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i like this girl who is at my school. But she is more popular than i am. what do i do to get her to notice me iv'e tried everything
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Don't get into a pickle about this popularity thing. BELIEVE ME. Popularity does NOTHING for anyone. The popular kids at your school are going to have a hard time elsewhere, because popularity doesn't really help you at all. Now that I've ranted on about that, be normal. Go up to her. Talk to her. If she acts like a snob and tells you about why she can't like you because she's popular and you're, well, NOT, then she needs a reality check. If you've tried that, but still want her to notice you, be persistant! Try to make friends with her. No one is purely evil(sorry)! If you try to be yourself and ignore which "area" you've been separated into, all should be fine. I hope that helps.
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You say that you've tried "everything" and she still hasn't noticed you. "Everything" is a broad term, so this is a broad answer to your question. If she hasn't noticed you by now, reflect back on any responses she has had to you. Does she smile back or reply when you talk to her? Is she purposely ignoring you or does she not realize that you want more than a casual bit of contact in the halls or in class? When people are popular, they literally seem to know everyone. Maybe she sees so many faces that she can't keep up with them all, so next time you speak to her, make sure that your name comes up. When you see her and greet her by name she should call you by name, too. When that finally happens, then you are a bit closer than before! Build on this a little at a time, finding different topics to approach her with so you'll be prepared for a longer conversation if it should develop.
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Ok well if she is not talking to you she might be thrig to hint you! You are so much better than her dont waste your time with someone who is not willing to listen! Go find someone your speed! Someone who wants you around! Popular people think they are better than everyone!I hope I helped and if you have anymore questions just ask me if you want!
*Double_B*
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Just be yourself for one thing, no one likes a peron who is trying to impress someone to much. If you can ask around to get her sn and talk to her online if you run out of options. Or don't let popularity stop you from talking to her, get some guts and talk to her, you'll feel good after you do!
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Dont really bother most of the popualr crews like for instance my group of friends would be like mean. I mean popular people think they are so much better then others. I hang out with like half the people at my school but if a guy liked me and wasnt my type id be like ya know, I dont really wanna be in a relationship. Or Id be staright up and tell him he werent my type and we could still hang out! Hopefully things work out though. You should move on to someone else, because sometimes people are soo self contious and worry bout them selfs and not bout what people think or other peoplez feelings!
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if she has not noticed u by now then find some-1 who will!!she isnt wrth wasten<(idk) yo time...
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Well if she doesnt notice you even when you put all your effort into it then she isnt worth it. it may seem really silly now if you look back on it in the future.. go for someone who will be thankful for all the effort you put towards it. -trix
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Well an age might help but i'll try from the info you gave me.. Alright let me clue you in on a little secret guys are killing them selves to find out (figertalive speaking) so here it is:
Its not that Girls dont NOTCIE guys its just they dont kno you like them. If you ever get a chance to be alone with her or where you can talk to her you need to tell her who you are try to find a conncection like im in your 3rd hour or i sit with these ppl at lucnh or who u hang out with so she sorta knows who u are then say that you think shes really beautiful and compliment her alot beacuse let me let u kno if u have a great personaility it surpasses popularity try gettin her screename online myte be easery to talk to her that way if your nervous or e-mailing mabey even hint it off to one of her friends mabey she'll put in a good word for u!
good luck and remember just be your self!
-Ben there Dont that-
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