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hey i am having a problem me and my b/f ahve been together like3 years noe and he broke up with me and said he was gay now hes flirting with this other girl all the tim she moved about 2 days ago now he wants to get back together i mean i still really like him i just don't want to get hurt again what should i do?
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Well, not to be mean or anything, but this guy sounds like an asshole. Either he's a liar or confused about his sexuality. He told you he was "gay" but started flirting with a girl? That doesn't sound to gay to me. He could have been trying to let you down easy without hurting your feelings. Even though I know he probably did. Hun, I'm sure you don't need a guy like that. There is a lot more fish in the sea. He sounds like he just wants to get back with you because this girl moved away. You should give it sometime and see if he really does want you for you. And if it's ment to be, he'll find his way back to you.
♥ Krissy
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Tuffy I would give him one more chance. After all that was a long relationship. But then again i dont know if i would.. he said he was gay? maybe he is just bi. I dont know I would talk to him like 5 hours straight and get everything straightned out!-trix
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Okay well i'm a bit confused. First he tells you he is gay, then he starts flirting with another girl... and now he wants to get back with you? I'm not sure who is more confused, me, you, or him. Obviously he doesn't know what he wants, i mean if he thinks he is "gay" then why was he flirting with another girl and why does he want to get back with you? For some reason i think that he used that as an excuse. I'm not sure why he would do that, but with the information you gave me thats the best answer i can give about that. if he was actually gay he wouldn't want to be with you nor would be be flirting with another girl. It sounds to me that maybe you guys just need some time away. He may have used being gay as an excuse for you guys to break up without hurting you... maybe he wanted to get to know this other girl and didn't want you to think this was the reason, so that is why he told you that hes gay. 3 years is a logn time to be together especially when you are still somewhat young. Maybe You both should take some time to date around alittle and then decide weather or not you want to be together. Try meeting new guys, see what else is out there, you may be pleasantly surprised at what you find. Trust me, if you don't date around now, you will regret it later. I'm sure you really like him, and i totally understand that you don't want to get hurt. So take a chance and look around a little, then if your still not satisfied and want to get back with your boyfriend talk to him and tell him your concerns about being hurt then discuss getting back togethr from there. I hope i could help just a little!
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Look this guy sounds really confused (or he is a liar). Since I dont know any specific details all I can say is be careful, I figure the chance of getting hurt again is pretty high. If you really really do want to get back with him, at least sit him down and explain your concerns to him- if he is a nice guy he should take the extra time to consider your feelings in this.
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