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im new & need help.
so theres this boy, and he means the world to me. hes my best friend.
he has a girlfriend, but says hes in love with me. and he doesnt know what to do. im sitting here wondering if i should stay here wating for him to break up with his girlfriend. or move on.
except when i get a new crush my best friend gets mad and jealous and makes me feel bad.
what do i do? help.
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Well, it doesn't seem too fair for him to hold you up to a standard that he himself doesn't adhere to. Unless he breaks up with his girlfriend quickly, it seems to me like he is really jerking you around, and you don't deserve that.
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since you waited for him for a while and he never came, then i would move on if i was you. if he really liked you enough then he would have came to you sooner. And if he gets mad and jealous then thats his fault for not getting you in the first place. so just move on and see what he thinks about it and what he does about it.
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Well waiting 4 him for a little while is ok but after so long you have to move on!! and its not your fault if you do mOve on b/c he obviously didnt like you enough 2 brake up with his girl!! ( no offense boys r dumb!!) .. but you shouldnt feel bad b/c he has to make up his mind on his own!!!! and rememba everything happens 4 A REASON!!!
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well,
i basically am ready to tell him and his girlfriend.
they can have a nice life without me.
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tell him if he really wanted you that he would have taken the initiative to break up with his girlfriend. by not breaking up with her, he is hurting everyone. give him about 2-3 weeks and if then he still hasn't broken things off move on. its his fault that he didn't make himself availible for you and you can't wait you whole life waiting for someone else.
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tell him he has options to be with you or not thats what id do b/c you cant wait forever
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I think yall should sit down and talk about it face to face alone. Tell him if he wants you he needs to leave his girlfriend. ANd if hes not gonna be with you stop getting jealous when you get a crush. Because hes with someone and tellin you he loves you. IF he wont leave his girlfriend tell him yall juss need to move on and stay friends. Hope i helped! ♥ CAthleen!
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