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James: one of my best friends ever
Joy: another best friend
In the beginning of the year, James liked me. im not going to go into detail about how i know,. but im positive. and anyway, i didnt think i did then. i was just so confused about it, so he found out that i didnt like him, and nothing ever happpened. but more recently, i've started to really like him. i actually think that i lov ehim, i really do. but my friend said that sheee thinks he likes joy, who i've been best friends with for more than 5 years. i kiund of see it. im pretty sure he doesnt like me. all i want is for him to be happy, and if thats going to make him happy, then i guess im glad. but it still hurts, a lot. especially since i dont think she likes him, and he's just going to end up getting hurt. i really don't want him to be unhappy, but at the same time, im really upset that he likes her and not me. should i feel so bad?
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it always gets confusing when you fall for a friend, but i think he needs to make his own mistakes. if he gets hurt then, well thats life. she might actually like him. you could always ask her and if she doesn't get her to let him down gently before he gets too hurt. just be there for him and wait to see what happens.
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Well iits Ok thiisis really normal and she is your bestfriend and all but you cant help the way you feel i guess if he likes her just be happy for them i mean they will break up nothing lasts forever but if you want you can tell him how you feel face to face or over im but you tell him your self not your friends and see what he does he might hang around your friend and that to be close to you you never know
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Its normal for you to feel this way. You cant really manufacture feelings and make him like you agian if he likes joy, just be supportive and you dont want to ruin any friendships. If they dont get together like you said that she doesnt like him, just be there for him, he will realize what a good friend you are and may gain his feelings back. Also, before you jummp to any conclusions, let him know you like him, maybe he does still have feelings for you
Good Luck!
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