Question Posted Wednesday November 23 2005, 9:18 pm
What do you do when you feel like you have no life and all your best friends have moved on with out you...? i mean i still have friends but not the ones i used too... they say that they miss me and that they want us to still be close and all this but it seems they never try as hard as i do to fix things... no calls...no invites... nada... i feel so alone... and on top of that .. my love life has completely and utterly became trash.. i mean there ppl that like me.. and the 1 person i like likes me but is older and could possibly be movin on as i write this.. but im just so confused as to what i should do... lol i wish i knew how to take my own advice... :-p
"What do you do when you feel like you have no life and all your best friends have moved on with out you...? i mean i still have friends but not the ones i used too..."
As people grow and change so do their friends. You are not friendless and have people to hang out with if you wanted to. Invite your old friends out. Be proactive and stop whinning.
"my love life has completely and utterly became trash.. i mean there ppl that like me.. and the 1 person i like likes me but is older and could possibly be movin on as i write this.."
Could possibly be moving on...meaning you don't know that for sure and there is no reason, yet, for you to be making yourself miserable. You state that he likes you, even if he is older, that shouldn't matter. Again, do something instead of whinning about something you should be happy about.
"i feel so alone... "
Why? You have friends and potential old friends to hang out with and an older guy who likes you.
When people are feeling down, for whatever reason, all the things in your life just seem crappy. I think that you are feeling down and looking at what you have as crappy. It's not. You're not hopeless and really maybe just need to get out and go do something. Ask the guy if he wants to go see a movie. Call your old friends and ask if they want to go shopping.
DeadMemories answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 11:22 pm: I feel the same way.....no one cares....they look at me being emo as a label....which is NOT tue... I have always been emo...the guy I like likes my other emo friend..there for does not like me....which he might....I don't know anymore! So....are you still alone? Nope. I am 13 and you can I/M or email me at Darkness4life@hotmail.com if you have time or just wana talk. and yeah I am a girl. :( [ DeadMemories's advice column | Ask DeadMemories A Question ]
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