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Getting back the feeling of love.
i broke up with my boyfriend last week for some odd reason and he asked me back this weekend. i felt really bad but i needed him back. i feel like hes the only one for me and hes my key to happiness. i really do love him. though, the first day he asked me back we did say we love each other. and we had a good conversation. we talked and had fun and laughed and got along really great and had a lot to talk about. before we broke up we didnt really talk as much and we fought a lot. but we said we loved each other a lot :\ haha. i love him so much. but when we talk, the love is there, just we dont really say it as much as we used to. should i give it time until we start saying it a lot again? and how can i have our good conversation stay, while having lots of love at the same time?? like i wanna talk about video games with him but in the same conversation say hes adorable and i love him to bits? hmm that is an idea. but usually we used to fight ..but say we love each other haha. ok so yeahh. to make this not very much longer. i need
good conversation that rolls along
lots of talking about loving each other like we used to
not as much fighting as we used to.
soo yeahh.. how do i get back the talking of love? and soon.. i dont want our relationship crumbling from dullness. please please please i bed you.
sorry for the long message, but good useful answers will be greatly appreciated. :)
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you're gonna have to be careful...like you said if you just let it be it will all crumble away to dullness...so ya give it some time but not too much...the way i see it he doesn't know how he stands in your opinion right now and is probably a bit scared of losing you again. He's probably being careful and trying not to push it. so it's up to you to make the first move. here's an idea - when you're somewhere provate and you're having a conversation at the end of the talk just brush his hair lightly out of his eyes and mumble i love you as if you were just saying it to yourself. if he doesn't respond look at him with these cute eyes and say dont i get one, too? he's sure gonna say it after that :) <333
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Yeah give it a little time. Don't push it or he could get irratated. Sometimes just wait until you feel like its the right time it could be on the phone or in person just wait till you feel its the right time and talk about love and if yall had a future and how you feel about each other basically a "deep" Conversation. Joke around with each other just dont get to serious about it or anything. I mean dont talk all day everyday cause then you will have nothing to talk about ever and the relationship will get dull and thats liable to cause alot of arguments. I mean just give things time and try to talk to him about it w/o fussing. Hope i helped somewhat at least.
Cathleen Jacobs ♥
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