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what should i do????
ok well i have this friend and shes awesome i love her soooooooo much and like one day i was gonna IM this guy that screwed her over and mess with him and i ended up calling him and i bitched him out for a while then like somehow i started to really like talking to him and i knew if she knew she would be soooo pissed and well i told her that i had talked to him and that i wanted to keep talking to him and she got really mad and said she hated me and wouldnt talk to me for a few days then i told her id never talk to him again but i have, i talk to him on the phone every once in a while and he wants me to meet him in person but i no i shouldnt but i still like to talk to him on the phone, only if she knew i still talk to him shed prolly never talk to me again and i dunno what to do, I REALLY LIKE HIM, i know its sick, and i know i shouldnt like him cuz he really hurt my best friend but i still do and i cant help it :( what should i do?????
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Well, it might be hard,but you have to let him go!Look at it this way,if he screwed over your best friend,what makes you any different!Trust me it is the right thing to do!!!!!
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Friends first- guys 2nd .. you and that guy will most likely break up but you and your friend wont lose touch im sure .. only if u go with the guy u prolly will. And the whole might be a spring fling thig and youll slowly get over him but you would never want to risk losing a best friend o0oTRIXo0o
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It comes down to a decision of what is more important to you: the friendship or the new guy. Remember, if the guy turns out to be a jerk to you, your friend will probably not have any sympathy for you and you will have lost a friend that you love soooooooo much for a quick romance. How would you feel if SHE started seeing someone who treated you badly and had watched you suffer through the relationship? Make a decision you are willing to live with in the end.
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You can't help who you like, your not supposed to. No matter how hard you try you'll probably still like him. Your friend can't see this right now, but in time she will. For the moment, try talking to her. If you loose your friends trust, she will feel there is nothing left. I hope everything goes well for your relationship and your friend.
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What did he do to screw your friend over? I would stear clear of him. He screwed your friend over. He probably did the same thing to your friend that he's doing to you. Being really nice, looking for an opportunity. Setting you up just to screw you over. It sounds like he can't be trusted. I would stick by your friend. But if you really, really, really like him, you should date him. Personally, I think your risking too much if you continue to see him.
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I think that you shouldn't do that to your friend. I mean, you like him but if what he did to ur friend was so bad, don't you think he could do the same thing to you? I also wouldn't do it because, you're friend is prolly more important to you, and i wouldn't want you to lose ur friendship over a guy. Just think about it before you do anything. But, do you want the same thing that happened to her, to happen to you?
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Well if they arent going out then you should go for it. But if you know that your friend is like to best thing like you Love her then just tell her how you feel. But if it were me, I would just choose to be friends with that guy, because I wouldnt want to risk my friendship over a boy. Boys should never get in between you and your friend. Because your friends and specially that friend will always be there but Boys wont. See how you see he already screwed her. Now they arent together. Just keep your friend, dont let a boy get inbewteen your friendship! Hope I Helped!
-Stephanie
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