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Question Posted Tuesday June 8 2004, 11:38 pm

okay i am an 12 year old male. and i like this girl at school and i keep on having sexual fantasies about her am i to young is this normal

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queenbianca2004 answered Wednesday June 9 2004, 5:20 pm:
Totally normal. You cant help it. Its puberty! Now as long as you dont touch her if its not wanted you'll be ok! Hope I helped Ask if you got the question!

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Rhiannon05 answered Wednesday June 9 2004, 5:20 pm:
Eh heh... don't worry. It happens to us all. Just about everyone has really strange and slightly desturbing fantasies sometimes.As long as they STAY fantasies, sure. Fine. Why not. If you start trying to make them reality... THEN we have a problem. Sometimes just trying to think about something else works. If you get them very often, then that's kind of scary. Try to think about other things, and try to become friends with this girl! Just try to remain calm and sane. That always helps. (One more word of advice: try not to tell anyone about these strange dreams. BELIEVE ME. Rumors start, and those are NO fun. Eventually Your Reputation= What reputation? BELIEVE ME. I learned it the hard way!!) I hope that helps!

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday June 9 2004, 5:02 pm:
I guess so. im sure all guys have "sexual fantasies" about girls weather they like them or not. I think its pretty much a guy thing-trix

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MotherJune answered Wednesday June 9 2004, 1:29 pm:
"Normal" varies from person to person, depending on when they start puberty. There is certainly nothing wrong with you, but don't rush into becoming sexually active just because you think about it. Television, movies, and song lyrics pressure young people into feeling like they have to "do" something about their feelings. Maturity is controlling your impulses and learning to grow into experiences at the right time. Talk to the girl and be friendly. If she seems interested in you, exchange phone numbers and TALK. Get to know her and enjoy her company.

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cr8zymonkeyluv07 answered Wednesday June 9 2004, 10:57 am:
Thats totally normal! You are a little young, but some guys mature earlier than others. As far as what to do about it, ask her out or just talk to her, get her phone number or something. Good luck!

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Double_B answered Wednesday June 9 2004, 10:28 am:
This is totally normal! Its your horrimones starting! Just try not to be in the red zone in school! I hope I helped you! ask a question anytime!

*Double_B*

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xokristabelle answered Wednesday June 9 2004, 12:16 am:
Don't worry- you're normal. Guys especially do that sort of thing when they start puberty, it's just a phase.

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sunkistsarah answered Wednesday June 9 2004, 12:12 am:
yep its normal!!!:]

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JamesBaybiGurl answered Tuesday June 8 2004, 11:42 pm:
No, everyone usually starts exsperiensing certain symtoms and stuff like that. Most boys I know usually like Masturbate. I dont know, your really young to be thinking about having sex, but you could Masturbate and thats like safer. And I hear it feelz good. Lol, Anywho have fun!

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