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Does anyone know any websites that you can go to give you healthy diets, weight loss suggestions, and other things along those lines?

automatic 5's to ANYTHING that helps! (link)
http://www.4woman.gov/faq/diet.htm

http://www.ediets.com/?code=17551

http://familydoctor.org/288.xml

http://nutrition.about.com/

http://www.geocities.com/kaloriekounts/



How would I properly say this sentence -

If I were you.
If I was you.

(link)
"If I were you" is the proper way to say it.



I'm going to buy the Nitendo (sp?) DS and I'm not sure which game to get, Zoo tycoon or Super Mairo. I'm 14/f and I hate the games that are like really hard to beat but with some chanlege and I've played both games befor. Which one do you reccomend?
Will, rate too!!!!!
Thanks! (link)
You should get Super Mario. I love that game. It's so much fun.



I need to get a new perfume, and I want my boyfriend to like it. What are some inexpensive (under $35) perfumes that guys will like? I started wearing JLO Still, but my boyfriend never even commented it.. and also my mom said it smelled bad. Any other suggestions? (link)
I adore the perfume Paris Hilton.

Also Coolwater and Lacoste.

Those are all inexpensive.



i dont know what to put in my profile? i have quotes and stuff in it right now but its getting old! any suggestions? any of your favorite quotes? thanks! (link)
Some of my favorite quotes are:


I hate you but I love you
I just cant stop thinking about you
Its true im stuck on you


&
all she really wants is
to feel a bit less rejected.


girl : tell me you love me.
boy: i can't.
girl : why not?
boy : cuz i don't love you.
girl : then why have you been...you broke my heart.
boy: i can't tell you i love you cuz that would be a lie...but i can honestly say i A.D.0.R.E. you


She finally lets go of her fake smile
&
tears slowly run down her face
as she whispers to the mirror
"i don't want to be me"


& i heart you baby


&& she pretends she doesn't care
but really she cares more than anyone else


&& they broke up..and were totally over eachother..everyone knew that..but when she looks at him and he looks at her..that look in their eyes tells a different story


&* She Sparkles
Inside &* Out


If you need more IM me on XXMiSZJUCiiXX



ok when i have my period i wear pads..its just my preference..ive tried tampons..but mine are really heavy and yeah! i know you really like tampons ..because ive read previous advice but im not gonna start wearing them again! well guess what?! i have my period for break..fun fun hah not ..

but like im going to be seeing a lot of people and i wanna wear my new clothes i got for x-mas and they are all shorteR like t-shirts..or shorter long-sleeved..sweatshirts..and like when i wear them my underwear lines kinda show thru my jeans...its kind embarassing..makes me wanna stay in the whole break..but i dont wanna make it ruin my whole break :( is there anything to reduce the pantyline?! i usually wear thongs..i just wear regular ones when i have my period..

maybe tomorrow i MIGHT try to to the tampon again..the problem is i had trouble the first time ..i couldnt get it iN! and that made me really scared..and i couldnt find the hole to put it in..my mom even tried..yeah i know weird..but i had to i was on vacation! but i still couldnt get it in. and if i do end up gettin it in for some reason..my periods are REALLY heavy and im scared it will leak..so any suggestions if i cant get the tampon in??

well thanks..

and hope you had a good christmas (link)
I suggest you buy boyshorts from Victoria Secret the thin ones.
You don't necessarily have to buy them from Victoria Secret you can get them in any clothing department stores.

You can also try to wear a thong with thong pantyliners.



is it okay to wear thongs to bed cuz i did the other day cuz i slept at my friends house and i forgot to change, or is it like, bad for you. j/w (link)
It's perfectly fine to wear thongs to bed.



Okay...i want some really good love songs. It would be best if they were by current artists, but if it's older thats fine. If anyone can give me this list quick and with good selections, i'll rate high (link)
1st Lady - Never Be Replaced

3 Days Grace - I Hate Everything About You

112 - What if

Alexz Johnson - That Girl

Allure- All Cried Out

Amanda Perez - I Pray

Andain - Beautiful Things

Ashlee Simpson - I Am Me

Bon Jovi - Always

Britney Spears - The Answer, Santa Can You Hear Me

Cassie - Me & You

Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me

Hope Partlow - Sick Inside

Jagged Edge - Promise

Kaila Yu - Sugar

Judy Torres - Faithfully

Kasey Chambers - Stronger

Lalaine - Did You Hear About Us

Lucy Woodward - What's Good For Me

Mariah Carey - Dont Forget About Us, We Belong Together

Ne-Yo - So Sick

The Ataris - In This Diary

The Starting Line - Lasting Impressions

Usher - You Remind Me, You Got It Bad, My Boo

Trina ft. Kelly Rowland - Here We Go Again

Yellowcard - Way Away

The Veronicas - 4ever

Ray J - One Wish

Nivea - Complicated

Rihanna - If It's Lovin' That You Want, There's A Thug In My Life

Latif - I Don't Want To Hurt You

Lil Corey - The First Time

Lil Rob - Summer Nights

Maria - I Give, You Take

Mario - You Should Let Me Love You

Nelly ft. Kelly Rowland - Dilema, Ride With Me

NB Riders ft Angelina - Notice Me

P Diddy f. Usher - I Need a Girl

Omarion - I'm Tryin, O

Leanne Rimes - How Do I Live Without You

Lasgo - Pray

Liz Phair - Why Cant I

Natalie - Going Crazy

Natasha Bedingfield - These Words

Pussycat Dolls - Stick With You



Hey Guys, This Has Really been bothering me and I don't know what to do. I Knew what sex was when I was about 6 years old. I'm 13 Now. But I'm Worried that I wasn't Raised Right. I mean Most Kids don't even know what Making Out is When their like 7!! But I Knew! Was I or Am I Normal??? No SmartAzz's About This....Thanks (link)
Of course you are normal.
There was nothing wrong about you knowing at at age 6.
It doesn't mean you were raised bad at all.
You'd be pretty surprised on how many kids know about at a young age.



for christmas i got an ipod nano & i wanted to add more songs to it. anyone have any good song ideas?? i like hip/hop, rap, etc.

thanks!! (link)
1st Lady - Never Be Replaced

3 Days Grace - I Hate Everything About You

112 - What if

Acceptance - Bleeding Heart

Alanis Morsette - Ironic

Alexz Johnson - That Girl

Alkaline Trio - Time To Waste

All American Rejects - 11-11 PM

Allure- All Cried Out

Aly & AJ - Rush

Amanda Perez - I Pray

Andain - Beautiful Things

Ashlee Simpson - I Am Me

Belinda - Be Free

Black Eyed Peas - Shut Up, My Humps

Bon Jovi - Always

Bratz Rock Angelz - So Good

Britney Spears - The Answer, Santa Can You Hear Me

Cassidy ft. R Kelly -Come to My Hotel

Cassie - Me & You

Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me

Christina Vidal - Thought That We Were Friends

Evanescence - Everybody's Fool

Fallout Boy - Dance Dance

Halifax - Anthem For Tonight

Hawthrone Heights - Niki FM

Hope Partlow - Sick Inside

Jagged Edge - Promise

Jamison Parker - Best Mistake

Jason Mraz - Geek In The Pink

Kaila Yu - Sugar

Judy Torres - Faithfully

Kasey Chambers - Stronger

Keyshia Cole - I've Changed My Mind, I Should Have Cheated

Kylie Minogue - Red Blooded Woman

Lalaine - Did You Hear About Us

Lucy Woodward - What's Good For Me

Mariah Carey - Dont Forget About Us

My Chemical Romance - To The End

Ne-Yo - So Sick

Nickleback - Photograph, Too Bad

Silverstein - Smile In Your Sleep

Stellar Project - Get Up Stand Up

Sugarcult - Pretty Girl

Sum 41 - Still Waiting

The Ataris - The Boys Of Summer, In This Diary

The Spill Canvas - All Hail the Heartbreaker

The Starting Line - Lasting Impressions

From First To Last - Emily

Usher - You Remind Me, You Got It Bad

Trina ft. Kelly Rowland - Here We Go Again

Yellowcard - Way Away, Lights And Sounds

Zeromancer - Famous Last Words

The Veronicas - 4ever

Aaliyah - Are You That Somebody

Ray J - Keep Sweating, One Wish

Pink - You Make Me Sick

Kelis - My Milkshake

Athena Cage- All Or Nothing

Khriz y Angel- Ven Bailalo (Reggaeton)

Kylie Minogue - Red Blooded Woman

N.O.R.E. & Nina Sky - Oye Mi Canto

Nivea ft. Lil Jon - Okay (Remix), Complicated

Rihanna - If It's Lovin' That You Want, There's A Thug In My Life

Beyonce- Check Up On It

R. Kelly - Burn It Up

Shakira ft. Alejandro Sanz - La Tortura (Remix)

Toni Braxton - Please

Willa Ford - I Wanna Be Bad

Sean Paul - We Be Burning

Chris Brown - Run It

T Pain - I'm Sprung

Latif - I Don't Want To Hurt You

Lil Corey - The First Time

Lil' Jon ft Ludacris & Usher - Lovers And Friends

LL Cool J - Hush

Lil Rob - Summer Nights

Maria - I Give, You Take

Ludacris ft. Bobby Valention - Pimpin' All Over The World

Mario - You Should Let Me Love You

Fabolous - Fly Away

Nelly ft. Kelly Rowland - Dilema, Ride With Me

NB Riders ft Angelina - Notice Me

P Diddy f. Usher - I Need a Girl

Omarion - I'm Tryin, O

R.Kelly - Burn It Up

Pretty RicKy - Grind With Me, Playhouse, Shorty Be Mine

Samantha Mumba - Baby Come On Over

Shaggy- It Wasn't Me

T.I. - You Don't Know Me

Teairra Mari - Make Her Feel Good

TOK - When You Cry

Trey Songz - Gotta Make It feat. Twista

Twista ft. Mariah Carey - So Lonely, Overnight Celebrity, Slow Jamz, Girl Tonight

Wisin y Yandel - Rakata



I need some suggestions on a song for my voicemail on my cell.
(link)
R. Kelly - Burn It Up


I have that as my voicemail message on my cell. I love that song.



Do all the misspellings and netspeak bother anyone else here? (link)
Yes. Most of the time it does bother me because you can't understand the question.
If there are a few misspelled words then no there is no problem with that but using netspeak that really bothers me.



on my aim if i am away for a long time, it makes me come back when i dont hit come back or anything.. anyone have any idea why this is and how i can stop it???


thanks. (link)
If you IM someone on AIM while you are away then that makes you come back without having to hit the "come back" button.


If it's not that
that makes you come back while you are away, then I dont know what else it can be.



15/f
i have never had a boyfriend. Is that like pathetic?? I want everyone to be honest like if you think thats stupid then say it i wanna know your honest opinion i wont get mad at anyone...unless you go like wayy overboard.

5 for anything. (link)
That is not pathetic at all.

There is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend.
If you are waiting for the right guy to come there is nothing wrong with that.
Don't worry about what other people think.



the used, My Chemical Romance, Fall Out Boy, and more bands that aren't coming to me right now put bonus tracks on their albums for the Japanese releases. Is there any site I can get these off of? Japanese iTunes doesnt have them.

the used had "the back of your mouth" and My Chemical Romance had "Bury Me In Black"

thanks, I'll rate high! (link)
Yea you can download them off limewire.


If you don't have limewire and don't want to download it then you can IM me on XXMiSZJUCiiXX and I'll download them for you and send them to you.



I hurt my back two days ago, not by any sudden movement. I was just sitting there, and my spine flipped out. Yes, it hurt very baddly. Question is, how long should I wait until I begin weight lifting again? The weights are not much; no more than 10 pounds. Heck, less than 5 pounds, to be honest. It doesn't really hurt anymore, but I think I can tell that it's not back to normal. Should I still give it a few days, or would some stretching assist in the healing process? (link)
I suggest you wait a few days before lifting weights and/or stretching.



quick and easy...
is there a way to send a comment to everyone on your myspace at the same time if it is the same msg.?? (link)
Nope.


Hello there. Too get straight to the point im very confused about who i am, and who i want too be, all my life ive been into rock and that sorta..thing, well sometimes ill feel like i want to be very girly and i bought a bunch of pink stuff but then i listen to my music and i think what im doing? and i go back..i dont know what to do, is there something wrong with me? (link)
There is nothing wrong with you.
Personally I hate when people label other people.

If you want to be preppy on day and rock the next there is nothing wrong with that.

It is alright to switch back and forth.



My bf is a stubborn jerk, to be blunt. Well for starters he got mad at me the last time I phoned him becuase it was before 6 pm. He moved away to another province 6 weeks ago for a job. He hasnt phoned me or emailed me since then. I also suspect he was annoyed becuase I didnt sound more upset that he was moving.
Everyone has warned me about long distant relationships, and I used to think me and my bf could do it. But now I can see what they were warning me about.
I cannot believe that my bf hasnt even wished me a merry xmas yet! Or bought me a gift and sent it in the mail!!
So my question is should I wait for him to email me or should I? (link)
If you really want to talk to him then go right ahead and email him.

But if I was in that position there would be no way of me emailing him.
If he cared enough he would email first.




okay i dont really like to read but i am going to give it a try do any of you recommand a good book i was reading some book today it was "A Child Called It" and i loved that book so do you know any more books like that and if you havent read that its about a child being abused plz help i rate 5s (link)
I read that book in 5th grade I loved it.


You should read "Go ask Alice".
That is such a good book.

Also The Gossip Girls series.





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