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Q: ok this question doesnt really fit under the category but anyways, when you are kissing like with you tongue are you supposed be moving your lips too?
A lil bit-trix

Q: are you starving yourself if you eat one salad per day?
depends on the size of the salad... but yes your pretty much are eat meat because thats what healthy for you-trix

Q: does anyone know any good web sites that share ideas to prank?
askjeeves or google-com

Q: where is a good place to publish ur poertry?
Ask jeeves and he will give you a bunch of places and contests and ect. -trix

Q: Please tell me what you think: What is better, the truth that brings a tear? Or a lie that brings a smile?

hmm...
I think the truth that brings the tear because at the end of it all it could bring a smile but after the lie brings a smile it will only lead to a tear if it is found out to be lie why survive on false happiness -trix

Q: well I think I am a stylish person but I want to be me not everyone eles. I mean everyone shops at aripostle or whatever but they never used to tell I started wearing it. I mean it was cool for a while but now its like get your oun style
Signed,
wants to be herself
15/f
Go to another store then and when that comes go to another and ect. then after every store goes out... then just bring back the old-trix

Q: well out of all my friends i am the only virgin. they all tell me I should lose but I am not confortible with my body and hate people seeing it i mean I am skinny but its like skin and bones. and I don't know if I am ready. I am only 15 I want to find the right guy firts but I do want to lose it everyone talks about it and i have nothing to talk about I get teased and all the stuff should i lose it and get it over with or wait tell I find Mr right please help
Signed,
VIrgin GIrl
Mr.Right thats all i have to say you shouldnt just follow the crowd cuz as it looks that crowd is going in the wrong direction-trix

Q: Do Guys like to get clothes as birthday presents from their girlfriends?
Well i took the wonderful advice of asking my bf and he said no and i said ok cool but he was firm on that no lol-trix

Q: Okay.. well Ive been with my boyfriend for 16 months (on wednesday) Anyways.. he got drunk last night and cheated on me with his ex.. and he said that he didnt even mean to, he was just drunk.. and that he loved me he just wanted to take a break.. and he came back online, and we were talking.. and it was like.. we were still together.. i mean he still called me "babygirl" and said I love you when he had to leave.. what should i do? :/ Thanks!~
sit down think hard and talk it out with him and maybe take a mini break but not a official one if you understand where i am coming from -trix

Q: Alright, as extremely cliche as this sounds, I have fallen for my best guy friend. We both have seperate boy and girlfriends, and both have expressed the desire to break up with them. (Because we can tell each other everything.) Well, almost everything. Some how over the last year I have fallen for him, hard! He's really understanding but I don't want to ruin our friendship if he doesn't like me that way. I have turned down a lot of guy friends and I know how awkward it feels to be around them. But it would feel so goood to get it off my chest.

Any advice? If I should tell him.. how?
well if he is your best guy friend then you shouldnt have any problem telling him or maybe you could tell him thru a email or letter or something so its a bit easier or have a friend do it-trix

Q: hi..i got a bf but he got another gurl friend what should i do? i wana break up with him and hope he could accept it easily.what should i say to him? even i wana break up,but i still wana be friend with him forever
tell him how you feel cuz he is obvisully cheating on you-trix

Q: If anyone knows a really good place to publish poems, let me know. also, if anyone has been published let me know, i would love to read them.
xo_always-Kerri
I've gotten my poems published but i dont remember where from go to www.askjeeves.com and ask for contests and you can win money cuz i did-trix

Q: i have these 2 friends one of them (we'll call her trina) is VERRRRRRRY BOSSY the other (we'll call her haley) does every thing trina says it started bugging me so i told haley why do you let trina boss you around. she said i don't let her boss me around. so finally she told trina about what i had said so then trina was mad at me so i said (she started it cuz she was being mean to me) what happened to your lackey and she started saying stuff like she's not my lackey etc. the next day i won highest GPA in 5th grade (im only 11) and they got even more jealous so now i haven't called them and they haven't talked to me. but haley sent me an e-mail saying YOU ARE WEIRD(about seven times) and the bottom line said YOU ARE REALLY WEIRD. so i forwarded back to her. what do i do. and is you took the time to read this THANKS if you will please rate me too my name is coolgirl57 (you don't have to rate me)
Well try and talk it out with them i know this probably has happaned to about everyone really so just talk it out with them-trix

Q: How exactly do you french kiss?
Ask the french ppl! naw im jk just use your tounge and i guess just move your tounge you cant really.. say how to do it but when it comes time... you'll know-trix

Q: ok surfer hair is in style for the boys.. but wut kinda hair is in for the girls? answer asap! thanks
here its the long straight hair-trix

Q: Emotions

I feel as if i'm outside myself watching life. It feels so stange, like a cat in new land.
YOu think I have no emotion, then you don't know me. If you could understand me, just listen you can hear my thoughts. The volume is always hight never quiet.
my smile is automatic, like a machine programed.
I want to tell you more, I want you to understand.
I don't know who I am. Too many voices. too many emotions.
I feel so lost! No one understands. I'm so insecure just waiting for your secure.
I reach out, I yell but my arms don't move not a sound escapes my mouth.
I'm so alone, So many voices, so many emotions....
Copyright ©2004 Kathleen Janette Bare

Is this a good poem? Let me know. I just wrote it.
Well i hope this isnt how you feel that would be sorta bad but the poem is good-trix

Q: im gettin braces in like 2 days, and i was wondering
does it hurt when they put them on?
or does it hurt more a fefw days later?
Well from what i know braces dont hurt unless the wire breaks like 5 of my friends have braces but thats where you got the wax and ect.-trix

Q: I just called my boyfriend and he's moving! I know I'm only 11 but I really like him. I've known him for a while and we just started going out a few months ago. We're not breaking up but I don't know. Will the relationship work out? He's got my # and he said he'd call me that way I can get his number when he moves. I know I could write him and maybe, if my parents would let me, visit him in the summer. But what do you guys think?
I would wait it out and see if it works out cuz if you truely like this person then you should keep this person because you shouldnt let go of something speacial... and you never no... this could be the one.. weather your young or not.. -trix

Q: ok ive never been kissed before and all my friends have been kissed and i was at a party a while ago and we were play truth or dare but only truth cuz there wasnt any guyz or w/e but then like it came to me and they asked who my first kiss was w/ and i said ive never been kissed and they all laughed and i felt sooo stupid i just wanted to leave cuz i was so embarassed and i know im not pritty n stuff so i know i wont get my first kiss for a while but im just sooooo scared tho to i dont know its just like i was up north and this one guy ((ive known him for a while)) and we havent seen eachother for a while and we talked to catch up on stuff and he said he liked me again and then he started asking me about kissing and stuff and i kinda turned him down but now i totally regret that cuz i rilly like him to and its just every time some guy wants to kiss me im afraid i dont know why i am its just i feel stupid when ive never kissed a guy.. how can i not be afraid and just kiss the right guy? help pleeeeez!! thanx!
i would wait for the right guy to come around and if you friends laughed at you they arent very good friends and just saying your waiting and you want it to be speacial so you are waiting and maybe when you go back up north you can kiss that guy or something-trix

Q: Ok, I think i have an eating problem but i`m not sure. I have a tremendouse fear of gaining weight and i honestly can`t help it. I`m starting modeling soon and so I feel like I HAVE to look thin. I`m not eating period and my friend`s are starting to notice so when they make me eat I throw it up. My boyfriend says he`ll quit doing drug`s if i start eating again wich mean`s the world to me but everytime i start eating again I start crying in fear of gaining weight and throw it up then feel terrible. I don`t think i have an "eating disorder" but it`s kind of hard to tell when all of your friend`s are "concerened" that your loosing weight and your starting to look "sick". They say i`m starting to look to skinny, I have bag`s under my eye`s, and i`m getting pale. I can`t eat properly it`s just to hard. I`ve been extreamly depressed latley. Do I have an eating disorer? Someone help me please !!

Signed
A cry for help
After you eat go jogging or running or walking or whatever and then after running joggin or walkin dont sit down let your heart rate drop first and then go about your progress-trix

bio
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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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