Question Posted Wednesday September 22 2004, 5:54 pm
hey im 13 years old. i'd say im pretty mature for my age [many ppl have also told me]. well i was wondering.... am i too young to have sex? i kno ur supposed to wait 4 'the rite guy' or the one 'u love' and when 'ur older' and all that but..i dont kno i just dont think that thats al rite sometimes. i dont want you to get me as a slut or whatever because im not, im just going through hard times i guess. have u ever had sex? if so how did it feel, and whats ur advice on the first time? i kno that was a personal question so u dont have to answer it if u feel uncomfortable, but it wud help me so much if u did. so do u think that i cud haddle being sexually active?
xoxo,
ryanne
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? blondebombshell33 answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 7:47 pm: rYaNNe~
HeY sWeEtIe! well i'm really glad that you asked me this question. Most people would say that 13 IS to young to have sex... but thats going 2 have 2 be up 2 u... the question is... r u ready? do u kno about all the risks/responsibilties that come with sex? stds, pregnency.... etc... i definately dont think ur a slut... cuz when i was 13.... i defiantely was super curious about sex.. but knew i wasnt ready. i was still a child! i didnt want one of my own! to answer ur question.. i am not a virgin. the first time.. it kind of hurt because my cherry wasnt popped (that sounds so funny!) but after the 1st couple of times... it felt normal (aka great! haha) i was super nervous.. but i think every1 is the first time. the question is... who would be the guy that u would have sex with? r u in a relationship? or do u just want 2 loose ur virginity just 2 loose it? Ur always going 2 remember ur 1st time... so make it special.. do it because u want 2... not because ur forced! and make sure that your going 2 feel comfortable. when i lost my virginity... i was in a relationship with my bf... but sex changes relatinships... sex iis a big responibilty so u have 2 be willing 2 take on that responsibility of having safe sex. so that is totally up 2 u if u think u could handle being sexually active.. ur right u r mature and i'm glad ur worried about all these things 2 prepare ur self for sex. sOOO... if u need anymore info please feel free 2 ask me ne thing! oRR.. u may add me 2 ur buddy list! alglitz03 i hope i helped and good luck Hun! xOxO, aLeX! [ blondebombshell33's advice column | Ask blondebombshell33 A Question ]
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