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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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Hey guys =D here's my question.. there's this girl @ my school, we're pretty good friends. A couple of days ago, she told me she liked me in a more then friends type of way. Problem is i'm a girl & i don't swing that way. I want to tell her that i'm not attracted to her in that way, but i don't know how to do that without hurting her feelings... any ideas would be great! thanks!

Just tell her that you rather be friends, because your straight. I'm sure she'll totally understand. Try setting her up with another girl, that's bi or a lesbian then maybe she'll be happy.
♥ Krissy

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I have this in school and I would consider her one of my best friends. She has a boyfriend and I really like her boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I have asked some of my friends that don't know her but they tell me the same thing, don't do anything. I wouldn't want to lose her as a friend so I won't do anything. But know what if they break up and he likes me? do I go out with my best friends ex-boyfriend??

thanx

I wouldn't take the chance of screwing up a friendship over a guy. Your friendship is worth so much more then some guy you like. There will always be other guys, but never a bestfriend like the one you have.
♥ Krissy

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hey!
just something kinda quick...i'm fifteen, and a few years ago i had this depression thing going on...lately i've been feeling kind of out-of-touch with people, as in, not really willing to say what i personally feel about something, and not willing to show any emotion. maybe it's a normal teenage thing to do, but maybe not. what do you think/think i should do?
thanks1

I know how you feel. I was like that when I was your age too. I would never tell anyone about my problems, or show any kind of emotion. I just kept everything inside. It's kidda hard to just drop something like that, just within a snap of your fingers. It's gunna take sometime. What I felt is that I couldn't trust anyone, thats why I couldn't tell them what I personalty felt about something. But, with your friends, you should feel like their gunna trust you. If you tell them something, their not going to go behind your back and tell someone else or laugh in your face about it. That is not what friends are. Just try to open up to people more and try your hardest to say what you personally feel. I finally got through that stage, I think it's something everyone goes through. Hope I helped a little hun. Good luck.
♥ Krissy

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hey i was wondering if anyone has ANY really good sites w| LOTS of quotes!?!? (*i rate high =]) thanx !

http://www.holliesquotes.com/ is a great site, with lots of awesome quotes!
♥ Krissy

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i'm 5'1 and i'm really short compared to my friends, its kinda embaressing since i use to be taller than most of them.. what can i do to grow taller? no pills or w/e

I'm a shorty too. I'm only 5''3, but it's totally great. I was like you also. I grew up before all the rest of my friends and were taller then them all. Now, their all much taller then me. I just wear highheals, or shoes with a couple of inchs on them.
♥ Krissy

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well i have been talking to this guy for like a week now and we talk about everything. i mean everything. and i want to like talk to him about dating in stuff, but im not sure if i should. or what to say.
help please!

Just tell him that you like him and you were wondering if he wanted to go to the movies with you.
♥ Krissy

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how long does waxing "down there" last? not like the proccess of waxing... like how long until you have to get waxed again... thanks... i rate 5

Most waxing down there last at least a week, 2 at the most. It all depends on your hair growth and such down there.
♥ Krissy

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Is it normal to be best friends with a girl you've known for half-a year?? This girl and I met in eighth grade this year, and I've become very attached to her. We're both best friends and we tell each other everything. We're like sisters. Is that normal to be this close after a short time??

Yah. It's totally normal hun. It's awesome that you guys only been bestfriends for half a year and you trust her with anything! =)
♥ Krissy

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heu guys! any help would be appreciated... for the past couple months i've been getting really bad headaches, and it hurts to look at light or hear noises and stuff. Well I think they might be migraines. I try to tell mom but she won't listen. Is there anything i can do at home to make them better? and medicine doesn't work...

I get really bad headaches too. What I do is go in my room turn off all the lights and go to sleep. Also you might try taking advil (the gelly green ones), it helps a lot.
♥ Krissy

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Hi its everybodiiez_fool im a columnist too...sry i haven't been updating in the past few days ive just been so caught up in a bunch of shit thats driven my CraZy =(. Me and my boyfriend have been havin some issues. I don't know if he still likes me like he used to becuz he's been acting shady lately and barely calls me. I did something to make him mad on new years eve and i dunno if he's gotten over it even though he said he has. I love him SO much he's my everything and i don't wanna lose him. Can someone just please IM me on AIM or yahoo or msn or w/e and comfort me? =(...my AIM is oOpassion kissez and my yahoo is lushiz_lipsxo my msn is sweetchic77@msn.com...thanks =(.

Aw. I'm so sorry hun. If you need to talk, add me on msn messenger. xokrissy@hotmail.com
♥ Krissy

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ok my best friend had this boyfriend of a year and a half.. they broke up a lil more than 6 months ago and she is still really in love with him... she has only had 3 other boyfriends since him and all the time they have been really good for her but she breaks it off because she is afraid she is gonna get hurt again and then she thinks about how she still likes him.. i dont no what to do anymore.. theres this guy she really seems to like and i want her to go for him but she is too afraid... and i dont no how to tell her she needs to move on... and not let her ex controll the rest of her life... what should i tell her? sorry its so long.. plz help me tho


BTH were 15/f if that helps at all .. dont think it does but yeah...

She's probably holding onto these feelings for this guy because he was her first long-term boyfriend and love. I see you've been trying to help her get over this guy, but nothing is helping. Tell her that no matter what, she's always going to have feelings for this guy. But, if she doesn't start seeing other people, the feelings can't go away. Explain to her, that she should indeed start seeing other people. And that her and her ex weren't ment to be, because if they were, they'd still be together. She's that much closer to finding her Mr.Right. You got to get your heart broken many of times, because you find that one that won't. Maybe get her to write out a pro and cons for her ex. That always helped me out a little. Because, someway, they always write out more things they hate about the person. Then maybe she'll realize that she does have to move on with life and take a chance. Because you never know, this guy you want her to get with, could be the best guy in the world for her.
♥ Krissy

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ok, so i have this really personal problem, i am a 16 year old girl, but i was born with male genatiles. I dont know what to do becuase i have a steady boyfriend, we have been seeing eachother for about 3 months. We have gone to third base( but i gave him pleasure not the other way around)and he told me taht he wants to do the smae for me. Im afraid that if he sees my 'down there area' that he will be grossed out. But i really really love him. Help me, how can i tell him?!
-worried

All I can say is, if he doesn't accept you for who you are, he's not worth it. The only way you'll know if he does, is tell him about it. He's gunna have to find out one way or another. You can't keep putting it off. Good luck hun.
♥ Krissy

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Can anybody help me get a pic on my column please?! if you can please leave your sn!!

All you do is go to "profile settings", then to "Upload a picture of you", click the "browse" botton, upload your picture, then go down the page and click "submit"... and there! You got a picture on your column =)
♥ Krissy

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my best friend new i liked this kid and she still went with him and i told her i still like him nd she like rubes it in my face so i told him... and now she i smad and thinks im stealing him.. wut should i do?

First off. There's a rule that bestfriends don't go after your other bestfriends crush. I think you should stop telling her who you like. Goes to show who you can trust and can't trust. But, it sounds like she might be a little jealous of you getting close to her boyfriend. I don't think you need to explain anything to her, because she's the one who went behind your back and went for your crush. I think you should tell her that she really hurt you because you liked this guy.
♥ Krissy

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Im 14/f and lately ive been have a high amount of white discharge stuff. Ive had my period and stuff..but i don't know if this is normal..is it?? Plz Help!

Oh yah hun. It's totally normal. Don't worry =)
♥ Krissy

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hey i am having a problem me and my b/f ahve been together like3 years noe and he broke up with me and said he was gay now hes flirting with this other girl all the tim she moved about 2 days ago now he wants to get back together i mean i still really like him i just don't want to get hurt again what should i do?

Well, not to be mean or anything, but this guy sounds like an asshole. Either he's a liar or confused about his sexuality. He told you he was "gay" but started flirting with a girl? That doesn't sound to gay to me. He could have been trying to let you down easy without hurting your feelings. Even though I know he probably did. Hun, I'm sure you don't need a guy like that. There is a lot more fish in the sea. He sounds like he just wants to get back with you because this girl moved away. You should give it sometime and see if he really does want you for you. And if it's ment to be, he'll find his way back to you.
♥ Krissy

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What is the #1 thing a man can do to make himself more attractive?

What is generally the least attractive thing about a man?

I think the #1 thing would be, to be himself and what's more sexier then a man being a man and not acting like a little kid. Also when a guy smiles, that has to be the most attractive thing. Least attractive would probably be acting like a jerk. Why would a girl want a guy like that?
♥ Krissy

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okay, there is this kid named Tom, Tom is annoying beyond belief but hes my neighbor and our parents are real tight. moving on.. he was flirtin n touchin (he was like touchin her back n lookin at her thong) this girl named Sara. well Sara got extremely annoyed and asked her boyfriend to beat up Tom. whenever i stick up for tom, he jus blows it off nd whenever i tell him to stop being annoying, he denys it. ive tried calmy talking to him but HE DOESNT GET IT. so here is my question: do i stick up for Tom and have him totally ignore it, or do i let him get beaten up and learn his leason.

It's nice that you've been sticking up for this kid, but sometimes they have to learn for themselfs. Keep being a friend and being there for him, but if he's not listening to what you have to say - let him learn his lesson himself. Sometimes people have to learn the hard way.
♥ Krissy

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Me and my bofriend, Rob, have been going out about a month. We dated for about 2 months b4 I asked him out. It seems whenever we hang out its boring. He's already told me he loves me and wants to marry me. We're 16 and 17 btw. I recently met this guy named Ed. He seems cool and everything. Before Ed, everything with Rob was fine but since I met Ed the stuff between me and Rob seems boring and predictable. So my question is should I dump Rob and persue Ed or should I stay with Rob and see what happens?

Well, if your really not happy with Rob, dump him. It's not good to be in a relationship and like someone else, not fair for the guy your with. Maybe you just need sometime to yourself and think things out. Girls can get confused sometimes. Just give it time to see who you like more. Or maybe you could do some exciting things with Rob and make your relationship more worth while.
♥ Krissy

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theres this random guy that hates me for no reason...he says im annoying but i dont talk to him...and yesterday he threw an egg or something at my window...what can i do to get him back so that i wont get in (much) trouble?

Put crap on his door step =)
♥ Krissy

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