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okay so im a virgin but all i can think about is having sex with my crush. its always on my mind. is there something wrong with me?! or is that actualy normal.. (im 16/f) HELP :/

Normal. I do it all the time. Like Now.***************************************************

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Well this guy, he asked me out and then we dated,for a week and a half, until i kinda realised he was getting closer to my friend, Emma.I talked to him on msn and asked him if he liked her, but he didnt say anything and then i go Look i dont care about anything, all i want to know is do you still love me? and he goes Look there is no point, you have lost my trust what more can you lose? and i go I just want to know Do you like Emma? and he said Im sorry i cannot go out with you anymore. and he dumped me. Then next week he just looks at me alot. Today we were playing volleyball and he would look at me alot and yeah. And my friend is in his roll call class and she said he looks upset in roll call class..Please help!! and also he is a goth

Cool! Goth! Ok the same thing happend to me. The guy that i was like IN LOVE with dumped me 3 weeks later and now he flirts with me and my best friend Amber! This may seem stupid but what I am doing is just letting nature take its course!

-Green Day Rockz

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Can anyone give me all-or most of Paris Hilton quotes? No websites please, just type. Unless the websites have all of the quotes i'm looking for. Thanks in advance!

"Thats Hot." - Paris Hilton

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OK...Say you really LOVE the sport Basketball...you have been offered to join the freshmen team (but ur a 7th grader)...You wanna play but you dont like the coach...Everyone Says he is a Pervert.Also 8th graders that u have played Basketball with in the Past get mad because you were offered To Be on a Freshmen team..(8th graders are post to be you Bffs??).well..what do i do??..TRy to live with it and play for him?...or Go to a different high school and play for them..Thanks

Ok this might see weird but when I played basketball my coach was the same way but with a little more problem. See I had a teacher who had a boyfriend who was going out with my bball coach. And it turned out that he was a sexual harraser and he had got a FAKE basketball contract that said he was certified to make kids practice for basketball and they didnt find out until like a year later. But anyway if he tries anything kick him in the balls and call the police.

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Can anyone tell me what the song "she" by greenday is about?

Its About This girl that Billie Likes Basically. She can't find her self inside and I think his ex girl friend gave him the poem and he turned it into a song! :) I LOVE GREEN DAY!!!

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We need to come up with some shirts for our cheer squad. Does anyone have any ideas? Our mascot are the Bobcats and our school colors are maroon and white. Thanks alot!

COOL! Our Colors Are MAROON AND WHITE TO! But our mascot is an OWL.

But you should have like "Are you ready to be an (name of county) Fan? Yes We Are!"

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What do you do when you feel like you have no life and all your best friends have moved on with out you...? i mean i still have friends but not the ones i used too... they say that they miss me and that they want us to still be close and all this but it seems they never try as hard as i do to fix things... no calls...no invites... nada... i feel so alone... and on top of that .. my love life has completely and utterly became trash.. i mean there ppl that like me.. and the 1 person i like likes me but is older and could possibly be movin on as i write this.. but im just so confused as to what i should do... lol i wish i knew how to take my own advice... :-p

I feel the same way.....no one cares....they look at me being emo as a label....which is NOT tue... I have always been emo...the guy I like likes my other emo friend..there for does not like me....which he might....I don't know anymore! So....are you still alone? Nope. I am 13 and you can I/M or email me at Darkness4life@hotmail.com if you have time or just wana talk. and yeah I am a girl. :(

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can anyone buy hydroxycut? if you have any stories to share about people you know who used it please share. i am a 17/f who is 200 lbs. i reeeally want to try this.

I would do the work out deal cause I watched on 60 minutes that this girl took diet pills and she had like some form of magets or something eating her insides out! :o!

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Ok, I just started doin' volleyball again after about two weeks of school volleyball being over. But I noticed my first practice that I started to thin up and my stomach muscles started to hurt real bad. And this morning when I woke up ((I had practice yesterday for 2 hours)) and my sides were trimmed. And I did school volleyball for two months and never had this effect. And I don't think they're workin me harder than in school, ((we were the champions of our county)) Is this normal? I like that its happening, but if it's because of something unhealthy i need to know!

13/f

Perfectly Normal. You're just trimming up that excess fat! :)

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I recently babysat for one of my husband's coworkers for a few days. After seeing a few warning signs, I'm beginning to think that the children are not being taken care of and that she may be abusing them.

This woman brings the children out in freezing weather with no jackets. She drops them off with no supplies. The children don't appear to have been bathed. They have severe, untreated diaper rash which leads me to think they're not being changed like they should. I've also noticed bruises on one of the children. It could be from bumping something, but from the look of the bruises I suspect the child was hit. When I feed them, they act like they haven't been fed in a while.

I've tried talking to her, but she told me it was none of my business. I'm worried what might happen if I don't do something. Should I call social services and report my suspicions?

YES! Report it! It Doesnt Matter what the parents say do it! but first get photos to have proof!

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I can't understand why my fiance is ALWAYS in the MOOD, all the time 24/7 he HAS TO HAVE IT! He gets angry when I say no, yells at me and claims I'm cheating on him. Why can't he understand that EVERY DAY 2-3 times a day is TOO MUCH! I love him to death, but he's killing me.

Dear Killing Me,

Your Fiance sounds like trouble in the future. You should either tell him that No means No and that he's only using you for sex. Which is true. The more he gets by with telling you what to do and when to do it. It can sooner or later turn into a HUGE problem. So Talk to him or you need to get rid of him. :)

-Green Day Rocks

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It all started when I put on my away message “ YOUR DUCH A DUMB FUC* HAPPY ONE YEAR” and my ex-boyfriends girlfriend saw it. That away message was to my ex boyfriend lets call him *jack” jack and I went out for 7months and it was our one year anniversary 11.06.05 so that’s why I put an away message like that.


His girlfriend lets call her “Jane” she saw my away message and got really pissed and sent me an email on my space. It was saying that if I don’t get over jack that I’m going to get jumped pretty much so I thought we settled everything but I thought wrong. My friend lets call her “Jen” she rides the bus with me and she has been telling me that Jane is getting a petition going around and seeing who hates me. This is really true she’s not lying I over heard Jane talking about it.

Jane now has 40 people on the petition so 40 people so far hate me. How do I handle her? Should I fight her, leave it alone, talk to her, or make a petition of who hates Jane? But I think its immature she’s doing this so I don’t want to be immature. She’s 16 by the way and I’m 14.

Hi. I am very sorry to hear that. But if you wana get back at her play the same game. Make A petition and have it worded something like this "Please Sign if You Think ____ Is A Fake" or something like that. If the doesnt work steal it from her and make copys or something and turn it in to the priciple.

-Green Day Rockz

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hey um, i dont know what to do anymore because there is this girl that i have liked since like pretty much an exact year ago, and well after the summer i realized i liked her even more, and well everyday that i see her, (every other day not including weekends) i tell her that she looks beautiful and how was her day and what did she do, and she gets all mad and tells me to stop. it hurts me alot when she tells me stuff like that, and on top of that almost everyday in class, she talks about alot of other guys in class even though she knows i like her and i sit by her, she is always after seniors when she is a freshman, and she thinks shes mature enough to be dating one. anyways she is always getting her heart broken when guys tell her that she isnt mature or has low self-confidence. one day since were in band drum line, she got on the bus after a game crying and that was the worst thing i have ever seen and i asked her if she wanted to sit next to me and talk about it and she said whatever and sat next to me and told me someone said she was annoying, then her friend got on and asked her if she wanted to sit with her and she just got up and walked off leaving me alone. well anyways in class she tells this guy she loves him and all of this nice stuff even though shes joking around but sometimes i wish i could get that much, and it seems like every guy she meets that isnt a freshman is her next crush i dont know what to do anymore its been a whole year and she still doesnt care i need help.

Awwwww. Thats So sweet. You know. It really amazes me because some girls have no one to treat them like that (like me lol) and some girls think that they can have anyone they want. But the truth is, is when a guy blows her off she will be crying back to you. I'm not trying to sound rude any any way but she isn't worth your time. Believe me I have been there before. If you need any help just Email or I/M me at Darkness4life@hotmail.com

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i have a question im in grade 9 and i hang out with alot of people i no your prob gonna say i shouldnt drink and do drugs and stuff which i no is true so i dont do it often but i do once in awhile but like my parents dont trust me at all and all i want is fur them to trust me they dont think its time fur me to date they dont trust me they make me always call from peoples hosues to make shure imm there.. and like they wont let me go to parties or nething and everyone does i feel so left out.. i just wish they would trust me.. and they always lecture me and get mad at me fur no reason .. wut should i do?

hi there. I have the SAME problem. My mom won't let me date/ go out with any guy. She always checks up on me and I am not allowed to go to any ballgames. So what I did was just ask her why she does those things.

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If you know what you are talking about please answer. I do not want some 13 year old who has no idea about this subject answering for ratings. I will not rate you if try anyway. Please no chatspeak and &hearts as well. Thank you.

I need some advice on frying. When I try to fry whatever food, it comes out greasy and not crispy. Either it is overdone, or it is underdone. It doesn't matter if it is a chicken, homemade french fries, potatoes, you name it I screw it up somehow. I have been trying for a long time, I just can't seem to figure out how to get it right. I use Olive Oil, Canola Oil, any regular frying oil. I try to keep the oil and about 350 degrees and I don't add too much food to the oil to lower the temp drastically. I do not know if it my technique or if it is the oil I am using. Any advice or tips would help greatly.

I am 13. And I DO cook. I know why this is happening. You simply add to much greese. When you take the product out of the pan put a paper towel down on the plate or surface that helps drain greese.

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i just got a new laptop and im giving my old pc to my computer. I want to delete EVERYTHING off of it so it is like a new computer. I've done this before with this "Restore CD" for my e-Machine computer except this time its not working. So now everytime i turn it on it just says "A disk read error occured Press cntrl+alt+delete to restart. I did that on it already and the saME thing keeps coming up. Theres so cd's in the drives so i dont know why its doing this! So can someone tell me what to do about the message and then tell me how to delete everything on my computer? Thanks sooo much she wants within a couple of days so anyhelp is apprectiated greatly!! Dont worry il rate you thank you!

My Computer did the SAME thing. It turns out it was a virus and I had to get rid of my computer cause It fried it... If you want to take a second choice call the computer company and ask them if they will send you another disk. Sorry bout that.

-Green Day...

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ok, bad question...
i am going for my permit on friday, and i have driven once before, but it was in a cemetery, so it was slow...
is driving as hard as it seems?
and when i go for my test, what are good ways to be, not nervous, please dont say "confidense!" lol, i dont have any when it comes to this.

Hey,

I am 13 and I have driven on a highway before and it is EASY. You just gotta know what todo with certain signals. lool

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If you aren't experianced I don't know if you want to read this.

My bf and I have been together for 1 year and 6 months and have been sexual active together for about 4 months.

Well he came over last night and we were fooling around and started having sex. Everything was going fine but then he started getting rough. It was getting to be wayyy too much for me so I told him to not be so hard. He didn't listen and just kept at it.

It got bad enough for me to where I broke out in tears and he still didn't slow down.

When he was about to finish off he took it out and cummed all over me adn my sheets. I usually don't have a problem with that but when we were done (or when he was done anyways) he wouldn't let me clean up. I wanted to take a shower so bad but he wouldn't let me. We just layed there and slept which was very uncomfortable for me because it was gross and sticky.

Now I don't know if I can be comfortable around him. He's never done anythign like this before. he always used to listen while we were in bed adn never went too fast or hard. I don't know what got over him. What should I do? 18/f

1 word.. Rape

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I have a question about this guy that isnt my boyfriend, he is just a friend of mine. Well I was talking to him one day about my grandmother and how she was coming down from her city which is about a 6 hour drive away to see my appartment for the first time. While anyways, after telling him this he said quote " and how is grandma doing"? I thought this was strange since he isnt even my boyfriend to refer to her as "grandma" instead of "your grandma". I mean by the way he said it it sounded like he already thinks of my grandma as his grandma too! Does anyone else find what he said strange? I would never refer to his mom or grandma like that!!

Hey!

This is gonna seem odd but he is like ready to marry you. Go out with him!

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Ok, what are some good topics to give a speech on that will reach the 'hearts minds and souls of your fellow students'. I'm really tryin to think of a topic that will appeal to ALL of the audience (in this case grades 9 to 12), but I cant seem to think of anything that isnt cliche and I dont want to do that. Does anyone know something? I wont talk about rape or child abuse or something because its not really something direct to reach people with. Or how the media influences kids. They'll all be like 'Uh no, whats that got to do with us?' Do you get what I'm saying? And no one is a rapist or has been raped, so, you know, I want something they'll actually listen to, something actually worth talking about. Please help me!

Drugs and Crystal Meth abuse. Thats what I did mine about!

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