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I never met my sisters
13/f
Well lately ive been thinking a lot about my past and what affect it has for me right now. and my sisters died a while back so i never met them. they died before i was born. so then my mom and dad had another daughter (which was me) and they never wouldve had me if they survived. so i feel like im not really meant to be here, they are. i feel like it's on my conscience and i messed everything up. i don't know...
I guess my question is...
How can I stop thinking about this? It just makes me depressed, help!
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thanks in advance!!!
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you are meant to be here. i'm sure you've heard the quote "Everything happens for a reason". don't worry about what would've happened if your sisters didn't die. your parents will always care about you. they wouldn't have had you if they didn't. i'm sorry you never got to meet your sisters!
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Well your parents still love you and im sure your mum wanted you weather they were dead or alive your mum wouldnt have gone through 3 pains but seh wanted to go through it all over again just get abeautiful daughter like you are so look on the brightn side and smile adn be happy that your here =]
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Ever think maybe they were taken so you COULD be here?
Just a different way of looking at it. You are here
and your parents love you. You are here to ease the pain for them. You cannot change the past so no need to go there. Instead think to the future and don't get depressed by things you had no control over. :)
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I can kind of ralate to your situation. I had twin sisters a year after I was born, but they also died & I never met them. Your parents had you because they wanted to & they love you no matter if you came first or last. It might not make sense but you're here for a reason and just be happy. Maybe talking to your parents would help a lot. You might feel uncomftrable talking to them about it, but they would be able to answer this question better than any of us. You're wanted here by your parents and you just need to keep telling yourself that.
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