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Question Posted Tuesday July 6 2004, 6:34 pm

Ok my friend Candace really likes this boy right. And she is only 14 and she told him she luved him and he told her he did to. But she doesnt know if it was real though. What should she do she is like Luvs him but then she has another boy she luvs to and she luvs them alot the thing is they are cousins. lol..so yeah she likes them both goes out with them both and she can both talk to them really good like there conversations are always good and interesting. and she likes them both alot. but luvs them both. is that even possible? what should i say to her? *she likes them both the same way and she luvs them both??


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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 7:20 pm:
Well i think maybe she might look to one of them more of the brother figure rather then the boyfriend figure ask her who she see's herself with in a few months or whatever.. i know its a common question but ya have to do it. So tell her to set the pro's and con's of who she likes more and has the better this and better that and who does that better and who makes her feel more speacial or she can be herself more around. and kind take visual notes yourself to see for yourself of what happans and who she looks like she likes more or loves me-trix (((rate me)))

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HollyAnn2282 answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 3:52 pm:
Alright thats not real love if she thinks she loves both of them! She may like them both but i doubt its love! She needs to pick one of them or dont pick one at all, cuz its not nice to play people like that! Believe me I know how it feels to be played. You just need to let her know that she cant have both of them, she needs to step back and look at them both and decide which one can bring more to the relationship and who would be better for her. and if they both find out what shes doing they wont like it and it'll make even more of a mess! Good luck with your friend
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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 9:17 pm:
def. its not love...its puppy lov...or should i say she think she does but she doesnt...she just prolly likes they way they look n she likes them a lot but not lov! def. not love! anyways tell that gurl to stop pimpin n think bout wut she want n who she wants b4 she looses both! xoxo effy

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xl0r31x answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 8:43 pm:
its completely possible for someone to love 2 people at the same time...but if she keeps going out with both of them one of them or both of them are bound to get hurt... so i think you should let her know that, and if the guys really love her too then they will understand if she has to break it off with one of them. but i think this is more her problem and she will just have to follow her heart ! and don`t worry too much about love.. you`re still young !

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CrzyLilBrittBritt answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 7:20 pm:
Tell her she should only be goin out with one guy.(no1 likes a player)and that she is a little too young to be thinkin bout love.

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