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Q: Ok my friend Candace really likes this boy right. And she is only 14 and she told him she luved him and he told her he did to. But she doesnt know if it was real though. What should she do she is like Luvs him but then she has another boy she luvs to and she luvs them alot the thing is they are cousins. lol..so yeah she likes them both goes out with them both and she can both talk to them really good like there conversations are always good and interesting. and she likes them both alot. but luvs them both. is that even possible? what should i say to her? *she likes them both the same way and she luvs them both??

Well i think maybe she might look to one of them more of the brother figure rather then the boyfriend figure ask her who she see's herself with in a few months or whatever.. i know its a common question but ya have to do it. So tell her to set the pro's and con's of who she likes more and has the better this and better that and who does that better and who makes her feel more speacial or she can be herself more around. and kind take visual notes yourself to see for yourself of what happans and who she looks like she likes more or loves me-trix (((rate me)))

Q: Ok well my parents divorced when I was only 2 years old. I don't see my real dad a lot. Maybe once a year at the most. My mom remarried and has been with this guy (my new step-dad) for about 12 years. He is never nice to me and I don't know how to act around him. At points he is very nice and I can get along with him really well. Other times I think about running away and just never coming back to him. I don't know what I should do to tell him that I need him to be nicer to me and to stop favoring my two little brothers who are his and my mom's children. HELP ME!!

Tell him you know that your not his but you would like to be treated just as your 2 lil brothers because thats not something that you wanted to be treated differently-trix

Q: Okay my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now. One of his really good friends is a girl and she and I don't get along. I dislike her because she has talked trash about him behind his back early on in our relationship telling me that I shouldn't like him, that he's a horrible person and he's a bad kisser and all this mean stuff. She used the fact that she dated hima s an excuse as well. She and I never were really good friends but she and he always have be like good friends. I now realize how hard it is for him. Because we dont like each other. He's told me how she'd make a comment when he would say he was with me or something about me and sometimes I'll admit I would roll my eyes and maybe make a comment when he talked about her. I've realized this is hard for him. I'm not sure if I want to be her friend but I do want to make things easier for him and easier for our relationship because at one point this situationw as a big factor and reason for our fights. And after our last big fight it came up again after it wasnt for like 2 months. I don't know if I should set aside my differences with her or if I should just ignore it? help please!

Well i would try and talk it out with her as hard as it may be because you dont want things to be hard on your bf by any means so try and work things out with her and tell him what you think and hopefully everything will turn out fine. Tell her you know that you and her have your differences you just dont understand why you guys cant be friends in the first place. And it would make things to so much easier then bickering back and forth and talking behind each others backs. As for your boyfriend everytime one of you make a mean comment about each other he should stick up for you guys and back you up and not tell each other what the one other said. I guess yeah its a good part on your behalf but if he tells her what you say that only makes matters worse-trix

Q: hi my friend has been really mean to me, they are starting to beat me up when there in a mood help xx

Tell them to stop unless you already have done that then i would tell someone about that because it could only get worse-trix

Q: Is it ok to eat once a day? That's about the the meals I eat a day.

No you should at least eat 2 meals a day and if you are eating so little you may want to get some help or something like that because thats bad for you-trix

Q: how do you put one in!

Ask a older sister or a parent or soemthing-trix

Q: What car is better Porsche GT2 or Ferrari 575 Marrenello

Ferrari cuz i like them better-trix

Q: There is this boy named Joseph he his really cute and really sweet and im really into him and he is into me to. But see he is friends with one of my friends his name is Donald. And Donald has a little brother named Bryan. Ok see my problem is all three of them like me and want to go out with me. But see i didnt know Donald and Bryan like me till recently. I asked y didnt they say any thing and response was cause joseph wanted to go with you but see i dont know if i want to go with joseph. I think i might want to go out with donald but i cant do that with out one of them finding out and turning into a big mess but i think i really do want to go with joseph what should i do sign~Triple Trouble

Well i go with Joseph because if you didnt no the 2 other boys liked you then you probably would have gone out w/Joseph and he did like you and you knew b4 u knew of the others and you do like joseph so i would go out with him and see what happans from there and if it doesnt work out then it doesnt work out... so be it good luck-trix

Q: hey, how many questions do u need to answer to be a level 2 moderater. and level 3?

I think they just count on the how well your stars are filled in but as far as how many questions you have to answer.. im not sure maybe a 100 or so-trix

Q: well i used to be a awesome writier then all the sudden im gettin 0 on my paper tell me ways to help my writing

Maybe you are getting the full idea of the question to what you writing sometimes that can be a problem for me and others. Maybe ask the teacher to clear it up more for you-trix

Q: My best friend "Cara" is honest. A little too honest. In that sort of brutal way. She tells everyone the truth, but she does it in such a mean way. Me, Cara, & our other friend "Kandi" all went shopping one weekend for swimsuits. I tried on a bikini, & Kandi said I looked great, but that I should get a blue one instead of a pink one. Cara, on the other hand, said that it made me look chubby (even though I'm super thin) & that I should get a one-piece, like she is. Later that day, she criticized me & Kandi bcuz we were pigging out on pizza, while she only ate a salad. Another weekend, me, Kandi, & Cara went to see The Stepford Wives. On our way to Kandi's house, Cara was whining the whole way there. Even Kandi's mom agreed that Cara is a pain in the @$$. I have to see Cara again on Friday. What should I do if she's bitchy to me & Kandi again?

I would tell her.. i bet she would tell you if you were doing this to her and kandi or if kandi was doing it to you and cara but i would tell her because nobody should treat anybody like that-trix

Q: i like guys but I think about gurls a lot.. does that make me gay?

no, your not gay your just bi-sexual-trix

Q: Okay so Im 15 and everytime I go to the beach in my BIKNI I lay down and try to get a tan, but I dont feel right around the other gurls , they gather and sit and talk about me, but althe other guys are trying to ask me outeven 2 years loder than I am.... LOL PLZ HELP ME Thanks Jenipher

You have alot of problems but thats ok its common maybe the other girls are jealous of all the attention the guys are giving u or something like that-trix

Q: Hey everyone 15/m here. Well as you can tell from my title, I just lost a special friend of mine. We used to go out for 3 1/2 months 'til she broke up with me and we've been pretty good friends since then, 'til today. All of this started cause I sent her a text message saying I had sex with another girl, but I really didnt. I just wanted to get an honest reaction from her. And of course she got mad...real mad this time. *sigh* If I knew this would have happened, I would never had done it. I talked to her about it tonight and the end result was that she didn't want anything to do with me, ANYTHING. So I told her if she really wanted it to be that way, I would get rid of all my contacts with her, and I did. I went from maybe getting back together with her(heavy emphasis on maybe), to being absolutely nothing in her life. She just means so much to me that I don't want to lose her, I still wanna marry her if I could. I love her, but I don't think she has any for me anymore. I basically cried my heart out again. Does anybody know what I could do to get her back? I don't wanna lose my angel. ='( Help me please...Life is meaningless to me right now without her.

Write her a letter saying how much you miss her and want her back and she will most likely read it .. its a sure thing.. if you ask me nobody should end a relationship over a joke through a text or not but whatever some people just have there reasons but im sorry to hear about it and i hope everything works out-trix

Q: ARE'NT THERE ANY GUYS OUT HERE?But that was'nt my question.But I do have a problem...Well I think my boyfriend is gay!And I think he's just playing up with me but actually he wants to be with my elder bro.How do i find out if he's gay???

Haha! sorry-anyways casually ask him or get a gay guy to hit on him... like when he is alone.. or so he thinks him and the gay guy are alone.. just watch-trix

Q: Theres this really cute guy down my friends street and his name is Zach , but when I told my friend she kept saying he has a gurlfriend , but when we were playing Basket ball with him and My other friends down the street he just kept staring in to my eyes and when I went to sit down he'd sit with me, What do I do??? HELP ME PLZ JEnipher

Ask him for yourself-trix

Q: hi i need some advice or help on smoking it is a topic i have to write about at work can you help?

Go to askjeeves.com or google and they should give you a bunch of things on that sort of topic and what can lead to it happaning-trix

Q: I no I probably seem pathetic but...what does hor mean? And what does ho mean? Is ho spelt right or is it whoe? I am just wondering b/c I no it means like something along the lines of like a slutty dummy but like what exactly does it mean? Me and my friend were passing out babysitting flyers and these guys in a car came up to us in their car and yelled ho (whoe or w/e). So plz just tell me what it means. No rush, just whenever. THANKZ! :-)

Along the lines of that is anybody who has sex-trix

Q: I have a new bf and al he talks about is Wars , scares and other sicking stuff, but i really dont like him that much, how do I tell him that I am going to break up with him??? PLZ HELP JENIPHER

well just flat out dump him! or you could do it through a friend that could b a lil bit easier or as my bf says... dump him -trix

Q: how can you find out who rated you and what they rated you as?
xo_always-Kerri

Ask i guess but thats all-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"