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surgery
13/f
ok i am recouvering from having two operations done on my stomach like now i know that it is scary and people care a lot about me but my teachers my dad and even my mom is treating me really differently like im 8 or something they always want to cook for me or do my laundry but usually they dont have the time of the day for me but its annoying me and iv tried telling my mom im fine cuz iv got a high tolerence for pain and im not feeling a thing but she doesnt get it so how can i help her get it? its been a week and a half since it was done and iv already returned back to school.
*sleepiesheep*
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there just worried about you,over time they will get over it and treat you as they did before you had the surgeries.
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well thats normal for your parents to care about you when your 13 and just had two surgerys.One day youll be a parent and understand what its like.You might be ok now but your parents dont want you tiring yourself out because they love you that much.Let them do everything for you come on!WHO WOULDNT WANT THAT!?!lol
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Thats sweet though
but i know how you feel maybe there scared if you do something pain will come or something maybe you should trying doing something infront of them and let them watch
or you could just tell her again that your fine if you need help you will ask for it just say you know what to do and what not to do =]
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There's not much you can do. You had two operations. Of course they are going to show you that they care and they will give you a lot of attention due to your age. You could lose someone in an surgery and they think you're somewhat sore from recovering.. so they are trying to make you feel comfortable as much as possible.
Just tell your mom that you need your space and that you want everything to go back to normal. [like having no time for you]
You can just say.. You don't like the attention and you'll like her to tone it down.
It should die down in a few days.
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