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Question Posted Monday July 5 2004, 10:57 pm

Alright, as extremely cliche as this sounds, I have fallen for my best guy friend. We both have seperate boy and girlfriends, and both have expressed the desire to break up with them. (Because we can tell each other everything.) Well, almost everything. Some how over the last year I have fallen for him, hard! He's really understanding but I don't want to ruin our friendship if he doesn't like me that way. I have turned down a lot of guy friends and I know how awkward it feels to be around them. But it would feel so goood to get it off my chest.

Any advice? If I should tell him.. how?


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DarkmanX answered Thursday July 8 2004, 5:15 pm:
You should tell him If he is a good friend then he won't be bothered by it. He might feel the same way that you do.

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 1:58 am:
well if he is your best guy friend then you shouldnt have any problem telling him or maybe you could tell him thru a email or letter or something so its a bit easier or have a friend do it-trix

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ElainaAkaLilMama answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 11:46 pm:
I think you should tell him straight forward.. and see if he feels the same.. hmm maybe yall are ment to be you never know until you take that chance.

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selectopaque answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 10:30 pm:
Is there any way you could sort of find out if he feels the same way about you without actually asking him? Maybe flirt a little and see how he reacts.

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 9:25 pm:
well dats a tought one there...may b u should write him a note how u feel...n tell him everything in the end also mention that if he feels weird bout it u understand...n its ok tell him to pretend that he dont know who wrote it...that its "his lil secret admire" dats it...i hope it works...hope i helped ;) xoxo effy *best wishes*

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JamesBaybiGurl answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 8:24 pm:
Oh my goodness lol..same thing happened to me too..but we kinda decided to stay friends because it would b awful to loose a friend over a relationship!
-Stephanie

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CrzyLilBrittBritt answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 7:01 pm:
Since he is your bestfriend i dont think the friendship would be ruined if u told him.I kno how hard it is to hide secrets that u r dying to let out.U may want to think about it tho.But i think you should tell him.So u can like u said get it off ur chest.Much <33

*BrittBritt

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