape, or incest. Then & only then should it be okay to abort a fetus.

If one has had unprotected sex & knew the consequences, they should keep the baby. they were stupid enough to have sex with no condom, so in turn they're stupid enough to handle it. It is their responsibility.

Thanks for answering my one question ware I was asking if I was putting in the tampon wrong beacause it hurt and always leaked. Should you not be able to see it all all one it's in?

The only part you should see when you have it in is the string so you can take it out. That's the only thing you should see.

14/f
is it true that if you dye your hair while on your period that your hair turns green or yellow or whatever?

No. That's a stupid myth people tell you so that you don't dye your hair at a certain time. The only time it's bad to dye your hair is when you're pregnant.

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