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What do i do FRIEND PROBLEMS


Question Posted Monday July 5 2004, 11:56 am

i have these 2 friends one of them (we'll call her trina) is VERRRRRRRY BOSSY the other (we'll call her haley) does every thing trina says it started bugging me so i told haley why do you let trina boss you around. she said i don't let her boss me around. so finally she told trina about what i had said so then trina was mad at me so i said (she started it cuz she was being mean to me) what happened to your lackey and she started saying stuff like she's not my lackey etc. the next day i won highest GPA in 5th grade (im only 11) and they got even more jealous so now i haven't called them and they haven't talked to me. but haley sent me an e-mail saying YOU ARE WEIRD(about seven times) and the bottom line said YOU ARE REALLY WEIRD. so i forwarded back to her. what do i do. and is you took the time to read this THANKS if you will please rate me too my name is coolgirl57 (you don't have to rate me)

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 1:49 am:
Well try and talk it out with them i know this probably has happaned to about everyone really so just talk it out with them-trix

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ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Monday July 5 2004, 7:40 pm:
Well hunnie,unfortunately,some people are just gonna act that way,especially at your age,where you're really trying to figure out where you fit in and everything.You did the right thing by saying something to "haley" and trying to watch out for her.Unfortunately,she can't see that all you were trying to do is help,she only sees "trina's" point of view.Eventually they will realize what a great friend they had in you,so I would just let them be on their way for now and enjoy some time with the friends who appreciate you and are less drama!Congrats on the award!See,you're a smart girl,you'll be just fine! ;)

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cowgurl answered Monday July 5 2004, 3:02 pm:
<font color=lightblue><big>listen sweetie. sum ppl are just like that. U know braty and immature. id say find new friends that wont treat u like crap. Its not ur fault ur smart! them bn jealous over supthin like that is just stupid! congrads on ur gpa by the way. Ne way, if u still want to be there friends then id say talk to them and tell them that ur sorry but u thik that trina is to bossy and that haley needs to kinda stop followin orders from her. I know how u feel but just kinda work through this together. Good Luck
*Melody

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Diamond answered Monday July 5 2004, 2:55 pm:
well you should have better freinds then that. freinds who do that, are not a good freind(s) so make new freind. and if they keep sending you e-mails ignore them. its the best thing to do
*Diamond*

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TexasBaby07 answered Monday July 5 2004, 2:44 pm:
you cant really do anything else... i mean you stood up to what you saw was wrong.. w/trina bossin haley.. n now they are re-acting to it becuz you have steaped up to bein the bigger person... n if they cant see that you were only tryin to help them to make the friendship last longer then you just need to leave them behind and hang out w/your other friends!!! oh n good job on winning the highest GPA in the 5th grade!! keep it up n ya could go to ANY collage you want!! well i hope that helped n have a fun n safe day!! xoxoxoxo -Kayla

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Monday July 5 2004, 1:28 pm:
hi, well i dont see anything wrong here...i mean u were tryin to help haley n haley goes n tells trina b/c prolly she's a fallower...n does wut other pppl do n wut ppl tells her 2 do...well if you still wanne b friends trust me its not a good idea b/c i've had a jelous friend n i ended up forgivin her all the time n she would do similar mistakes all the time...she never wanted my best so...i figured out ppl who hatin n are jelous never want ur best...so just ignore them dont go to their level...n make new friends n move on ;) good luck xoxo effy

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CrzyLilBrittBritt answered Monday July 5 2004, 1:21 pm:
I think it is really immature of haley to send such an email.I dont think you should of asked where her lacky was.I think you should apologize if u want to be friends with them again(Even if u didnt do nething it still helps a bunch)Good luck babe
*brittbritt

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