so about a month ago my bf and i broke up. and like we were in love. but i don't know what happened :[. so ever since that ive been so sad. my heart is still broken and i TRY getting over it by having fun..but ughh idk i can't seem to get happy. then tonight i realized how pathetic my life is. theres like nothing to live for. i'm always depressed.. i have no friends anymore (because i moved) no one seems to get me:[
i don't know what to do anymore..please help
Cathleen answered Tuesday October 16 2007, 1:48 am: Okay so i Basically went through the same thing not to long ago sept a lil more drastic i got pregnant and he left me hanging anyways enough about me im here to help you. Yeah i understand what you mean about all that like youll be having fun and something you do will remind you of him....well i cant say you can really jump and do something to get over this it sometimes takes awhile it depends on what kind of person you are on the inside. You think there is nothing to live for.....because you dont have youre guy anymore but honey think about your family and stuff. Lean on your mom or best friend or someone close through this. Always have someone to talk to about it. I dont have friends anymore cause i moved 200 something miles away from my hometown. Im homeschooled to so i really have no way of making them. But you just have to have confidence and good self-esteem go look around the neighboorhood and stuff for people to make friends with be outgoing about life. I totally get you though i really feel you on this and its so weird that its sounds exactly the same situation. Yeah i mean mine is getting better. But i get thrown off track alot by this guy too. Watch out for those kinds of things. I know its hard not to think about him when you have nothing else to do but do something to keep youre mind off him as much as you can, Im not saying dont think about him at all during the day but i dont know its something you just have to wait to come natural to get over. If you have yahoo messenger mine is redneck_baby_gurl_2011@yahoo.com and my myspace is www.myspace.com/ilovebradleybianco. If you ever need someone to talk to you can talk to me. Keep in touch. Hope i helped in someway!
ChristusFollowerus answered Tuesday October 16 2007, 1:41 am: Most people treat this as a depression thing. This is an emptyness question. You are empty inside because you don't have the Holy Spirit, who will give you joy and peace. Read the Gospel of John, in the Holy Bible. The Bible is the only book in the world that is authored by a non-human source: God. He created us and he already has all the answers. He will save you from your sins and the load will "lift off your shoulders" like it did mine. I was a sinner, wandering in the darkness until He found me. [ ChristusFollowerus's advice column | Ask ChristusFollowerus A Question ]
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