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James: one of my best friends ever
Joy: another best friend

In the beginning of the year, James liked me. im not going to go into detail about how i know,. but im positive. and anyway, i didnt think i did then. i was just so confused about it, so he found out that i didnt like him, and nothing ever happpened. but more recently, i've started to really like him. i actually think that i lov ehim, i really do. but my friend said that sheee thinks he likes joy, who i've been best friends with for more than 5 years. i kiund of see it. im pretty sure he doesnt like me. all i want is for him to be happy, and if thats going to make him happy, then i guess im glad. but it still hurts, a lot. especially since i dont think she likes him, and he's just going to end up getting hurt. i really don't want him to be unhappy, but at the same time, im really upset that he likes her and not me. should i feel so bad?

Well iits Ok thiisis really normal and she is your bestfriend and all but you cant help the way you feel i guess if he likes her just be happy for them i mean they will break up nothing lasts forever but if you want you can tell him how you feel face to face or over im but you tell him your self not your friends and see what he does he might hang around your friend and that to be close to you you never know
tC

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i got 200 dollars from my grandparents for my birthday, and i have absolutely no idea what to spend it on! i want some unique ideas pleaassee. thank you!

also please DO NOt tell me to save it

loOl save it ?? who does that these days lols
hmmmlets see

1gb ipod
ipod shuffle
CLOTHES
Shoes
cd's
Movies
like fun places like luna park or sOmething
buy sOmething you want or you have always wanted =D
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Ok. So here's the situation.

I had sex on friday night, and the condom ripped, and I'm not on birth control. But I did take the morning after pill the next day.
My period is always kinda irregular, like i never know what day exactly to expect it. But now my question is that....if you are pregnant, when you miss your period, do you still get cramps and other symptoms, and just no blood, or just no period or symptoms at all?

what are the chances of me being pregnant? i should be getting my period sometime this week, and today i had really bad cramps and my back hurt prtty bad too.

well yeh it might mean your getting your periods but im not sure if your pregnant if you get pain aswell you might have to go check =]

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ok me and my bf have been goin out for like 3 weeks now and he wants to hav sex but i dont know if i should do it or not esp. this early. I need help on if i should have sex with him or not? Do you really think he likes me because he asked me pretty early in teh relationship? Please help me out
thanks~!

3 weeks WOW !! loOl
yehh it's a little to early a monrh would have been ok but 3 weeks hun thats just not good enough i think he likes you but he but he cant help his hormones lol maybe you can tell him he can touch and that but you just dont want sex atm just think about dont have sex with sOme one yoOh know will regret think it over =]
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when girls wear girl boxers or boy shorts, do you guys wear underwear underneath? i'm just wondering. i know it sounds stupid. haha. but yea. i was just wondering. anyways. yea. and is it weird to wear girl boxers and stuff?

loOl hehe Yehh ii do loOl cause the line for wear ur private part goes lol is pretty thiin and you will keep getting wegiies and yeh looL SOO yeh ii do and yoOh should aswell
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okay... so theres a guy... hes just like totally hot! i've been crushing since primary school nd i've been thinking about telling him that i like him but i dont know if i should. bcoz if i do, he'll probably think im a freak/werdo! lol. i was actually thinking of writing him an anonymous letter or something. but that could lead to complications. :(. i dont know wht to do.
thnx.

Hey Hun !!!
loOl Dont write a letter go up to him and be honest with him just tell him can i talk to you and tell him how you feel you may feel comfortable and he wont think your a freak for telling him how you feel he will be flattered loOl Hope iit goes well im sure it will be Ok
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13/f

ok i am recouvering from having two operations done on my stomach like now i know that it is scary and people care a lot about me but my teachers my dad and even my mom is treating me really differently like im 8 or something they always want to cook for me or do my laundry but usually they dont have the time of the day for me but its annoying me and iv tried telling my mom im fine cuz iv got a high tolerence for pain and im not feeling a thing but she doesnt get it so how can i help her get it? its been a week and a half since it was done and iv already returned back to school.

*sleepiesheep*

Thats sweet though
but i know how you feel maybe there scared if you do something pain will come or something maybe you should trying doing something infront of them and let them watch
or you could just tell her again that your fine if you need help you will ask for it just say you know what to do and what not to do =]

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Is it bad to have confidence and think you are pretty?

This is coming from someone who had low confidence for a large number of years. I would never call myself pretty.

but this is a new year and the past is left behind.

and I'm a lot happier now. It's scaring me I guess. I'm happy when I go out and I smile ...and feel pretty?

Is that bad?

I mean.. confidence in everything.. that you think you are good?

It feels.. really weird/wrong.

Nop it isnt its better then goingout and saying OMG i look so ugly asking your friends how do i look yopu thinking your something is really good you dont have to care bout anything im glad that you smile and yeh your right its a new year make the most of it have confidence hold your head up high and smile like theres no tomrrow and im sure your pretty either way =]

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my psp screen broke, but not the surface only the inside. u cant see anything when u turn it on.
where can i fix it and about how much would it cost me.
i know the inner screen can be replaced
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Well same thing happened to my cousins he got his done for a $120 =]

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im an 18 yr old female. i have a friend angela, she was seeing this guy, brad. they broke up, but they were still having sex. 1 nite they were bout 2 get back 2getha, b4 brad hooked up wit emma, angela's friend. angela 4gave them both. on angela's 21st brad decided he didn't want 2 go out & basically ruined her bday. last week we all spent $60 on tickets to a rave. brad was suppose 2 b coming but didn't show up & didn't call. afta 5mins of being there angela decided she wanted 2 go home.i went with her. on the way out brad called her. she had a fight with him and started 2 cry. brad said he would come pick us up, when he got there she got in the car with him and drove off on me. i made my own way back 2 her house & yelled at brad as he had ruined our day yet again. then we all went out. all nite she made out with him, then when we got bak 2 hers she told me 2 sleep in the lounge so she could have sex wit him. at 1st i said no, then she cracked it saying what a bad freind i was, so i slept in da lounge. i left the next morning. as soon as i left, she started bitching bout the fact i went off at brad. then she fones me up 2 say she wants all her clothes bak, including a top she lent me 6 months ago. i took the top off & left it in my room, which i was sharing wit a girl, jess. i got kicked out the same week & wasn't allowed bak 2 get da top. a week l8r jess moved out, taking da top. then she disconnected her fone, so i cant get in contact wit her now. now angela is saying just 2 give the rest of her clothes bak & stuff the friendship. am i in the wrong?? if so how??

Well No your not wrong Honstley seh needs to get a life No affence to her
i mean why the hell would she tell her FRIEND to sleep in the lounge when did boys come more important i know his gonna dump her again i mean you were there for her shes JUST PLAIN STUPID thinking shes doing everything right when shes lost in her own stuffed up world what your doing is right Just tell her you dont care she can get hurt just tell her not to come back to you find a new friend or roomate Just forget bout her smile have fun enjoy life sehs pathetic she will come back crawling
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please only girls answer.
what types of clothes/outfits do girls like on guys?? Im not interested in things like emo style or goth, no offense to those that are, i just dont like the style. any help would be appriciated. ..thanx..

Hmm well ii like Baggy Jeans with a coOl shirt and have your hair spikedit would look HOT =D

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why is there so much hate in the world? Every one is labeling everyone. Today I got so mad cuase my friend who is emotional and likes black, some kid walked up to here and asked her if he could teach him how to be emo. It really hurt my feelings even though it wasn't towards me. But Even if you are emo. punk. goth, hard core, why does it matter? as long as everyones being thereselves then it should? why does everyone catorgorize everyone? it's rude.What is the difference between punk, goth, emo anyway? help please

Yeh ii know iits so selffish but its life we have to deal with it weather we likeit or not people have to try to ignore it because there are alot of people who think there better then some one and they will be very childish about it i know what your saying and its completly right but we cant do anything bout it so LAME =(

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well my mom said yess to getting it pierced.im only 13 though.where going to Pins & Needles Tattoo's & Body - Brockton, MA, 02301..now im eather going to go with my sister whos 18 or my mom...how old does the adult have to be.does it have to be older than 21??

well i went tog et my ears pierced with my 18 year old cosin and they said no because i might be getting them done without premission so its best your get your mum =]
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21/f. I've been on the contraceptive pill for 3 months or so and I've put on around 7lb. Nothing else has changed in my life - I'm at least as active as I was before and I'm eating the same healthy diet.

I'm really worried that the weight gain won't stop and I'll keep getting fatter. I already feel much heavier but I'm trapped because there is no other appropriate form of contraceptive for me. My boyfriend (who is usually a nice guy) is clearly not happy about the weight gain and makes no effort to reassure me that he doesn't mind and I'm still attractive to him, or whatever. I am not overweight by usual standards (163cm tall, 117lb) but I feel awful and am struggling to lose the weight I've put on so quickly.

My boyfriend said I should go off the pill if it would help me lose weight (great, thanks, I thought, sarcastically) but I know we'll end up having unprotected sex if I go off it as we both hate the feeling of condoms but love having sex.

So questions:
1. Has anyone else had a similar experience with weight gain on the pill and what did they do about it?
2. Why is my boyfriend is so critical of my appearance that he'd rather I risked pregnancy than was a few pounds heavier? Should I be worried about this in terms of our relationship (we've only been together 3 months)?

Sorry this was long, thanks for reading :)

well my mum went on my pills she was pills 113 and im the teenage daughter and what she went through scared me she would gain qweight for no reason she wouldnt even eat she only took the pills seh was so upset then she decided to walk everyday for at least half an hour and she is nopw 57 SHE LOOKS AMAZING she said she loved everything she did sghe said when she walked outside around 3 laps a day the fresh air was great and pillsdont do anything she threw all of them away maybe you and your boyfriend should go for a walk everyday relax walk and talk togther
lol sorry if i didnt help im just a teenager im just saying what mum did and went through =D

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I know i love my boyfriend. I know because.. well.. i just know. I don't have to think about it twice and i care about him so much. And sometimes when were just laying together i want to say it to him soo badly. But i don't.

You see, we've been dating for about 7 months and the only times we really say i love you is like if were signing off aim or through a text message. Never in person yet though. I feel like that is a pretty big step. But i know i want to.

I have reservations though: Is saying "i love you" for the first time the boys job? What if i say it and he doesn't say anything back? Should i say it at a random time or plan it?

If anyone has been in this situation please help me out. Even if you havn't and you have an opinion, anything would be appreciated! thanks so much.

lol your so cute for asking lolz i think you should tell him i mean if he loves you he will say it to lol it has been 7months your ready go for it =D

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hi~~ i got a friend we been best friend for almost 6 years we both know we always will got each other back! but the thing is she like some one i knew that is a dumb ass and totally horriable~~~ i know that he tread her nice just because he want some thing from her. i done ever thing i could to explain to her how relistic is it but she seems to ignore all my opionin and still like him!! i asked her why she like him she told me everthing but he is shorter than her and he got physical abnormal problems i just dont konw what can i do to let her relizes this like is not truethful and she desirve so much better????? pllzzz help me i need her back to normal!!!

well what your doing is somethingyopur friednd wouldnt want you to do seh mgiht think your jealous you should haev warned her only once adn if seh ignoresyou let it go we all know young "LOVE" dosnt last when they break up who eill she turn to and say you weere right im sorry YOU i mean you have already told her just leave her alone you go have fun smile be the wild teenager let her go through the pain to learn you sound like an amazing friend and trustworthy if seh cant see that well then sehs blind
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13/f
Well lately ive been thinking a lot about my past and what affect it has for me right now. and my sisters died a while back so i never met them. they died before i was born. so then my mom and dad had another daughter (which was me) and they never wouldve had me if they survived. so i feel like im not really meant to be here, they are. i feel like it's on my conscience and i messed everything up. i don't know...
I guess my question is...
How can I stop thinking about this? It just makes me depressed, help!

Well your parents still love you and im sure your mum wanted you weather they were dead or alive your mum wouldnt have gone through 3 pains but seh wanted to go through it all over again just get abeautiful daughter like you are so look on the brightn side and smile adn be happy that your here =]
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Alright well my cousin copies me A LOT! I MEAN LIKE ALL THE TIME!
She's a year younger than me...i'm 13/f
-She wears her hair like me all the time
-She's trying to get a cell phone because I got one
-She's getting a perm because my hair is naturally curly
-She tells me im pretty all the time so she tries to look like me
-one time she came up to me and asked me if i liked the song mockingbird by eminem and i was like "no, i hate that song." so she was like "omg me too! it's so annoying." but then my other cousin nick ran up to me and said "she's lying, she told me she LOVED that song!"
It's getting to the point where I don't know her because she's trying to be me! She needs to be her own person but i dont know how to tell her cuz i've tried and it never worked. she's been copying me for years and i've confronted her about it like 3 times...
but i get jealous when she temporarily stops copying me and copies someone else
REALLY JEALOUS!
but whenever i ask her something like..."do you like the song say it right by nelly furtado?" she'll ask me if i like it first shell be like " i don't know do you?" and then if i say yes shes like "me too it's awesome." so then i change my mind a minute later and say "nah maybe not" so she says "Me neither" so i can keep changing my mind and she'll change it with me!
help! i don't know if i want her to stop!
i just need to make up my mind,

Well i mean it pretty cool some one wanting to be like you you inspire some one and lol im going therough the same thingand i dont mind lol i trick her all the time iits fun but i mean dont go doing anythig you will regret not everyone gets thier chance again when seh grows up seh wuill realize how much she loved you and you will realize how much you loved her
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