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should I email him?
My bf is a stubborn jerk, to be blunt. Well for starters he got mad at me the last time I phoned him becuase it was before 6 pm. He moved away to another province 6 weeks ago for a job. He hasnt phoned me or emailed me since then. I also suspect he was annoyed becuase I didnt sound more upset that he was moving.
Everyone has warned me about long distant relationships, and I used to think me and my bf could do it. But now I can see what they were warning me about.
I cannot believe that my bf hasnt even wished me a merry xmas yet! Or bought me a gift and sent it in the mail!!
So my question is should I wait for him to email me or should I?
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dump him if he cant make time for you why should you for him? do you really want to be in a one sided relationship?
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So, your boyfriend hasn't attempted to make contact with you for six weeks and is, in your own words, a "stubborn jerk".
Why are you still clinging to this relationship? He's either not that bothored about being with you, in which case you should break up with him because you deserve better, or he's playing ridiculous mind games because he's annoyed that you didn't create a ridiculous drama when he moved away, which is frankly pathetic behaviour from a grown man.
The mature thing to do would be to call him and tell him that you are ending things because he is clearly not capable of maintaining your relationship. The tempting thing to do would be to consider yourself a free woman and halt contact the way he's done to you and make him wonder what on earth is going on - it's your call.
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email him, you honsetly dot know why he hasnt emailed you, so just email and say happy holidays or what not and then if he doesnt get to emailin you back, just consider it over. If he isnt goin to try to keep in touch with you then the realtionship will definetly fail. long distances are realy really hard and when its a holiday or something its worse. So make sure to keep comunications going, you both do. Best of luck and I hopee your bf comes around. merry christmas!
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oh, he is definitely not worth it. ur rite, he IS a jerk, and just remember that hes not the only guy in the universe. trust me, theyre are SO many guys who are better. its not the fact that its a long distance relationship, but the fact that he doesnt seem trustworthy, or worth being a boyfriend. so my advice, is blow him off, but dont be too mean about it, just simply let him know, that he has a temper problem, that he needs to fix. hopefully, he'll fix it.
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Darling, if he hasn't emailed or called in a bloody month he probably isn't your boyfriend anymore...
You should definitely e-mail him. You are owed an explanation but before you do please consider:
Do you still want to be in a relationship with him after this?
After a month of no contact I'd be considering myself a free woman. Call it dumped by default.
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I don't see anything wrong with sending him a short email. Just something saying you hope he's okay because you haven't heard from him and wish him happy holidays. Between moving and a new job, he may have been too busy to call or write. I wouldn't give him forever though. A relationship, especially a long distance one, needs communication to survive. If he doesn't write or call soon, you might want to move on. Good luck.
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honestly, if he hasnt emailed you in a month in a half then i honestly dont think he will. definatly email him and see what's up. and the christmas present thing.. either he's a terrible bf or he is an amazing bf and doing something special to surprise you. call or email him and find out what's going on.
XO KALIE
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If this guy is being that much of a jerk to you, then there's gotta be something up. There's no reason for him to start acting like that out of the blue. I, personally would not wait for the guy. If he's gonna be my boyfriend then he's gonna have respect and not just think that he can act however he wants and then come back to me whenever. But, if you really care about him and want to know what's going on then ask him. That should determine weather you should stay with him or breakup. I hope I helped
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If you really want to talk to him then go right ahead and email him.
But if I was in that position there would be no way of me emailing him.
If he cared enough he would email first.
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