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so about a month ago my bf and i broke up. and like we were in love. but i don't know what happened :[. so ever since that ive been so sad. my heart is still broken and i TRY getting over it by having fun..but ughh idk i can't seem to get happy. then tonight i realized how pathetic my life is. theres like nothing to live for. i'm always depressed.. i have no friends anymore (because i moved) no one seems to get me:[
i don't know what to do anymore..please help (link)
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Okay so i Basically went through the same thing not to long ago sept a lil more drastic i got pregnant and he left me hanging anyways enough about me im here to help you. Yeah i understand what you mean about all that like youll be having fun and something you do will remind you of him....well i cant say you can really jump and do something to get over this it sometimes takes awhile it depends on what kind of person you are on the inside. You think there is nothing to live for.....because you dont have youre guy anymore but honey think about your family and stuff. Lean on your mom or best friend or someone close through this. Always have someone to talk to about it. I dont have friends anymore cause i moved 200 something miles away from my hometown. Im homeschooled to so i really have no way of making them. But you just have to have confidence and good self-esteem go look around the neighboorhood and stuff for people to make friends with be outgoing about life. I totally get you though i really feel you on this and its so weird that its sounds exactly the same situation. Yeah i mean mine is getting better. But i get thrown off track alot by this guy too. Watch out for those kinds of things. I know its hard not to think about him when you have nothing else to do but do something to keep youre mind off him as much as you can, Im not saying dont think about him at all during the day but i dont know its something you just have to wait to come natural to get over. If you have yahoo messenger mine is redneck_baby_gurl_2011@yahoo.com and my myspace is www.myspace.com/ilovebradleybianco. If you ever need someone to talk to you can talk to me. Keep in touch. Hope i helped in someway!
Cathleen Jacobs ♥
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i broke up with my boyfriend last week for some odd reason and he asked me back this weekend. i felt really bad but i needed him back. i feel like hes the only one for me and hes my key to happiness. i really do love him. though, the first day he asked me back we did say we love each other. and we had a good conversation. we talked and had fun and laughed and got along really great and had a lot to talk about. before we broke up we didnt really talk as much and we fought a lot. but we said we loved each other a lot :\ haha. i love him so much. but when we talk, the love is there, just we dont really say it as much as we used to. should i give it time until we start saying it a lot again? and how can i have our good conversation stay, while having lots of love at the same time?? like i wanna talk about video games with him but in the same conversation say hes adorable and i love him to bits? hmm that is an idea. but usually we used to fight ..but say we love each other haha. ok so yeahh. to make this not very much longer. i need
good conversation that rolls along
lots of talking about loving each other like we used to
not as much fighting as we used to.
soo yeahh.. how do i get back the talking of love? and soon.. i dont want our relationship crumbling from dullness. please please please i bed you.
sorry for the long message, but good useful answers will be greatly appreciated. :) (link)
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Yeah give it a little time. Don't push it or he could get irratated. Sometimes just wait until you feel like its the right time it could be on the phone or in person just wait till you feel its the right time and talk about love and if yall had a future and how you feel about each other basically a "deep" Conversation. Joke around with each other just dont get to serious about it or anything. I mean dont talk all day everyday cause then you will have nothing to talk about ever and the relationship will get dull and thats liable to cause alot of arguments. I mean just give things time and try to talk to him about it w/o fussing. Hope i helped somewhat at least.
Cathleen Jacobs ♥
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does anyone know any tips or home remeies to cure acne. i have it on my forehead and in a few areas on my face. i have tried everything to get it to go away but it wont. i have tried clearisil,clearisil ultra, clearisil gel, clearisil 3 step thing, acne free(same as proactiv but cheaper and bigger bottle),equate acne pads,stridex acne pads,aspirin with lemon juice,asprin and lime juice, rubbing alcohol, washing my face more often, not touching my face and a combination of each. please help!!! (link)
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This is a home remedie but they dont work on all people but ive seen this one work on most. I dont know if you can get what you need but hey maybe youre parents will buy it if you tell them what for. Champange and Choclate. It dosent have to be EXSPENSIVE champange just some cheap brand mix it with choc. leave it on your face for about 30 mins and wash it off. It should start working within a week. IM being dead serious i know it sounds stupid but when i heard of it i tried it and it worked perfectly.
-Cathleen Jacobs
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my boyfriend is coming home in the beginning of november, hes in california and im in texas (hes 18 and im 16) weve been dating for 3 months and we started dating before he moved back to california (its a really long complicated story) anyways, i really want to do something special while hes home, i know were going to spend alot of time together the 2 weeks he's in town but i dont want it to just be like watching movies and stuff like that. i want to do something thats memorable. we're both virgins so everything of a sexual nature is definately excluded, i mean something thats totally creative and especially sweet. i also dont have much money i can spend because im going on 2 trips this year and im saving up for them. any ideas? i can use all the advice i can get! thankyou so much! (link)
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Just do something that dosent cost. Like go to a little pond or river when it gets dark and spread out a blanket and just sit and talk and look up at the stars. Its romantic. Maybe light a few candles out there. or go back to where you guys first met. Or just have a romantic dinner. Let me know what kind of stuff yall like to do and i can give you better advice.
-Cathleen JAcobs
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im wondering why everyone tells me im so pretty, yet guys don't think it. its not like me to really care, but its still a thought i keep in the back of my mind. guys see pretty as skinny blondes who are only fit to be in cover of Vouge. but when a girl tells you your pretty, they see it in greater detail. the color or you hair, eyes, skin tone; a different kind of pretty. when i look in the mirror, i look past the fact that im not a tall skinny blonde. i see how many shades of colors are in my hair, and i see how it brings out my eyes. yeah, im not the skinniest girl-- but im not really all that fat. i was raised to eat healthy, and i do. actually, i don't eat all that much junk food. yeah, sometimes i eat some candy, or even cake, but its not really all that much. im average. but yet people tease me about my weight, claiming that im over 120-- sometimes even say im 140. but im not. and who really cares, anyway? looks have become so important to people. so important, they look past the really nice, good people, who are actually interesting and have a greater IQ than their shoe size.
sorry its not really a question..
so here is the real one:
why is it guys think so differently?
im sure that there is at least ONE guy who thinks in greater detail, right? (link)
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Yes....there are guys that think in greater detail and look passed the surface but those are really hard to find. They are out there tho. Guys think diffrently because they dont want their guys friends to tease them about how their girlfriends look. You just have to say to heck with them and find you a nice guy. But some girls think that way too. Some girls and guys just think looks are everything. But i have always thought the way you think.
-Cathleen JAcobs
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hey im a guy and my hair goes down to my eyes and on the bak it goes down a little. do u no any shampoos or conditioners i can use to make it straighter. i have straight hair but it kinda curls in the bak and there are some waves on da front. i dont want to use a straightener btw. thanks!!! (link)
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Well yes there is a shampoo. HErbal Essence is the name of it but look on the bottle for one that talks about straighting you hair. No one for curls or anything else. But the best way to get it completely straight and look really good.....even tho you dont want to is use a straightner. A great straightner is called wet-to-straight you can use it on dry hair or even as soon as you get out of the shower you can get it at wal-mart for like 20 bucks. It works great. Believe me im a female i know my hair-stuff and plus i know what makes a guy cute. and i love guys with long hair.
-Cathleen jacobs
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I have alot of acne (at least I think it is acne) in the top of my chest. It is really annoying because I cant wear any low cut tops or anything. Does anyone know how I can get rid of this? (link)
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First-off DONT try and pop them to make them go away cause that will either make them worse or leave scars. I have that on my chest. It is regular acne and maybe some sweat bumps. All you have to do is go to the local drugstore and either buy Clearasil or Noxzema. Which noxzema drys you skin out really bad before it helps. But yeah just get that and put it on your face and chest and it should clear up.
-Cathleen JAcobs
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9th grade female
Ok so well at school like alot of people are like omg are you high? do you smoke alot of weed? and all these jokes about me going to go get drugs and getting high and stuff and like thinking i do weed and stuff and well i DONT! and it's really annoying. But how do people act when they are on weed or whatever? because sometimes i do tend to act really tired in class and drousy because i take three pills a day for medical issues i have and so drousiness is one of the side effects. so how do people act when they are high or whatever because i dont want to act like that around the people that think im high. (link)
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Being high is like totally diffrent from how you say you're acting. You go through stages when you're high and sleepiness is the last. First you're all goofy and crazy acting. Then you starting getting all serious and staring off into space. Then you wanna eat like crazy. Then you get drowsy. When those people ask you that....look at them and say have you ever been high? If they say no say okay then why do you think im acting high.....when you dont even know how you act when youre high cause youve never been high. But nah if all you do is get really sleepy then no. There shouldnt even be a rumor. But high school is like drama town so rumors will be started. hope i helped somewhat......
Cathleen Jacobs
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is it true that you can get money from pop tops someone told me you could get $100 for a milk gallon filled with them because it is compressed alluminum or something (link)
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Yes, it is true. Depends on your state and city on how much money you get. But if you collect alumium cans and crush them you can also get money. ANother thing you can get money off of is copper. Like it comes from wires. Like cable wires or any kind of wire basically but you have to strip the black part off. You get way more money off that,
Cathleen JAcobs
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Ok, so i have a phobia, or many I guess, that is related to anything medical... Like, doctors, deseases, even pregnat ladies make me uncomfortable.
And it's really hard because if you notice, everything nowadays has medical stuff. Like on TV, there are so many hospital/doctor shows, like House and ER... And the commercials, like the anti-smoking commercials where they show details the inside of someones lungs or something, im not sure.. i can't watch it or i'll have a panic attack.
When I was younger, I thought it was just a phase and that i'd get over this when i'm older, but now i'm 19 and it's gotten so much worse... I'm even scared of dentist now and therapist.... I don't even know why!!!
But I can't take pills, I'm too paranoid for that.
I can't have sex because i'm terrified of the thought of getting pregnant..
So what happens when I encounter all this stuff is that I have panic attacks and pass out!
And I want help, BUUUT I have too much anxiety to get any help also.
I'm getting older and this anxiety is holding me back on a lot of things...
So my question is, does anyone know what this/these phoia's are called??
Also, how can this be cured? I know therapy, or something, but what are the steps that you go through??
Thanks, so much. (link)
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The fear to take pills is because youre scared of choking because im the same way and have always been but that phobia is called-Anginophobia. Fear of denist is called-Dentophobia. Fear of sex is-Genophobia. Fear if going to the doctors or of doctors is-Iatrophobia. Fear of childbirth is called-Lockiophobia. Fear of a hospital is-Nosocomephobia. Fear of dental surgery is called-Odontophobia. Fear of pain is-Odynephobia. Fear of suffering or disease is-Panthophobia. ALso another for taking pills is-Pharmacophobia. Fear of pregnancy is-Tocophobia. Well i will tell you this.....i am a pregnant women...lol but i would love to help you so thats why im giving you advice. Well sweetheart Sometimes phobias can be all in your head. Sometimes it can be something you fear naturally. Well im afraid of needles and of course being pregnant i have to have all kinds of blood-work and i have. Well i just let them stick me and after awhile i got used to it. I mean yeah it takes time. But ways to work through phobias is to work your way into going to the doctor and having sex and stuff dont rush into but tell yourself ill be okay. But you just have to work your way into it. Its something really only you can do. I hope i helped somewhat. Let me know how things workout for ya. Um i also know a book you can get instead of going to therapists and it comes with a movie and its been known to cure your phobias sometimes in just minutes. Get back to me if you would like the website to order that off of or i can give you the title and you can try to look it up in your local bookstore. Thanks....Cathleen Jacobs!
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Ok so on a scale of 1-10 how much does piercing your belly button hurt?? I pierced my cartilege by myself and I didn't think it hurt. I guess i have a high tolerance of pain. (link)
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Okay Sweetheart I got mine done when I was 14, and I've always been terrified of needles and pain! Well I just said screw it and did it. Im not going to lie it did not hurt at all. Maybe a 2. Thats it! I had mine done professional! Get a real pro to do it cause they can get infected really easy! Mine is doing good now. I had to clean it with Sea Salt and water. It takes a whole 9 months to completely heal and you have to wait a month to change the ring. But i promise to god it does not hurt anymore than a two. and im very low-tolerant to pain.
Hope i helped!
CATHLEEN JACOBS
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you can see my ribs im even 5lbs over. is that bad im not anorexic im not skinny im normal but closer to over than under. is there sumthing wrong its like really noticeable so i dont even wear bikinies. how do i make it go down? or can i make them go down? someone said you could. (link)
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Okay well my ribs poke out a little too! well no you cant make them go down. You can do crunches and sit-ups that may help a little. Nothings wrong its just normal. Some peoples ribs are worse than that. but youll be okay its normal though no worries. Hope i helped a little at least.
*cathleen*
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I'm going to be 16 next year, and i have a lot of money saved up for a car. (almost 6 grand) and i've always wanted a V8 Firebird (the one the guy held for me is $5500). but my parents dont want me to get it because they said if i get good grades (3.5 gpa or better) they would pay insurance, and if i get this car, and keep my gpa up, they would have to pay it.
reality check, who would, it would be $1,200 every 6 months at the LEAST. and if i was a girl itd be $800, (according to online thing i used).
i know it shouldnt be that big of a deal, but ive got my car all picked out and insurance is holding me back.
how can i convince my parents, and or get the money to pay for it, without spending all my time working, and not dumping pay check to pay check into insurance.
im a rater. (link)
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Yall could split the payment down the middle and or YOu pay it one month they pay it the next. Or put a little bit of money up from each paycheck and then say your half every month or when its you're turn to pay you will have enough money and still have some to go out and have a good time. Hope I helped somewhat.
*CAthleen*
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14/f. ok. so my room is in a tropical theme. i need some window curtains that look cute and tropical. if anyone knows where i could get some that would be great. i need eaither websites, or store names. i live near Wichita Ks. so if you know of anywhere around there, that would be great also. thanks so much!! (link)
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Okay im not sure where you're location is but You can go to Ebay.com and http://myinteriordecorator.com/store/window-treatments-curtains-2.html now those might be a little exspensive on that website but hey i tried. Now some stores are claires,Icing,Heart to heart,Wal-mart, Target, V 2 K Virtual Fashion Store ( i know is in your area i searched it), Accent Interiors (which is also in your area), and Mid america Exteriors Inc. (thats also in you're area.
Those last three heres what road they're on and they're phone numbers so you can call to get directions if you dont know where the road is. But they are in Wichita, K.s
V 2 K Virtual Fashion Store-IS on Arrowhead Drive. and the number to that one is (316) 260-8370.
Accent Interiors-511 woodlawn Street and the number is (316) 681-3361.
Mid america Exteriors Inc.-1625 Central Ave. and the number is (316) 265-5444.
P.s a great website to get directions online free to those places is mapquest.com
hope i helped!
*CAthleen*
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i love songs like:
wait a minute-pussycat dolls
barbie girl-aqua
pop the glock-uffie
find a new way-young love.
you know. dance music.
can you name a lot of good songs?
i need music
FAST!
name a lot. plz. plz (link)
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GEt up-Chamillionaire featuring Ciara
Loosen up my buttons-Pussycat dolls
Candyman-Christina Aguleria
Get you wet-Plies (may not be appropiate for certain ages)
Say Goodbye-Chris brown
Irreplaceable-Beyonce'
Hotline-Pretty ricky
Slow choices.....
COme with me-Sammie
need anymore get back to me hope those few can help some may be old but hey you got barbie girl on there and by the way I LOVE THAT SONG! lol
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i have liked this guy for three years. he has a girlfriend (shes sort of my friend) and is in love with her. they have been going out since october, but the girl only likes him half as much, so i dont know if that relationship will last. at least she will be the one to break up with him.
i dont think i will ever stop liking him. i have been trying to distract myself from him by dating other guys, but i just kept on thinking of him. i was saving my first kiss for him, but i lost it last month to an ex boyfriend because i completely gave up. my ex bf made a move to kiss me, and i just thought i'm either gonna kiss someone in this life or i'm not.
this is really breaking my heart. we are buddies i guess, we dont talk much, but on some occasions we do. but i know for a fact that he does not like me. how do i deal with this? should i keep waiting for him to love me? everyone knew i liked him for the first two years, but then i told everyone i didnt, and i stopped flirting with him, staring at him, etc. if he and his gf ever break up, i will start flirting with him again, but i highly doubt i have a chance.
i know i will love him forever... i might fall in love with someone else, but i know i will still love him deep in my heart.
i am just so confused... i dont know what to do. i'm crying right now... it feels like the sad part of a love movie, yet i'm happy that i love him so much... its really hard to describe what i'm feeling right now.
help? i know its hard, but any feedback will be appreciated.
i'm 16 if that helps (link)
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Okay I know exactly what you're going through and you kinda feel as if you're not good enough for him right? well i can say juss wish them the best of luck cause once he thinks you dont like him anymore that will kill him thats the best revenge on guys. Dont spend you're life waitin for him when you may never get him. Just keep your options open and if someone else comes along give them a chance. Let yourself go from the other guy. I know it may not be easy but you will get through it i promise. Its going to be a hrad long road but you'll live. Yes, you will probaley always love him deep in your heart but as it seems her your first love and your first love never really dies. Just become closer friends with him. It's better friends than nothing at all right? I feel for you and even though i dont know you're name i will pray for you and i wish you the best of luck. But you seem as if you were a strong girl and im sure you are just keep you're head up and see what else is out there because believe it or not your soul mate is picked out from the day you're born. hope i helped! get back to me and let me know something and if you need someone to talk to you can come to me. I hope that dosent sound weird since you dont know me but i love helping people with this kinds of stuff cause i have to go through it before.
*Cathleen*
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i love random things like some of the pictures below, but i dont know any sites to find them & please dont tell me to search on photobucket.
please? heres some examples
http://i19.tinypic.com/4bp1hub.jpg
and
http://i19.tinypic.com/30rqmux.jpg
PLEASE?!?! (link)
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Okay hun first off you're pictures arent showin up but you can go to google and type whats in the pic (like what its of) and that should get you somewhere dont search under pics search under web and it should give you websites. welp hope i helped!
*Cathleen*
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so theres this boy, and he means the world to me. hes my best friend.
he has a girlfriend, but says hes in love with me. and he doesnt know what to do. im sitting here wondering if i should stay here wating for him to break up with his girlfriend. or move on.
except when i get a new crush my best friend gets mad and jealous and makes me feel bad.
what do i do? help. (link)
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I think yall should sit down and talk about it face to face alone. Tell him if he wants you he needs to leave his girlfriend. ANd if hes not gonna be with you stop getting jealous when you get a crush. Because hes with someone and tellin you he loves you. IF he wont leave his girlfriend tell him yall juss need to move on and stay friends. Hope i helped! ♥ CAthleen!
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does having
-oral sex
-butt sex
-telephone sex
count as loosing your virginity?
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No. Not unless you have done it in the Vagina.
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what is the penalty you would get for driving friends under 21 with just a permit and no parents in the car in massachusetts? (link)
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They would either take them and you would have to goto court or either you would get fined big time!
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