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who is wrong???
im an 18 yr old female. i have a friend angela, she was seeing this guy, brad. they broke up, but they were still having sex. 1 nite they were bout 2 get back 2getha, b4 brad hooked up wit emma, angela's friend. angela 4gave them both. on angela's 21st brad decided he didn't want 2 go out & basically ruined her bday. last week we all spent $60 on tickets to a rave. brad was suppose 2 b coming but didn't show up & didn't call. afta 5mins of being there angela decided she wanted 2 go home.i went with her. on the way out brad called her. she had a fight with him and started 2 cry. brad said he would come pick us up, when he got there she got in the car with him and drove off on me. i made my own way back 2 her house & yelled at brad as he had ruined our day yet again. then we all went out. all nite she made out with him, then when we got bak 2 hers she told me 2 sleep in the lounge so she could have sex wit him. at 1st i said no, then she cracked it saying what a bad freind i was, so i slept in da lounge. i left the next morning. as soon as i left, she started bitching bout the fact i went off at brad. then she fones me up 2 say she wants all her clothes bak, including a top she lent me 6 months ago. i took the top off & left it in my room, which i was sharing wit a girl, jess. i got kicked out the same week & wasn't allowed bak 2 get da top. a week l8r jess moved out, taking da top. then she disconnected her fone, so i cant get in contact wit her now. now angela is saying just 2 give the rest of her clothes bak & stuff the friendship. am i in the wrong?? if so how??
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your not the wrong trust and beleive girl listen you tried to help your friend she wouldnt listen you cant help that all you can do right now is talk to her if that doesnt work sh may not like this but you need to tell someone so she can get some help with this what if she gets preganet and he leaves her you could end up feeling guilty for knowing and not saying anythingyou dont have to do this but it might help
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Your not in the wrong, and if she was your friend she wouldnt be doing this stuff to you.Basically I say what I'm thinking and I mean what I think/say . tell your friend to go shove the top up her bum and go on being the slut that she is - I mean why have it with someone that you broke up with?And you can tell her she's the most rudest disgraceful cow - how can she just kick you out and make you sleep in the lounge.Boys come and go but friends are forever.Now the advice that I just gave you - save that until you get to the arguement point.
But for now I suggest you just give her back the stuff.Just carry on as normal and talk to brad too.
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Are you wrong? Why would you be? For doing the right thing?
Listen, it boils down to this: You did your best to look out for her, as any true friend would. She is obviously blind to the fact this guy is using her, and you tried to look out for her. She's lucky to have you for a friend.
He even ruined her birthday. What an a**hole.
My advice? Try to get her stuff back to her. Don't give her anymore reason to be upset with you. Let her cool down about it all.
Honestly, if she's a real friend, it will blow over in time. Hopefully one day she will open her eyes to the situation with this jerk and see where you were coming from.
Sometimes we fight with our friends. Sometimes these fights are big. Sometimes our friends forget that we are the good guys and fighting for their side. And sometimes they come back to dampen our shoulders when they realize how right we were. At that point, we forget all of the tension between us and simply ask "what can I do to help you through this?"
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You are NOT wrong! You shouldn't be treated this way and just make other firends. if she wants to ditch you for a guy that always ruines her life let her do it but u don't need to take the blame. I think you would be better off without them, she's not a very good friend if she wants to ditch you for that guy. You didnt do anything wrong so don't worry about it. Just make new friends because you don't deserve to be treated that way.
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Honey, you're better off without them. Any girl that picks her boyfriend over ger girlfriend (ESPECIALLY an asshole like Brad) belongs in the trash. Just give her her stuff back and MOVE ON. You're the better person. If she wants to ruin her life all because of one stupid boy, let her. At least you tried to be a good friend, but she just turned her back on you.
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Well No your not wrong Honstley seh needs to get a life No affence to her
i mean why the hell would she tell her FRIEND to sleep in the lounge when did boys come more important i know his gonna dump her again i mean you were there for her shes JUST PLAIN STUPID thinking shes doing everything right when shes lost in her own stuffed up world what your doing is right Just tell her you dont care she can get hurt just tell her not to come back to you find a new friend or roomate Just forget bout her smile have fun enjoy life sehs pathetic she will come back crawling
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