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Q: There is this girl that i like and I have known her for a long time but I don't know if she likes me and she always has a boyfriend that I helped her hook up with what should I do
Tell her. But maybe wait awhile to see how things go... but if you get the feeling she will react to that badly or may not like you back.. i wouldnt say anything unless you feel like "taking things off your shoulders" then go for it unless then dont.sorry -trix

Q: ok well i have this friend and shes awesome i love her soooooooo much and like one day i was gonna IM this guy that screwed her over and mess with him and i ended up calling him and i bitched him out for a while then like somehow i started to really like talking to him and i knew if she knew she would be soooo pissed and well i told her that i had talked to him and that i wanted to keep talking to him and she got really mad and said she hated me and wouldnt talk to me for a few days then i told her id never talk to him again but i have, i talk to him on the phone every once in a while and he wants me to meet him in person but i no i shouldnt but i still like to talk to him on the phone, only if she knew i still talk to him shed prolly never talk to me again and i dunno what to do, I REALLY LIKE HIM, i know its sick, and i know i shouldnt like him cuz he really hurt my best friend but i still do and i cant help it :( what should i do?????
Friends first- guys 2nd .. you and that guy will most likely break up but you and your friend wont lose touch im sure .. only if u go with the guy u prolly will. And the whole might be a spring fling thig and youll slowly get over him but you would never want to risk losing a best friend o0oTRIXo0o

Q: Hiya.. first of all.. you're adorable.. and it's awesome how you're helpin people out.. anywhos.. alright.. here's how it goes.. My mom and my real good guy friend dylan's mom work together.. we've always kinda had a thing for eachother.. but never did anything about it.. a few months ago.. he started to like my friend katie.. but she decided she didn't like him or whatever.. and so me and him started talkin again.. and we flirt like crazy.. seriously.. it's out of control.. but we're such good friends.. and I'm not 100% positive I want something to happen.. it's just kinda like he's always been there.. and I do like him.. infact.. I like him a lot.. but we're such good friends.. I just don't know.. what do you think about this?
I would ask him out and then if things dont seem to be working out then i would call it all off and i am sure he would understand that being that you 2 are such good friends and im sure he wouldnt want to ruin a good friendship anyways.-trix

Q: Hey
I'm 16 years and a female.
My boyfriend and I had been together for 3 months, then last wk we broke up b/c he thought it was to much drama and we were fighting to much (which we were) but anyways the nite after that he told me he still wanted to be really close friends and always hang out and I told him I understand that but i need some time away from him so i can get over him, but i made him cry. Then a couple days ago he came over wit some of his friends and we made out (and i dont know what i was thinking )and he asked me what I wanted and i told him i wanted to b with him. Then he says well i think i wanna be with you to i just need come time to think about it. Then before he left he kissed me again and said the same thing. I dont know weather I should wait for him to make up his mind b/c i like him a lot but hes also messing wit my head and i've gotten to a point where i dont know what to do anymore. If you could give me some advice that would b great!!
Tell him how you feel and you dont know if you should sit and wait around... noone should have to sit and wait for him to come around cuz what happans if he doesnt? you waisted that time.. so tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels.-trix

Q: how do u covince your parents 2 let u get a cell phone. and that u are responsible enough to have one.
Show them that you are responsible enough by doing chores or extra chores and have a good attitude towards things and keep grades high!-trix

Q: ive been going out with this guy for a couple of weeks and i really have fallen in love with him. weve kissed before, but i really want to take our relationship to the next level. i dont htink hell say no or anything, but im just really nervous. were going to the movies tomorrow, do i kiss him or even MAKE OUT with him??????
Just dont move to fast.. he might get another idea.-trix

Q: There is this girl in a couple of my classes that i like but im not sure if she likes me more than just a friend. I want to ask her out but im not sure how exactly. What should I do?
Email, letter, note, Messanger, Phone, Through a friend, or in person. those are ways you can someone out. Those are good ways.. and seems like the only ways but if you like someone ask her out there worst thing that could happan is her say no and youll move on. good luck!! -trix

Q: my cat snores....is that normal??!?! lol
(btw she has asthma)
I wouldnt worry about it.. and if starts to really worry you.. then i would take your cat back to he hospital or whatever it is called. Hope everything goes ok!!! -trix

Q: i'm 14 and this older guy likes me he's 16 and i've known him for like forever but now he wants me to be his girlfriend and it's weird because of parents and friends so i'm not sure if i should go out with him or just still be friends
Well maybe you should give it a shot and if it doesnt seem to be working out.. and tell him that and if he is a good friend im sure that he will understand where you are coming from and he might feel that way too-trix

Q: okay i am an 12 year old male. and i like this girl at school and i keep on having sexual fantasies about her am i to young is this normal
I guess so. im sure all guys have "sexual fantasies" about girls weather they like them or not. I think its pretty much a guy thing-trix

Q: I would like someone to tell me how it really is in the airforce and what its all about. I am planning on signing up soon. I would like to know everything, good and definetly all the bad. Thank u =)~
Your away alot. Alot of marching. Saluting. Yes mam Yes sir. Waking up real early. Like 5 am. going to sleep early is good thing. Alot of jogging and running. Eating every 6 hours. Thats all i know. -trix

Q: i like this girl who is at my school. But she is more popular than i am. what do i do to get her to notice me iv'e tried everything
Well if she doesnt notice you even when you put all your effort into it then she isnt worth it. it may seem really silly now if you look back on it in the future.. go for someone who will be thankful for all the effort you put towards it. -trix

Q: Does a guys height affect their penis size ? If so , what do you think a 175+ cm tall guys penis size is ? Btw , i'm just curious , and i'm a girl .
I dont think so... i dont really know-im not penis expert-trix

Q: I shave my legs,
I sit down to pee.
And I can justify any,
Shopping spree.
Don't go to a barber,
But a beauty salon.
I can get a massage
Without a hard-on.
I can balance the checkbook,
I can pump my own gas.
Can talk to my friends,
about the size of my ass.
My beauty's a masterpiece,
and yes, it takes long.
At least I can admit,
To others when I'm wrong.
I don't drive in circles,
at any cost.
And I don't have a problem,
admitting I'm lost.
I never forget,
an important date.
You just gotta deal with it,
I'm usually late.
I don't watch movies,
with lots of gore.
Don't need an instant replay,
to remember the score.
I won't lose my hair,
I don't get jock itch.
And just cause I'm assertive,
Don't call me a bitch.
Don't say to your friends,
Oh yeah, I can get her.
In your dreams, my dear,
I can do better
Flowers are okay,
But jewelry's best.
Would you look at my face,
Instead of my chest
I don't have a problem,
With Expressing my feeling.
I know when ur lying,
You look at the ceiling.
Don't call me a girl,
A babe or a chick.
I am a WOMAN,
Get it, you prick?
haha.. ive seen that like 2 yrs ago though.. in a email though.. but it never does get old lol i dont think you made it up though-trix

Q: everywhere I go I feel like someone is following me I don't know if it is good or bad but this feeling takes place when I'm alone. is this normal?
Ha i get that to.. its usually when i go down into my basement.. i feel like im not alone.. like maybe a protector of some sort.. but i still yet get scared.. it could be a ghost.. or something.. just look at it as a angel. -trixie

Q: Death be silent
Death be still
Death be ready
For my last will
wow-thats interesting lol -trix

Q: this is for c talon since he/she wants a better type of peotry instead of the "self pity"
My Friend
Life is full of ups and downs
smile laughter tears and frowns
but with all life's changes
its good to know
i have a friends to whon i can go
and no matter how hurt that
i have been
you always remind me i have a friend
my life has been blessed becaus eof you
your loving ways
and allt hat you do.



Happy this isnt a self pity poem!!!!
thats pretty good! -trix

Q: Another happy poem :)
Life is life
Love is love
Angels are blessing
from above
you are an angel
and will always be
my heart bears a lock
but you hold the key
you are my sunshine
on a cloudy day
one who washes my tears away
my lifes been so much better
since ive meet you
i wish i could tell you
i wish you knew
if only you knew how much
you mean to me
thats what my only wish
.... would be
Thats another good poem i have read today!! some people are just talented i guess!! keep on writing poems!! trix

Q: Some people think teens are depressing
But im not im just expressing
My thought and feelings
Bout people and all the killings
But what about all the news
About drunks filled with booze
So if a lil poem is bad
then what about the sad
Look at this pity war
Is it me or is this for
someone to be put in history
For what
......a mystery?
That is not bad at all!! that is really good! i give u a 7 thumbs up on that one pal!! keep writing!! -trix

Q: __Takes my breath away__

Sitting next to him,
I like to say,
that he takes my breath away,
To the Lord,
I pray,
because he takes my breath away,
In my mind,
over and over I play,
"He takes my breath away",
his name is no use,
for all I say,
Is that he takes my breath away,
He's taken, I know,
but be it as it may,
he still takes my breath away.
Pretty good. -trixie

bio
bAhAmAmA0250
My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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