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ok my best friend had this boyfriend of a year and a half.. they broke up a lil more than 6 months ago and she is still really in love with him... she has only had 3 other boyfriends since him and all the time they have been really good for her but she breaks it off because she is afraid she is gonna get hurt again and then she thinks about how she still likes him.. i dont no what to do anymore.. theres this guy she really seems to like and i want her to go for him but she is too afraid... and i dont no how to tell her she needs to move on... and not let her ex controll the rest of her life... what should i tell her? sorry its so long.. plz help me tho
BTH were 15/f if that helps at all .. dont think it does but yeah...
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She's probably holding onto these feelings for this guy because he was her first long-term boyfriend and love. I see you've been trying to help her get over this guy, but nothing is helping. Tell her that no matter what, she's always going to have feelings for this guy. But, if she doesn't start seeing other people, the feelings can't go away. Explain to her, that she should indeed start seeing other people. And that her and her ex weren't ment to be, because if they were, they'd still be together. She's that much closer to finding her Mr.Right. You got to get your heart broken many of times, because you find that one that won't. Maybe get her to write out a pro and cons for her ex. That always helped me out a little. Because, someway, they always write out more things they hate about the person. Then maybe she'll realize that she does have to move on with life and take a chance. Because you never know, this guy you want her to get with, could be the best guy in the world for her.
♥ Krissy
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