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Twisted mind of a teenage girl!
I had this hudge crush on this guy, let's call him "Bob". He is really amazing! We are really good friends now. We have always been friends but there has always been some type of feeling between us (everyone says so. So it's not just me). But the thing is, it's never gonna work. We are in the "Friend-zone" now. We are really good friends, i love being Bob's friend, he is the sweetest! I don't have a crush on him anymore. And this is where the problem starts, I met this new guy- "Jerry". He's great, he really is. Sweet, funny, caring, goregous eyes, hot body (six pack!)and social. He are kinda together now, not really exlusive of anything but he did say something about me being his girlfriend. And the problem is I can't get Bob out of my head! I keep comparing Jerry to Bob. And to be honest, Jerry doesn't match up to Bob! Bob and I have so much in common! We share the same music, humor and way of thinking. But Jerry, all we share is...I don't even know. To be honest, I don't even know Jerry that much, even though he is my kinda-boyfriend now. Last night, i was hot and cozy with Jerry, freaked out about commiting to this guy, threw him out at four o'clock in the morning and went over to Bob's place and crashed on his couch.
I don't know what to do!!!! I'm so confused about everything!!! Please help!! Give any advice what so ever! I'm in complete darkness here, please giv eme some light!
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okay well i think that before you should get in a big relationship with Jerry you should be friends. and if he really likes you then he should respect your feelings, and decisions.
If he doesnt then maybe you should really be together, as cheesy as this may sound just follow your heart.
Maybe you dont know Jerry well enough for all of this. and thats why Bob has kept on going on your mind. cause you no more about him.
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You obviously don't know what you want. Stay single so no one gets hurt.
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Don't be in such a hurry for a boyfriend. Hang out with Bob, have a good time and if nothing happens then you still have a good friend. Maybe take a litle time to get to know Jerry better before making him your "official" boyfriend. It seems you need to know someone to be attracted to them so stop trying to rush into things. Cherish your frienship with Bob, bf come and go but good real friends are forever.
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