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i have a question im in grade 9 and i hang out with alot of people i no your prob gonna say i shouldnt drink and do drugs and stuff which i no is true so i dont do it often but i do once in awhile but like my parents dont trust me at all and all i want is fur them to trust me they dont think its time fur me to date they dont trust me they make me always call from peoples hosues to make shure imm there.. and like they wont let me go to parties or nething and everyone does i feel so left out.. i just wish they would trust me.. and they always lecture me and get mad at me fur no reason .. wut should i do?
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you shouldnt do drugs. And parents hae the "sence" for doing whats best for you. Im not totally sure what else but try this.
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What really makes me wonder is when you complain about how unfair it is that your parents don't trust you. Well..don't you think that your drinking and drugs might be at least a few reasons why they don't trust you?
Your parents are being parents when they call where you are suppose to be at and make sure you are there. This is your parents' job whether you like it or not. They lecture you and get mad at you for no reason? Are you high right now? Because you ave to be pretty high to not understand why your parents don't trust you and monitor you the way they do. You drink and do drugs. You really don't deserve trust either, just wait until you become a parent and struggle with what your parents are struggling with today.
-TheTeenGirl
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Oh I'm the same exact way. My mother will not let me do one single thing, you just need to prove to them you are responsible. Have you done anything in the past to not make them trust you? Cause if so, you'll really need to work hard to make them trust you again. Just talk to them. Ask them why they don't trust you and what you can do to make them trust you more because you'd really like to show them that you can be. Explain to them how you don't do anything to make them not trust you. You just need to think of it from their perspective also. Heres there little girl going out to parties and they know what can happen at parties.. drugs, sex ( rape ), all sorts of things and they know all the things that can happen and they just want to protect you and nothing bad to happen to you. I'm sure in the future you'll be doing the same thing with your children. But anyways, even if you talk it out don't go for them allowing all rules just aim for one and slowly go for each one after. Maybe start with dating and work your way up to parties. Maybe even suggest to your preants that they meet your date or something before you go on it and see if they approve and everything. ( or maybe group-dating? ) =] I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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You have to show your parents you are a good kid and that you are trustworthy and responsible. But, the only thing is, you say that you drink and do drugs once in a while. With that said, why would your parents trust you? They know you go to parties and they know what you do at those parties, so they are just trying to keep you safe!
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hi there. I have the SAME problem. My mom won't let me date/ go out with any guy. She always checks up on me and I am not allowed to go to any ballgames. So what I did was just ask her why she does those things.
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