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wELL...i LiKe a GuY a YeAr yOunGeR...aNd hE dosnet know me... really but i know who he is..and hes smokin! since hes a year younger and we dont have ne classes it might be hard 2 get 2 know him... any suggestions?
i RaTe well
thanx alot

JEnnY~ iS tHis yOu? LoL.... JaKe WaNts u! uR gOrgEouS! hes just intiminated cuz ur older... go 4 him! yOu'LL bE gLaD yA DiD! (He tOld Me tHaT uR SOoo Hot!) haha he knows who u r hUn!
LoVe Ya bAbE!
xOxO, aLeX

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hey

i really want to become a vegetarian, but i dont know the right way to do it. i dont wanna be a vegan because i love milk and cheese wayy too much. but is just not eating meats the right way to do it so i'll still be healthy? i'll still eat eggs and stuff, but if i just dont eat meats will i be okay? any vegetarians here would be greatly apprecied!

-i rate-

hEy! i'M a vEgEtArIan 2! and I aM perfectly healthy! i've been a vegaeatrian preety much my whole life becuase i've never liked the taste of meat! i'm def. not a vegan cuz i love cheese and milk 2! bUt u can still be healthy and get protein from other things... i dont eat eggs.. but theres nuts, soy things etc... this might help u out.,.. i asked a vegatarian questrion a couple months ago and got some great feedback! check out this link: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=190600
i have a vegatarian cookbook and i look online for recipies 2! sO..its not 2 HaRD! LoL! hOpe i helped ya hun! ask me ne thing ne time!
xOxO, aLeX

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whats the name of that new song by eminem? thanx

loose it! iT rOx dOseN't It?
xOxO, aLeX

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hey! my names ashley and i`m looking for a new sn.. um.. my favorite numbers 13.. i`m a brunette.. um.. i dunno i juss need some ideas so if yu have any, i`d be really happy.. thanks

bRuNeTTebAbE13
BrUnEttEbEauTy13
aSh13
aShLeY13
brUnEtTeaShLeY13
haha! HoPe I heLpeD yA hUN! (let me know what u choose!)

xOxO, aLeX

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What's the best fall style's this year? I've been shopping at American Eagle, and Maurices. I heard Gadzooks is a good place. What else?

I'm also trying to impress my crush. xD

wHats uP swEEtHeArT? DeFinAtelY tRy mY fAV pLaCe: HOLLISTER! i am in heaven there! its owend by abercrombie but their clothes r much cheaper! (and just as cute!)there californiaish/ surferish and sooo super cute! if u dont have a hollister near u... try www.hollisterco.com i also love forever 21 and charolette russe! gadzooks is a good place check it out! also try departnemt stores ie; macys, marshall fields etc... i am a compulsive shopper so if u need anymore fashion advice HoLlA! (LoL) hope i helped ya out!
xOxO, aLeX

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Okay, im thirteen and i have a boyfriend who is the greatest thing in my life right now, hes so suportive towards me..and i really would like to spend the rest of my life with him and i know alot of people are gunna tell me that im 13 and alot of things are gunna go on in my life that might change and i dont even know what love is, but trust me i do i know exactly what it is thanks too him, but anyways...we both wanna go further..cause we both have the same feelings for eachother, and i wanna go further but i dont know how far..i mean we have made out alot...and like fingered..whats next? help me and ill rate you

hUnnY!!~ sex changes ur whole relationship! ur only 13! have fun 4 now! TrUsT mE oN thIs oNe! this probably isnt the answer u wanted 2 hear... but sTay where u are. sex messes things up! if u guys r still 2gether in a couple years (which it sounds like u guys might be) tHeN be more serious about it! maKinG oUt, fIngErInG is GREAt! hahaha! My aDViCe fOr ThE "nExT sTeP:" give him a hand job!! haha HoPe I hElPed! asK mE nE tHinG nE tIme!
xOxO, aLeX

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ok I want to get my hair thinned..but my mom has a lot of questions that I don't have the answers to..so here goes:
1. What is the process of hair thinning?
2. How much does it cost?
3. What are the negatives and positives?
Thanks!

HaHa! u should get ur hair thinned and give some of it 2 me! mY hair is soo thin! LoL... but i'm sorry i'm no help sweetie cause i know nothing about it!
xOxO, aLeX

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well i want to put conditioner on my hair and then sleep with it on... sounds crazy i no but i think it would help. i mean my hairs not really dried out of anything but it could prob use the shine and moisture. what do u think?
lol thanx

hEy! i have the same problem! i flat iron my hair like seriously everyday and it got super dried out... but i use deep conditioner that totally helps. my hair looks and feels healthy after using it. its by garnier frutics... u leave it in 4 about 3 min. and use it once a week.. but i usually leave it in for 15 (looks better!) bUt i hope i helped ya out! xOxO, aLeX

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Does sex hurt? And why? Please help!! I'm not thinking about having sex, but i'm curious!!


HeY sWeEtiE! well.. but it all depends. Your hymen is what tears and hurts during your first intercourse. Physically active girls who run, ride bikes, etc. tend to have a very diminished hymen by the time they're ready for sex. or u can tear ur hymen by masturbation or tampons. i dunno if this works or not.. but my friend told me The best way to know is to get a mirror and examine yourself. Do you see any kind of tissue blocking your vagina? Can you insert tampons or your fingers without pain or discomfort? These things will indicate to you what to expect during your first sexual encounter. and also are u loose? girls get loose by being fingered and that will make u looser. but after a time or two of sex...it will feel gReaT! LoL! hOpe i HeLped! xOxO, aLEx

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ok here's the deal... i'm 14 years old...FRESHMAN!!!.... and i realli realli want to find a boyfriend... but i keep falling for the players... they're always so nice and funny and cute... i just can't get away from them...
then there'z these...other...guys that are totalli not cute at all, but are realli realli nice... what should i do?

hey hun! players are always the hottest guys... and therefore every girl wants them... so iT sUX! it is hard 2 go 4 other guys but definately go 4 it. just cuz their not 100% gorgeous... their waaay better in personalitly then the players... cuz players lie! just get 2 kno them and give them a chance... hope i helped! xOxO, aLeX

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hey im 13 years old. i'd say im pretty mature for my age [many ppl have also told me]. well i was wondering.... am i too young to have sex? i kno ur supposed to wait 4 'the rite guy' or the one 'u love' and when 'ur older' and all that but..i dont kno i just dont think that thats al rite sometimes. i dont want you to get me as a slut or whatever because im not, im just going through hard times i guess. have u ever had sex? if so how did it feel, and whats ur advice on the first time? i kno that was a personal question so u dont have to answer it if u feel uncomfortable, but it wud help me so much if u did. so do u think that i cud haddle being sexually active?

xoxo,
ryanne

rYaNNe~
HeY sWeEtIe! well i'm really glad that you asked me this question. Most people would say that 13 IS to young to have sex... but thats going 2 have 2 be up 2 u... the question is... r u ready? do u kno about all the risks/responsibilties that come with sex? stds, pregnency.... etc... i definately dont think ur a slut... cuz when i was 13.... i defiantely was super curious about sex.. but knew i wasnt ready. i was still a child! i didnt want one of my own! to answer ur question.. i am not a virgin. the first time.. it kind of hurt because my cherry wasnt popped (that sounds so funny!) but after the 1st couple of times... it felt normal (aka great! haha) i was super nervous.. but i think every1 is the first time. the question is... who would be the guy that u would have sex with? r u in a relationship? or do u just want 2 loose ur virginity just 2 loose it? Ur always going 2 remember ur 1st time... so make it special.. do it because u want 2... not because ur forced! and make sure that your going 2 feel comfortable. when i lost my virginity... i was in a relationship with my bf... but sex changes relatinships... sex iis a big responibilty so u have 2 be willing 2 take on that responsibility of having safe sex. so that is totally up 2 u if u think u could handle being sexually active.. ur right u r mature and i'm glad ur worried about all these things 2 prepare ur self for sex. sOOO... if u need anymore info please feel free 2 ask me ne thing! oRR.. u may add me 2 ur buddy list! alglitz03 i hope i helped and good luck Hun! xOxO, aLeX!

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Hey everyone,

I'm playing a character in play where i have to keep a straight face while someone sings to me in German... does anyone have any advice on how to keep a straight face and not laugh or giggle during the performance?

HeY hUN! i am such a giggler... that it is impossible for me 2 keep staright faces 4 anything! LoL! so i totally kno how ya feel! but i kno every1;s probaly going 2 say this: but try 2 look past the german singer and think of something serious/sad... it seems weird but defintaly helps! sOO yEa... LoL good luck in ur play sweetie! hope i helped! xOxO, aLeX

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Ok, im a gurl and i have a little mustache thingy and i never really thought to much of it til now. and i feel like other ppl notice it which i know they do. what should i do? should i shave it or trim it or wax it or i dunno lol. plz help... thanx a bunch!!
and ill rate yu!

hEy hUN! dont u hate that? when u have a flaw and u feel like everybodys staring at it! that pisses me oFF! LoL well i know for sure that u shouldnt shave it... we'll leave that 2 the guys... but get it waxed... u can either get it done professionly (for not 2 expensive) or u can get a little kit thingy at drugstores... dont freak cuz they can go away super easily! hOPE I HELPED YA! xOxO, aLeX

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wut can i use on my face to give it a natural glow
thnx

OHHH mY gOd! this is such a perfect question! i was wondering the same thing up until like 2 months ago! now... i realigously apply this make up called skin lights... u can get it at target, wal-mart (local drug stores)its by revlon and they have a whole line of skin lights stuff.. even lipgloss... but the stuff i use is its called skinlights face illuminator.... in golden light and then i also use skinlights instant skin brightner in pink light. their each about 10 bucks each. but totally worath it cuz mine lated me 6 months! sOOO yEA! also excersise gives ur complexition a natrual glow.... hope i helped! xOxO...aLeX

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Okay, I just found out 2-day that my ex-bf is dating one of my bff's and I think that I am jealous! What should I do? I'm not the jealous type.

hEy hUN! RULE NUMBER 1: friends dont date eachothers exes! (CHICKS bE4 DICKS!) that reeeally sux... because both of you have moved on...but u still dont want him 2 be with ne1 else and vise versa. definately talk 2 ur friend! if u feel super strongly about it still! its easier said then done... so try writing her a note/email... because i know if it was me i could never tell her face 2 face! u could ask her 2 try and hook u up with one of his hot friends even 2! sO bAbE... let ur friend know how u feel but i wouldnt expect her 2 dump the guy! GOOD LUCK! HOPE I HELPED! ASK ME NE THING... NE TIME! XOXO, ALEX

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im 16 and been with my bf for about 7 months
and lately he's asked me to give him a blow job
he's my first bf and im not sure what's the best way is there a certain way guys like it?
And his penis is quite big will that matter?

hEy Hun!!! well... lemme just say that dont feel obligated 2 give him head if u dont want 2... dont make it be a chore... it should be pleaseurable 4 bOTh of ya! well... instead of me telling u some good "cock sucking techniques" my friend reffered this website 2 me... and if definately helped me the 1st time i went down on a guy! LoL! as for the size of his penis... dont like they say: size dosent matter... LoL so it shouldnt be 2 difficult! so hOpe I hElPeD ya OuT! ask me ne thing... (ne time!)http://www.sex-project.com/blowjobs.shtml
xOxO, aLeX

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ok me and my friend like the same guy and he is hotttt i mean burning hott and im afraid to tell him because i think he might over react and i really want to tell him because i think he might like me and if he doesnt i think he might like freak out or something and im like freaking out and scared to see how he will take it and when we go sit on the floor he trys to sit between me and my friend so im starting to think he likes both of us sorry its so long so please help me

.:*CoNfUsEd*:.

heY! this can defiately be a hard situation.... but remember the mOTTO: chIcks be4 dIcKs! This is just going 2 end up in a jealous fight (believe me) no matter who this Hottie might "pick" it will def. ruin ur friendship. guys come and go.... but friends r there 4ever. i kno it can be hard because i've been in this situation be4 but.... in the long run it will be worth it! i kno that this probably wasnt thr answer u wanted 2 hear and i kno this can be hard... but try 2 convince ur buddy that u should both go 4 diff. guys. but flirting is NOT a crime! (keep this guy in mind for later! she might find another guy who is ever so gorgeous!)
hope i helped! xOxO, aLeX

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Theres this girl at my church who also goes to my school. No one sits with her at lunch, and im absolutly sure she doesnt have any friends. She might have some problems, im not sure. (Mentally)
Thing is i know my friends would make fun of her because she looks different. Its eatting away at me everyday to think i could be making her life better. i rate. *Megz*

heY hUN! well thats super sweet of u 2 be concerned about this girl! i couldnt imagine having no friends and sitting alone at lunch everyday! that would be so humuilating! ur right.... u could make her life better! now... i'm not saying u have 2 become bff wit her and call her every night and have sleepovers with her... just cuz u feel bad 4 her but u should definately acknowldge her. if she goes 2 ur church that should make it easier for u 2 talk 2 her one on one. ask her about her fav. bands, stores and sports.... say hey 2 her in the halls and maybe even invite her 2 sit with u at lunch! (believe me she will WORSHIP u for that) if ur worried what ur friends will think... dont! if she maybe has some mental problems then they definately should not be making fun of her. convince them that this girl is pretty cool and she obviously has a hard life so try 2 be nice 2 her! Ur a SwEEtHeArt! hope i helped! xOxO, aLeX

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ok, I just recently dumped my bf of three months. I'm 13/f, and I felt really bad about dumping him. I had thought about it all the time. On the school bus he acted fine, but I could tell he was hurt. I also heard a nasty rumor about him. (it's soo gross) But I kind of dumped him for that, and feel so rude. So at the dance, he asked me to dance, I said sorry for dumping him. We danced, and it was awesome. We're back together again. So...

1. Did I make the right decision?
2. Should I believe the nasty rumor?
3. WILL SOMEONE HELP ME?

welll... huN thats kinda up 2 u about makin the right decision.... if u like him, have fun with him and have some physical attraction 2 him then u probably did... but if ur just going out with him cuz u feel bad 4 dumping him then probably not... well the RuMor? haha what is it? LoL... well u shouldnt believe anything until u acually hear it from HiM. ask him about it.... u may feel uncomfortable... but then you'll never know! HoPe I hElPed! ask me ne thin ne time! xOxO, aLeX

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hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case?

hey hun how are you? well first i just wanted 2 say that if ur so nervous about having sex.... then maybe u shouldnt. trust me waiting till ur ready is the best thing ever! and condoms are 99% effective (if used right) so just make sure that u wear one uno 1, 1 ,1,1,1,1,1, condom! because waring 2 it will definately break. and if u think u r ready and r still worried about the pregnency thing.... then try birth control. dont freak either if ur under 18... cUz u can get it free and even better.... WITHOUT your parents knowing! LoL! gOOd LuCk! Hope i helped! ask me ne thing... ne time! xOxO.... aLeX

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